In recent years, the themes of the workplace and marriage in film and television dramas have become quite popular, and more and more filmmakers have focused on these themes that can be most close to real life, with the intention of making the most realistic TV series, so as to gain more resonance and recognition from the audience.
A few years ago, "Ode to Joy", as well as the previously popular "Thirty Only", all focused on women's marriage and workplace life, and the trade-off between women in the workplace and family has become the focus of everyone's attention.
With the hot launch of "Our Marriage", the choice between marriage and the workplace has once again been pushed into the public eye. At the same time, in a marriage, what role women play and what role they play has also become the focus of the show.
In the return drama, from Shen Yanxing, played by Bai Baihe, to Dong Sijia played by Jiang Xin, and then to Li Xiaotian played by Gao Ye, each of them has a different way of living.
Bai Baihe: Played Shen Yanxing
When Bai Baihe returned with a new drama and saw Shen Yanxing, who played her, the familiar feeling that had once returned, and her acting skills became more and more exquisite.
In the play, the couple of Shen Yanxing and Sheng Jiangchuan is a very typical type of man who earns money to support his family and a woman who teaches her husband and children.
Shen Yanxing could have been able to run in the workplace, but because of the unexpected child, she disrupted all plans, but for love and responsibility, she chose to be a full-time wife for six years without resentment.
If it weren't for the words of her husband after drinking, perhaps Shen Yanxing would never have understood how important financial independence is to a woman. Fortunately, she woke up in time and decided that she must return to the workplace and break out of her own wonderful.
In the first few episodes of the play, Shen Yanxing is indeed dressed up exquisitely and beautifully, and it can be seen that she is a woman who has not worked and suffered. But in the past six years, she has not stopped exploring and learning finance, in addition to taking care of her children and taking care of her family, she will also learn more about finance.
Even so, looking for a job could not hide the gap in her six years of work experience.
Even when the interviewer asked her how to weigh work and family, she did not have the experience of dealing with it smoothly, but bravely expressed her ideas, although this practice is cool, but for the old fritters in the workplace, it is really a bit simple.
Shen Yanxing hopes that her marriage is equal, rather than calculating who earns more and earns less, she has always felt that she and her husband are just different in division of labor, the other party is responsible for making money, she is responsible for all the affairs in the family, after all, if you live so clearly, it is boring.
However, Sheng Jiangchuan did not think so, he felt that because he made a lot of money, he did not care about family affairs. Even when I saw my wife looking for a job, I felt ashamed of him.
After Shen Yanxing found a job, he had to be busy with work and take care of his family, and a woman shouldered more responsibilities than a man.
Jiang Xin: Played Dong Sijia
Dong Sijia's marriage is diametrically opposed to Shen Yanxing, the female protagonist is outside the male protagonist.
Dong Sijia, as the CEO of the company, is a typical strong woman. She is the kind of "workaholic" who can give up spending time with her family in order to work. Even when he saw Shen Comet leave work on time, he would stop the other party from making some criticism.
When her husband wants to go out and work, she also cares about what kind of work the other person is going to do, because once the work is something she doesn't want, she still feels unseemly.
In terms of raising children, every time it is the husband who is more gentle with the children, but Dong Sijia always does not care to listen to the child's explanation, and every time he is angry first, he reprimands his son as an employee in the company.
There is no mother's thoughtfulness and care. I can't find time to spend more time with my children on weekends.
There are also great problems in such a marriage, compared to the gentleness and thoughtfulness of her husband, Dong Sijia is too rational, and even has some "straight woman" thinking. However, men always need to recognize and praise, blindly to demean, the other party will be breathless.
Takaya: Played Li Xiaotian
Among these three women, the most comfortable life is Li Xiaotian.
Compared with the previous two women, she did not choose to get married, coupled with a small career achievement, she had her own charm as soon as she appeared, and she was definitely a queen-level figure in the golden single.
She is very planned for her life, and will take it seriously when she works, but when she returns to life, she will not treat herself badly, enjoy life, pursue refinement and taste, and sometimes make some of her favorite foods to reward herself, and even light candles when eating, which is quite enjoyable.
Although she is single, she will not allow herself to be wronged. When the rumor is rumored, it is also clean and clean to find the source, and if there is a vendetta, it will be reported on the spot.
Without the slightest mercy on the other party, her principle is not to do anything wronged by herself.
This is what women really want to look like, excellent and beautiful, confident and independent. Sometimes women don't need to learn to love others, and it is better to love themselves when they have time!