How to choose my other half| annual million-dollar career male VS Harvard elementary school chief, how to choose this question |||? When I was single, I was afraid to go home for the New Year. Seven aunts and eight aunts, at any time the matchmaker is online, forced marriage scene in minutes. Therefore, I always excuse that I can't go home and reasonably avoid head-to-head confrontation.
One night when I came home for the New Year at the age of 33, my dad said very seriously, when do you plan to take off the order?
I have a firm face: in May, I will give you an answer.
Unexpectedly, in May 2019, there was an unusually difficult choice question in front of me:
🤵 Male player with an annual salary of one million career VS 👨 🎓 Ph.D. is studying at Harvard Elementary School
The former is a year older than me and the latter is eight years younger than me
The former is an executive of a large factory in a certain country, and the latter picks up a hard student who reads at night
The former already earns millions of dollars a year, while the latter is still a nibbling on the older family
The former is a premium stock, the latter is a potential stock...
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Similarities:
All are strong learning ability and strong sense of purpose
Self-disciplined and self-motivated, clean-looking boys
Income is not a special item, but it has the ability to make money
A domineering president possessed, a more like a Korean drama male protagonist, can bring unlimited imagination and possibilities to my life
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So, with this super difficult choice question, I asked my female good friend, and she said that in ten years, the latter will become the former.
If it were you, how would you choose this question?
I did a lot of homework before I formally answered the questions. The following details are for reference only.
1⃣️ My other half needs to have a common topic with me
I have known the career man for 4 years, and he always caters to me to force a topic, and most of the time it is awkward to talk
The first 12 hours of small talk with the primary school principal have been talking for five thousand years, at home and abroad, in the past and this life
2⃣He can understand my madness and make me laugh
Career men use the rigorous and rational logic at work to manage feelings, which makes me feel a little lost from time to time
The elementary school principal has its own humorous attributes, and as soon as it appears, it will make me laugh until I am half dead
3⃣Even love requires equality, respect and appreciation
The career man can see the shadow of him wanting to control me, and his thinking has always had the essence of a straight man of steel - whether I can control you
On the contrary, the principal of the primary school maintained a tacit distance, and encouraged and respected my independence with an attitude of appreciation and support in all aspects
4⃣️ Examine the original family and refer to the way their parents get along
There is no very harmonious relationship between the career male father and the children, resulting in his sensitivity, small inferiority, and even lack of ability to love people
The elementary school principal is in a loving and warm family, and his parents will always be his strongest backing
5⃣️ If you can't completely share the same view, at least know how to communicate and tolerate
Career men are good at pretending to appreciate, and then raising various questions and denials, which is a comprehensive contradiction-like existence
And the age difference with the eight-year-old of the primary school, there is no generation gap and aesthetic faults
6⃣️ The general direction of life tends to be consistent
The princess and the prince finally got married and lived happily ever after...
Author: Celine
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