Jiangxi men visited their daughters who were married far away and were treated indifferently
In this land of China, family affection has always been known as the embodiment of family bonds. Even though it has extended beyond thousands of mountains and rivers, it still holds incomparable feelings and concerns.
Although the distance between mountains and rivers has brought a spatial gap to family affection, that inseparable bond still binds family members closely.
Whether it's through modern technology or traditional ways, family bonds can transcend mountains and rivers and continue to bring warmth and support to people.
Affair:
A man in Jiangxi has the greatest hope in his heart to be able to get together with his daughter often. However, his daughter's distant marriage made it difficult for him to fulfill his wishes.
Recently, the father decided to visit his daughter, but went through a poignant journey.
In traditional Chinese beliefs, marriage is regarded as a major event in life, and long-distance marriage represents a gradual distance from one's parents. When the Jiangxi man learned that his daughter planned to marry far away, his inner feelings were mixed and varied.
He understood that this meant that it would be more and more difficult to get together in the future. However, out of love and respect for his daughter, he resolutely chose to support it.
However, this reunion made the gentleman feel even more desolate. He once thought he could enjoy family reunion, but he was treated indifferently by his son-in-law.
Every time he eats, the son-in-law's face becomes gloomy, as if he is accusing this uninvited guest. Time goes back to day after day, and this situation makes the gentleman's state of mind gradually restless.
When the decision was made to return today, there was still no life at home, no one came to say goodbye, not even her daughter.
In addition to the man's deep heartache, what broke his heart the most was that his daughter was silent during this time.
It was not that she was unaware of the awkward atmosphere that hung over her father, but she understood that her position in this new family was insignificant and she did not dare to speak up for her father.
It also made the man realize that his daughter was not happy in her marriage.
The incident quickly sparked widespread attention and heated discussions on social media.
Many netizens have expressed their sympathy for this Jiangxi man, and also put forward deep thoughts on the phenomenon of leaving his hometown after marriage.
People are beginning to pay attention to the family disputes involved, the way the husband and wife get along, and the mental health of their daughters.
This incident not only provoked people to re-examine traditional concepts, but also provoked deep thought. In some places, prejudice and discrimination against women who marry far away still exist.
This situation puts a lot of pressure on the person concerned and has a negative impact on the family relationship as a whole.
Author's point of view:
Nowadays, with the pace of the times and the change of concepts, it is necessary for us to spread the wings of thinking and bloom more gorgeous flowers of thought when facing the choice of marriage far from our homeland. Family happiness should not be overshadowed by distance, but should be based on mutual respect and deep understanding. Only in this way can the distant place of love find its harbor, and the harmony and harmony of the family can be permanently maintained.