As the saying goes, the mother is just, the full-time mother is really too admirable, while being able to engage in career while maintaining the family, people are envious and jealous, and can't bear to call out "such a woman is the winner in life".
Dong Sijia, played by Jiang Xin in "Our Marriage", is a full-time mother, and after becoming a mother, she did not choose to take the baby at home, but resolutely went to the workplace. Her enthusiasm and dedication to her work make her never take time off, more diligent than the donkeys of the production team, and she is a well-deserved "full-time mother".
Dong Sijia's dedication to her work has indeed given her certain achievements, Dong Sijia is mixed in the workplace, and no one can say a word about my generation's role model.
But is it really the best way out for women?
It seems that Dong Sijia is indeed a perfect woman and a successful model in the eyes of most people. She had a successful career, was married and had children, had not given up anything because of marriage, and marriage was a gift for her, not a plunder. Compared with the current situation in most Chinese families where women have to give up their jobs and return to their families after giving birth, she can devote herself to the workplace without any worries and her own ability is also excellent.
But behind the invisible is the mess of the family. Husband Li Yuwen complained bitterly, saying that what you want is not what I want, and you don't care about this family at all. Every word is Dong Sijia's disregard for the family and neglect of the child.
"In all these years, you have never taken a vacation for your child"
"That's your world not mine, I want to be liberated"
It seems that as long as you get married and have children, you will face contradictions, and the label will automatically stick to the body. Full-time mothers are labeled as "good and bad, idle, and raised", and full-time mothers are "selfish and unworthy of being mothers".
But women are too difficult, husbands need you to be beautiful as flowers, and let you make money to support the family, society let you contribute, the family let you raise children and raise children. When did a woman become a three-headed, six-armed giant?
Is it true that incapacity can peace be guaranteed? Tonight, Jiang Xin may hand over some answers for women in the Tencent video TV series "Our Marriage"