A good man in the eyes of his wife, but he cheated on his first love behind his wife's back. When men repent, apologize, and promise to return to the family, the wife finds that they are still continuing, and whether such a marriage should continue.
Witnesses tell true stories that happened to them.
Narrator: Xiaona (pseudonym), 32 years old, fruit shop owner lady
I come from the countryside of Shijiazhuang, and when I was 24 years old, I went to the city with my friends from the village to work. At my age, I already belong to the elderly girls in the countryside, and I continue to talk about the media every day, but I don't want to get married so early, so I embarked on the road of going out to work.
It is not easy to be outside, I have suffered a lot, I have been scolded a lot, and I have suffered a lot of grievances. Fortunately, at the age of 25, I met my current husband.
I worked at the same restaurant as him and later learned that he and I were from the same county.
When you meet your fellow countrymen outside, you will naturally feel closer, and in the process of slowly getting along, we will gradually develop feelings and finally determine the relationship.
At the end of that year, we both went home and got engaged, and we had a wedding in the spring of the following year.
At that time, he was very kind to me, taking care of me everywhere and everywhere, and buying me gifts for all festivals. I felt spoiled like a princess.
After getting married, we discussed doing something our own, after all, the income from part-time work was a bit small.
Because he has relatives who do fruit business, the income is not bad, and he also passed on some experience, we decided to do the same industry after discussion.
After a period of hard work, the fruit shop really opened. We are both very diligent and not afraid of being tired. Business is getting better and better.
After more than two years of hard work, we took out a loan to buy a house and a car. Later, he also gave birth to a beautiful daughter.
Everything is moving in a good direction, and I am very content with the present day.
But the beauty of all this was shattered by the next thing.
Last year, the little uncle wanted to get married, and the husband returned to his hometown three days in advance to help. Originally planned I wouldn't go back because the fruit shop was too busy. But my mother called me and said that I was not good like this and should go back, after all, I was my sister-in-law.
After much thought, I decided to go back. So I took my hometown's car back to his hometown a day early.
After entering the door, my mother-in-law asked me curiously, why did I come back by myself, and why didn't Dawei (my husband's nickname) come back?
I was surprised and immediately called him. My first thought was if he had a car accident on the road or something. There was not the slightest doubt that he would cheat.
After the phone was connected, he said it would be two hours. Sure enough, after more than two hours, he returned. I stared at him, his eyes filled with panic that had never been seen before.
The woman's feelings are very accurate and I feel like he's done something sorry for me.
When I got home the next day, I started arguing with him and questioning him about what had happened in the past two days. He said he met classmates on the way, drank too much, and stayed with fellow scholars for one night.
From what I know of him, he doesn't stay outside.
I asked him to call his classmates right away, but he didn't. Under my constant questioning, he admitted to having an extramarital affair with his first love, and the woman is now in a state of divorce, living in her house for the past two days.
I felt the darkness all around me, and my heart was hurting the same way.
After that, the two of us constantly quarreled and had cold wars. He kept repenting, deleting the other person, and assuring me.
After two months, I looked at my poor daughter, looked at the hard-won life in front of me, and wanted to give him a chance.
But the day of the crack is the same as the original.
On the day when the relationship eased up slightly, I used his mobile phone to calculate the account, and suddenly received a text message, which was the content of the express hotel's request for a review.
I suddenly became alert, looked through his payment records, and found that several times they were paid to the hotel.
This time, in the face of my questioning, he did not argue any more, and said very frankly that the woman came to him and asked him for a divorce.
After the last heart-wrenching, this time I didn't make a big fuss, only silence. He seemed to be prepared to be separated, and he became less ashamed.
On the one hand, he was distressed about his daughter, and on the other hand, he could not forgive his husband. I am now faced with a situation where I cannot choose.