Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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To be honest, the feelings between men and women are really deeply wordy and annoying, but they are always involved and the topic is continuous!
I believe that many people will find that once there is an intimate relationship between men and women, women will be more willing to suffer from gain and loss than before! In this regard, countless chicken soup tells women to learn to be themselves and create a sense of security on their own!
In fact, the sense of security of men and women's feelings can really be created by women themselves? Don't pull it off, how is it possible?
Women who improve themselves and achieve themselves are just diverting the attention of the frustrated love scene and filling in some blank nodes in the heart. If a woman's feeling of gain and loss really disappears completely, it can only mean that she does not love.
Otherwise, if it is not for the man to give the woman a sense of security, the intimate relationship is still continuing, the woman will not be able to give herself a sense of security, to achieve "self-sufficiency".
What you want from men is a sense of security about the feelings of men and women, and what you create by yourself is a sense of security in life management.
Although feelings are part of life, as long as women still love, then the sense of self-security in feelings is absolutely impossible to be satisfied through other means!
So, the biggest benefit of chicken soup that makes you feel safe and self-sufficient is nothing more than:
When you really lose a relationship, you don't have to think back to yourself a long time later, and you have wasted time and neglected to manage your life for a relationship, and you feel sorry!
In a fundamental sense, managing one's own sense of security and emotional security are two different things!
The biggest connection between the two is that you can usher in more interest in men and prolong the flowering period of the marriage relationship by running yourself.
In fact, in the process of male and female communication, women do not have to suffer from gains and losses! If a man really loves you, the details can't be hidden!
After an intimate relationship, the man who loves you to the bone will reflect the details of your love in the interaction. Among them, the man who truly loves you, 3 instinctive reactions can not be hidden:
First: As long as I am free, I want to see you
Perhaps, some people feel that after an intimate relationship, as long as a man has time, he wants to see a woman, which is lust rather than love! As everyone knows, as long as men are idle, they want to see women's performance, which is a desire mixed in love.
Only when you are lonely, only when you need it, do you want to see you.
I want to see you as long as I am free, it is love! It can be active or passive. Even if it is a video call, even if it is just sitting in the café after meeting for a short conversation, it is a kind of love satisfaction!
Because my heart is filled with love, I can't endure the pain of missing my thoughts in any little leisure time. Because of deep love, as long as you are idle, you will come to mind...
Therefore, as long as he is idle, he will send you messages and videos, no matter how far away, as long as time permits, he will rush to see you! Just because of two words: love you!
I once saw a passage that said something like this:
If you want to sleep, you can do it anywhere. But no matter how far I go, I just want to run to you, just because I love you.
I've seen a lot of scenery before I met you! After meeting you, the other scenery in my eyes can no longer be tolerated!
Second: I always want to give you what I think is the best
In the relationship between men and women, not all men are rich. What's more, even if a man with a rich side gives you what you want, he may not love you!
What's more, such a "rich" person can be generous to you, if not to be a pity for others, it must be a small amount of him throwing it away.
The man who really loves you may be poor, but he can keep his best for you.
This is true of the little shellfish in "Snail Dwelling" to seaweed. The reason why the seaweed that betrayed Xiaobei at the last moment and remembered Xiaobei's goodness and regret at the beginning is because:
Xiao Bei is just an ordinary clerk, but he can save money to buy a house in order to marry seaweed, he can satisfy the occasional luxury vanity of seaweed, and he is reluctant to do half a housework for seaweed... Although XiaoBei can't afford to invite seaweed to eat a big meal, he can clip all the shredded meat on the chopsticks to the seaweed...
Whether a man loves you or not has nothing to do with whether he has money or not. Even if he is poor, he will not forget to be considerate of you, understand you, and give you all he has.
When choosing a man, you must choose a man who knows cold and knows heat, and you must choose the man who hides happiness in the meat shreds on chopsticks and delivers it to your mouth.
Third: Willing to listen to your heart, always share and share with you
The right people have a desire to share and share for you at all times. The prerequisite for perfect fulfillment of these two desires is that the person is willing to listen to your heart.
There are many intimate relationships between people, avoid sharing and sharing, and are more unwilling to use the gentlest side to stand in front of the other half and listen to each other's voices.
Therefore, the people who say they love can only push the rest of their lives away in each other's endless disappointment.
In real life, lovers who can be separated have never loved each other so much. Men who can't listen to you, share and share with you, never love you that much.
Listening, sharing, sharing, showing care and patience. How can a man who doesn't love you so much or doesn't love you at all be careful and patient with you?
Remember, whenever and wherever two people can have endless words – whether it's a subject or a brainless crap, it's the best proof of choosing the right lover.
If a man loves you from the bottom of his heart and you for the rest of his life, his intentions for you will never be perfunctory.
The feelings between men and women are never complicated. As long as each other is willing to feel with their hearts and pay with their hearts, even the two mu ne people who have never said "I love you" can have the same frequency of being loved by each other!
And loved ones, doing what you like, saying funny things, is the highest state of people's pursuit of happiness!
If a man really loves you, the realistic reaction in his interaction with you cannot be hidden!
Especially, after the intimate relationship, the sense of security that men bring you is solid, the happiness that brings you is that you can be yourself without restraint, and the hope that brings you is an infinite expectation for the rest of your life!
Well, this man must have put you on the tip of his heart!
Otherwise, all the closeness, indifference, bad attitude, rude words and deeds, are the reality that requires you to stop the loss in time no matter what!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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