There is a saying that what is not obtained is always in turmoil, and people will always be more eager and obsessed with what they do not get. Because I never had it, I beautify the image in my brain.
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This sentence is the most suitable to describe Song Siming, Xiaobei thinks that Song Siming likes seaweed, because she is greedy for her youth and innocence, but the old man is tired of the yellow-faced woman at home and comes out to find excitement.
Why is Song Siming only interested in Haizao, his girlfriend who has slept with Xiaobei for three years? Song Siming is not interested in those single girls who are younger and more beautiful than Haizao outside?
That's because Xiaobei didn't know that Song Siming projected all the fruitless youthful emotions of his crush on Seaweed.
Song Siming had a crush during college, named Bai Yichun, the daughter of a university professor, and before he could confess his heart to her, Bai Yichun died of leukemia.
Since then, Song Siming has left a permanent regret in his heart.
So when he saw Seaweed for the first time, he was attracted by her and Bai Yichun's amazing appearance and charm, to put it bluntly, what moved Song Siming was not Seaweed herself, but the shadow of Bai Yichun on her.
Most men are obsessed with their first love, or the person they once loved but couldn't. Some men, even if they marry a wife and have children, and their family is very happy, they will miss their first love for a lifetime.
Song Siming is such a person, and Xiaobei is no exception.
Xiaobei loves seaweed very much, and when he found out that seaweed was cheating with Song Siming, he cried heartbreakingly and said, Seaweed, I already love you to the core, I can't live without you.
and later chose to forgive, all because Xiaobei took his first love too seriously, Seaweed had already met his parents, and it was his first love.
02
Song Siming was admitted to the university from a poor rural area, and the fate of his family was tied to him, if he wanted to turn over in that era, he had to take the career to become an official, and Song Taijiang Miaomiao could help him realize this dream.
Bai Yichun was born in a scholarly family, Song Siming married her, at most she was a professor in a university, but Jiang Miaomiao is different, her parents have a high social status and power in their hands, Song Siming married her, and she can quickly enter the officialdom and soar.
In other words, Song Siming will not marry the girl of his first love at all (unless the other party has a strong background and can help him), he will only marry a girl who will help him in the future.
Later, when he became famous and no longer worried about fame and fortune, he had the leisure to dare to secretly look for his first love.
People are like this, the more they can't get something, the more obsessed they are.
At the beginning, for the sake of the future, Song Siming must have riveted enough energy to marry Jiang Miaomiao, and when he relied on the relationship between Jiang Miaomiao's parents to gain a foothold in the officialdom, he began to chase the first love that was not over that year.
If Bai Yichun hadn't died, no matter if she married or not, Song Siming would not give up on her. But she died early, which became Song Siming's lifelong regret and pain.
03
After seeing the seaweed, Song Siming's eyes lit up, praising her for her promising future, which made the seaweed look confused.
Boasting that seaweed has a bright future, in fact, it is an implication that if you follow me in the future, you will enjoy endless glory and wealth.
From the first time he saw Seaweed, Song Siming secretly swore in his heart that I must chase this girl.
Song Siming only thought about the regret of his youth, where would he care if Seaweed had a boyfriend or husband.
Later, you see, Song Siming was entangled with Seaweed for a while, he knew that Seaweed had Xiaobei, and Seaweed didn't plan to break up with Xiaobei, Song Siming was still willing to spoil her, even if Xiaobei found out about Seaweed's relationship with him, he was still stupidly waiting for Seaweed to return to him.
Seaweed wants to marry Xiaobei, but he doesn't care, and persuades Seaweed to come back and not get married. This shows that Song Siming's later liking for seaweed is almost a humble flattery.
As long as Seaweed gets married, then his dream of "staying and flying with Bai Yichun" will be completely shattered.
Seaweed is also very "obedient", and when Xiaobei angrily dumped her, she immediately went to Song Siming.
Song Siming was very excited in the face of the lost and recovered "Bai Yichun", and was even flattered, for fear that if he turned around, "Bai Yichun" would disappear again.
Therefore, when Seaweed returned to Song Siming for the second time, he immediately gave Seaweed a mansion of 10 million, a BMW car of 1 million, and gave her a lot of pocket money to support her.
He is so good to seaweed, just to protect the pure love in his heart, seaweed just happens to be the specific product of Song Siming's fame after he is struggling to pursue the white moonlight.
At this time, "Bai Yichun" finally returned to him, how could he still care about the cohabitation relationship between her and Xiaobei, and if he didn't lock her firmly, next time she didn't see her again, Song Siming would never forgive himself in his life.
It was precisely because he had never really gotten "Bai Yichun" back then, that Song Siming took seaweed as the pearl in his heart.
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