Nurture neighborly dreams
Netizen asked: Who will save the children lost in online games?
Reply: Disconnecting children must be supported by: community-level, public, open comprehensive childcare. Because, only in the community, children can be free + safe access; only without hourly charges, every child can afford to play; only comprehensive opening, children can fully enjoy the joy of childhood.
Life is endowed with a combination of natural substances with the ability to reproduce + growth cycle + a small part of the self-healing function that damages itself. Plants absorb water-soluble microminerals from natural substances combined with photosynthesis to produce life nutrients, animals feed directly or indirectly on plants, microorganisms live in plants or animals... In the natural material world, the comprehensive survival of all living individuals must be passively adapted and actively claimed after birth.
Human beings, the community-based fetal mammals with the highest IQ, the slowest growth and development, and the strongest comprehensive growth plasticity in the natural life system, are also the only animal groups in the natural life system that have the ability to create living materials according to the needs of independent survival, and the domestication of sown plants, the taming of captive animals, and the use of natural non-living substances to process production labor and life aids are all active labor creations of human beings. Of course, in the natural life system, only human beings have the ability to actively regulate fertility, and human parenting of babies is also the most complex kind of natural life system.
Plant seeds take root to achieve independent growth, fish and shrimp can be born free to play in the water + forage, cattle and sheep can follow the group to graze, cats + canines can live independently in the weeks after birth... All other natural beings, with the exception of humans, are designated to be able to live completely independently within a year of birth. However, modern human beings reproduce offspring, with a gestation period of 10 months, a lactation period of about 12 months, and a parenting period of more than 15 years [according to the different judicial definitions of each country, the legal age of adulthood in the world ranges from 15 years to 21 years old, and the mainland stipulates that people over 18 years old with normal physical and mental development are fully civil adults].
Kids need to get moving
Children of human primitive ancestors follow their parents to pick plant fruits, hunt animals, and defend against predators; in the farming period, they follow their parents to cultivate the land + do housework, help their parents herd their cattle and sheep. Human beings' growth education for children is originally integrated into daily life, and taking children to do appropriate labor practices is the best parenting. However, since the 18th century, when mankind gradually installed the auxiliary power of the production of labor tools, and the town became the main home of human settlement, the education of productive labor with children could no longer meet the needs of the family to bear birth. Because --
1, the operation of the accompanying power machinery needs to concentrate, occupational workers do not have enough energy to be able to take care of children at the same time
2. The attached power machinery is private property, and their owners have formulated a strict work and rest management system for the operator
3. After using the attached power machinery, there are more and more knowledge and skills left for children to "learn to spare"
4. The uncertain risk factors in urban life have increased, and the space for children to be able to move independently and freely has been greatly reduced
5. After the use of mechanical tools with power, human beings have created many decorative consumer undertakings
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Parents involved in professional labor do not have enough time to play with their children, towns and cities do not give their children enough freedom, and profit-seeking businessmen regard children as the best source of wealth... Under the combined effect of various intricate realities, virtual electronic online games have become the most accessible "spiritual opium" in children's daily lives.
"Da Yu Zhi Shui"
Once upon a time, floods were frequent. Floods flooded fields, washed away houses, and vicious snakes and beasts went everywhere to harm people and livestock, and people's lives were extremely miserable.
The flood brought countless disasters to the people, and it must be cured. At that time, a man named Cang led everyone to control the water. He only knew how to build a dam to keep the water out, and nine years later, the flood still hadn't subsided. His son Yu continued to control the water.
Yu left his hometown and went for thirteen years. In the past thirteen years, he has been running everywhere, passing by his door three times. However, he thought that it was important to control the water, and he did not go into the house to take a look.
Yu learned the lesson of the failure of the water control and adopted the method of channeling to control the water. Together with thousands of people, he dredged many rivers, allowing the flood to pass through the channels and finally flow into the sea. The flood finally receded, the serpents and beasts were driven away, and the people moved their homes back. People cultivated on the flooded land, agricultural production gradually resumed, and the people returned to a peaceful and contented life.
Damming + dredging is the best practice experience of human beings to improve the comprehensive utilization of water resources and reduce flood disasters, and the more famous dam-building water conservancy projects in the mainland include Dujiangyan, Zhengguo Canal, Hongqi Canal, Lingqu Canal, Beijing-Hangzhou Canal, Yangtze River Three Gorges Water Conservancy Hub Project, South-to-North Water Diversion Project and so on. So, how do you save the kids who are lost in online games?
Disconnecting the children must be supported: community-level, public, open comprehensive childcare! Because, at present, the mainland's professional school education and extracurricular profit-making tutoring are very complete. However, schools and for-profit tutoring institutions have one thing in common – children are not free to use. Therefore, if you want children to leave the virtual network world, they must prepare a real childhood entertainment environment for them, and this environment is best set in the community, not to take commercial profit as the comprehensive service goal.
The mission of nurturing neighbors: to be a sparring partner and consultant on the road to children's growth.
The vision of nurturing neighbors: let there be no small and difficult old people in the world.
Children's growth is like a century-old tree, which needs to experience wind and rain. For parents, you need to be patient enough to accompany them. Accompanying children requires care, and companionship is more than just care. When many people choose to go home to accompany their children, I choose to come to Beijing to do a career to accompany more children - to cultivate neighbors: to promote social harmony with neighborhood friendliness, to promote social moral education, and to promote the healthy and happy growth of everyone. Explore a set of public welfare and inclusive education undertakings that solve the problem of "one-child syndrome + intergenerational education" in the form of neighborhood mutual assistance, and work with parents to "tailor" children's growth plans to provide children with games, cooperation and shared growth space... That is, the community neighborhood education service ecosystem.