Article author: Liri Qingfeng
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Since I participated in the District University for the Elderly, there are really many new things among my classmates.
Sister Dong has a son, who is married and has children, and her daughter-in-law is about to go to work after her maternity leave.
The son discussed with Sister Dong whether he could go to his son's house to take care of his grandson.
It is said that the next generation is close to the next generation, and Sister Dong is also retired, so she is naturally very happy to bring her grandson.
Can't pee
Before officially bringing his grandson, the son and Sister Dong explained the matters to pay attention to when bringing their grandson.
After all, it is a different generation, the generations are different, the requirements are different, and everything must be subject to the requirements of the son.
The son told Sister Dong that from now on, don't dye and perm your hair, use cosmetics, and the child can't pee.
These three requirements, Sister Dong thought that they were a bit excessive, and she did not understand them.
Wearing makeup is not allowed to take care of grandchildren
Sister Dong is a decent person who usually pays special attention to her own image.
Because there are a lot of gray hair, dye and dye hair from time to time, or make up the roots, and look particularly young.
And because there is not much hair, I also permed my hair, which showed more hair and also showed my temperament.
I usually have to draw a light makeup, and my clothes are not the same every day.
No dyeing and perming, no makeup, how can that work?!
Don't let the pee, which of you didn't pee again when you were a child?!
Caring for grandchildren cannot dye and perm their hair
Sister Dong told her son that when she didn't go out at home, she could not wear makeup, and she should draw light makeup when she went out.
The old generation is to pee, and the children are not all good.
Do not bring grandchildren on the day of hair perm, or wait for the son and daughter-in-law to rest on weekends to dye or perm, and after 2 days there will be no taste, and bring grandchildren again on Monday.
The son did not decide, and asked his daughter-in-law for instructions, and the daughter-in-law refused, and she could not dye her hair and make up her grandson.
You can't urinate the feces, which is conducive to the normal development of the child.
In the end, for the sake of her grandson, Sister Dong compromised, no longer dyeing hair and perming and makeup during the period of seeing her grandson, and her grandson did not pee and wear diapers.
Cosmetics cannot be used while caring for grandchildren
After reaching a consensus, he went to his son's house to take care of his grandson.
However, Sister Dong found that there was one more thing in the living room, and it was a camera.
It turned out that the daughter-in-law installed the camera before Sister Dong's arrival.
When I came to my son's house before, I didn't see a camera.
Sister Dong is very unhappy in her heart, she is the child's own grandmother, they all say that the next generation is relative, why is the daughter-in-law still not at ease?
With displeasure, I asked my daughter-in-law, why install a camera, my grandchildren are not close enough, will I still abuse my grandson?
There are more and more home improvement cameras
My daughter-in-law said, it's not what you mean, I just want to see my children when I want to go to work, so that I can work with peace of mind.
Hearing this, although Sister Dong was unhappy in her heart, she didn't say anything more, after all, it was her son's family.
I know that families with nannies now generally install cameras, and after installing cameras, the nanny is serious and responsible, and employers are at ease.
Generational relatives
But what I really didn't expect was:
1. Grandma brings grandchildren, and cameras should be installed at home.
2. With grandchildren, you can't dye your hair and perm your hair, nor can you wear makeup.
3. Today's toddlers wear diapers since they were young, and they don't let pee.
The times are developing, and concepts must be adjusted with them, otherwise they really can't keep up with the pace of the times.
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