Men can't let go of you in their hearts, and they will expose these weaknesses

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Heard a quote:

"The hardest thing about feelings is not picking up, but putting it down."

I agree.

In fact, there is nothing in the world that cannot be put down, only attachments that cannot be put down.

Just like when a man loves a woman deeply and can't let go of her in his heart, he exposes the following weaknesses because of obsession.

01

sentimentality

Speaking of sentimentality, many people immediately think of Lin Daiyu's chuchu and moving image, and I see pity.

In fact, many men will also show a sentimental side in their feelings.

For example, you didn't respond to his message in a timely manner. He will be anxious and ask you why you didn't reply to him, if there was something that made you angry. I will also wonder if you don't like him and start to hate him, so I deliberately don't reply to the message.

A word you inadvertently say will make him sad for half a day. Because he cares a lot about the image in your heart.

Seeing you and the other opposite sex eating and chatting, he will sulk and secretly compare with the other party, where he is not good enough, where he is not as good as the other party.

Before he fell in love with you, he may be a rough-headed person who will never be trapped by love. Once you have a real feeling for you, you can't help but feel sentimental.

The poet Kitajima said:

"I took the book and basked in the sun on the bench, and my heart became soft, and I was prone to tears, like a sentimental old man."

A man who has moved his true feelings is also like a sentimental old man in his feelings, with fluctuating emotions and suffering from gains and losses.

Even Wang Xiaobo is not exempt from vulgarity in love.

In a letter to Li Yinhe, he said:

"Tell you, I'm now jealous of other people's love. When I see someone rushing home to find someone else, or seeing someone else together, I feel a kind of unhappiness in my heart, as if I have been abandoned. Oh, I'm so lonely."

It can be seen that when a man meets love, he will become sentimental.

02

indecision

Bacon said:

"Even God, it is difficult to remain intelligent in love."

If a man can't let go of you in his heart, he will become hesitant and indecisive.

I want to confess to you, but I am afraid of rejection and I will lose the opportunity to be with you.

I want to accompany you for life, but I am afraid that I will not be able to give you the best life.

Even if you are invited to a meal, you will think about it again and again, afraid that the restaurant is not your favorite style, afraid that the meal is not to your taste.

Because I love you, I think about everything for you, always from your point of view, as long as you are happy. He will silently guard your side.

As the saying goes, with love comes concern and bondage.

Because there are people in the heart, when making decisions or choices, it is inevitable that there will be some indecisiveness and difficult choices.

Especially on some of the big decisions.

Just like Gu Wei in "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice". It was a rare opportunity to study in Germany, and he also wanted to go.

However, the application form was in his hand for several days, and the leader urged him again and again, but he was hesitant and undecided.

Because he was reluctant to leave his girlfriend.

As a scalpel doctor, he can make a decision in front of many life and death stakes, but he is indecisive in his own affairs, just because of the depth of love and the depth of affection.

If a man, who is resolute and decisive in the outside world, becomes indecisive in the face of you, it is because his heart cannot let go of you.

03

Lack of self-confidence

Someone asked, "Why do you become unconfident in front of people you like?" ”

One of the answers was, "Because I care." ”

As the saying goes, "the lover's eyes are out of the west", the more you care about a person, the more you feel that the other party is good everywhere, and you feel that you are not worthy of each other.

Joe Byron said:

"Joy and pain in love alternate."

But whether it is honey or bitter wine, it is very sweet.

When a man moves affection for you, he may become less and less confident and become sensitive and vulnerable.

He will be careful in front of you, trying his best to please you, afraid of saying the wrong thing and making you angry, always afraid of losing you where he did not do well.

He will pay special attention to your evaluation and affirmation of him.

I am more afraid that I will not be able to meet your requirements and standards, and I will not be able to give you the happiness you want.

In order to be worthy of you and get your approval, he will work hard, to struggle, and want to give you a better future.

The more you can't let go of your man, the easier it is to expose his weakness of insecurity.

Because in his heart, you deserve the best of everything

04

The writer Vladimir Nabokov once said:

"Man has three things that cannot be hidden, cough, poverty and love"

If a man really loves you, there is no way to hide it.

Love will make a person remove his armor and show his inner weakness.

When a man no longer pretends to be strong in front of you, and is willing to expose his weaknesses in front of you, it is because his heart can no longer let go of you.

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