Last night I went back early, Xiao Yi was still writing homework, saw me come back, took the initiative to meet him, I knew that he was very happy today, so I took the opportunity to chat a bit, it turned out that this semester began, the teacher praised him many times for making progress in learning. In fact, Xiao Yi's grades were still good, and later because of the transfer, the state of that semester was very bad, and by the second semester, he slowly adjusted himself and became a good student who made great progress in the eyes of the teacher. Who knows just after the second semester, the school has been greatly adjusted, the class teachers have all changed to new, Xiao Yi once again does not adapt, this is the fourth semester, I am very happy, he adjusted well.
When he first turned back, Xiao Yi was very uncomfortable, he had been in school for a month, he did not have friends, and even the names of many classmates he could not remember, the other children were old classmates, they all had their own friends, he always felt very bored, very lonely, and did not know how to integrate. At that time, because I had changed to a new job, I was a little negligent about the transfer, and even forgot to tell him that the new school needed to go home at noon, so that after school, all the students quickly went downstairs to queue up to go home, and he thought he was going downstairs to get a meal.
In fact, when the child changes to a new living environment, in a short period of time he will have some emotional problems, need a process of adaptation, this process is the need for adults to help, of course, the child himself can adapt, but will lengthen the process of adaptation. So what should parents do?
Each child's personality is different, so the way of daily getting along is also different, then the child can accept the way of communication is also different, for the child with a big grin, parents can relax a little, tell the child: this school is very good, how good can guide the child to find out, the child is affected by this positive emotion, will also encourage themselves to adapt to the new school, as soon as possible into the circle of friends. But for introverted shy children, the sudden change in the environment will make them unable to adapt, parents can tell the child: "Don't worry, Mom and Dad are around you, help you at any time", which can give the child some sense of security, you can also tell the child more about your experience of transferring schools and moving when you were a child, and the way you quartz powder environment, so that the child is not so worried and afraid.
On the weekend, you can take your child around the school, or go to a famous place nearby, familiarize yourself with the environment on the way to school, you can also go to the place where the child likes, let the child become interested in the new place, and then buy some gifts for the child that he is interested in, so that he slowly likes this place and likes to follow the people here.
Of course, parents should also set a good example for their children, actively make friends, have a good relationship with neighbors, take their children to neighbors' homes to visit the door, and bring more children when they party with friends, so that children can be imperceptibly infected and willing to actively make friends.