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Preface
We often see the question of "giving up your seat" in the news, and once upon a time, the mention of this word was all praise words.
But I don't know when it began, from "take the initiative to let" to "must let".
I have seen people who were abused for not giving up their seats to the elderly, but I didn't expect that there would be persecution that could not be done, but sexually harassed the parties concerned.
Looking at these "give up" controversies, whether or not to give seats to the disadvantaged has once again become the focus.
Uncle persecution does not become anti-harassment
During peak hours, there is always a lot of traffic on the subway, and it is normal to have no seats at this time.
This caused the dissatisfaction of an uncle, and the girl did not notice the old man in front of her at first, which annoyed the old man at once, and began to accuse the girl of being rude.
Seeing that the other party was so unreasonable, the girl also began to refute.
The old man seemed to feel that his authority was being challenged, and began to educate the girl at great length, and even taught the girl to learn to empathize, what to do when she encountered this situation after there was an old man in the family.
But the girl was not used to him, and bluntly said that anyone could do it, but he couldn't, which forced the old man to be anxious, and directly put the crutch between the girl's legs, and began to shake sharply.
The most important thing is that the girl is still wearing shorts.
The girl repeatedly refuted him, which made the old man very annoyed, and directly covered the girl's mouth, causing the girl's head to hit the back of the train heavily.
Seeing that the old man's movements were becoming more and more radical, the people around him also began to persuade the old man.
When this incident spread on the Internet, it immediately caused an uproar, and whether to give up the seat became a hot topic of debate again.
The aunt threatened that the police would not help outsiders
Controversy caused by a casual search on the Internet to give up a seat abounds, and the last one who was so arrogant was an aunt in Shanghai.
A young woman and a 60-year-old aunt got into an argument over the seat.
The girl is very aggrieved, if the other party speaks well, she will consider giving up her seat, but this aunt came up and began to scold indiscriminately, which can not be endured by anyone.
During the dispute, the aunt repeatedly stated that she knew martial arts and wanted to kill the other party.
Seeing that things were getting worse, in order not to worsen the situation, the woman said the solution to the police.
"Go to the police station, the police will help me, not you, an outsider."
This remark naturally sparked a wide discussion on the Internet, and everyone said that "xenophobia" is the city's label.
This kind of indiscriminate attack made people in Shanghai feel helpless.
When everyone is official, is it true as the aunt said.
The official said that the aunt was a little mentally abnormal, because of the onset of stimulation, so this situation occurred.
This incident ended so dramatically, but what it left behind was to once again deepen the impression of xenophobia among the locals.
Pregnant women giving up their seats are controversial
A pregnant woman, after getting on the bus, stood next to a man and asked him to give her a seat.
Maybe he didn't hear it, the man didn't pay attention to the other party, and at this time, the pregnant woman was a little angry, and yelled directly at the boy and asked the other party to give up her seat.
The man was not used to her either, thinking that there was something wrong with her attitude, and when he heard the pregnant woman, he naturally began to refute it.
Seeing that the man was still indifferent, she began to output frantically.
At this time, a passenger next to him stood up and gave up his seat to the pregnant woman, but the pregnant woman recognized the man and insisted that he give up his seat to herself.
Contrary to the one-sided comments about the elderly giving up their seats, the debate about pregnant women is two-tiered.
Some people think that pregnant women are a vulnerable group and should need more people's care, and boys lack the most basic quality of not giving up their seats.
Some people also believe that pregnant women have a bad attitude and have not learned to empathize, and if they really need to give up their seats, they should have a better attitude.
Among them, some people noticed that the position where the man sat was a special seat for love, and some people thought that sitting in this position should give up their seats to the disadvantaged.
But the issue of love seats can still cause controversy.
The love seat should be empty!
In Shenyang, after boarding the subway, an elderly person saw that the love seat was occupied by young people, and directly scolded the other party for not having quality, and threatened that the elderly seat is provided to the vulnerable group according to the law.
Coincidentally, in Shanghai, there is also an old man who is crazy about the young people who occupy the love seat.
The girl got up and gave up her seat when she saw the old man, but the other party still didn't give up and blamed the other party.
The girl said that when she came up, there was no old man, and when she saw the old man appear, she also gave up her seat as soon as she saw it.
The old man was very dissatisfied with this, and directly taught the other party that the love seat should be empty, and no one could sit if no one came, and by the way, he also accused the other party of not being able to read Chinese characters.
According to the onlookers, the old man reprimanded the other party for more than 10 minutes before stopping, and after netizens learned about it, they thought that it was necessary to be able to scold for such a long time.
Should I give up my seat or not?
Whenever there is a controversy over giving up seats, this issue will be raised.
When we were children, we were taught to respect the old and love the young, but as time passed, this word became an unspeakable existence in everyone's hearts.
Nowadays, the social pressure is very high, and young people are running around for life, and when the day's work is over, they don't want to move at all as soon as they relax.
On public transportation, it is common to encounter some vulnerable groups, some of whom may be abused by the other party because they do not see them at first sight.
Some people say that today's young people don't know how to respect the old and love the young, and some people say that the old people don't respect the old.
But it cannot be denied that more and more people are turning the seat into a moral kidnapping, which in turn has led to a more serious situation.
There was once a guy who couldn't stand the dispute of giving up his seat and slapped the old man directly, but he was considered by everyone to be a "subway judge".
Just like the old man who sexually harassed this time, he was finally detained by the police, but this result was not satisfactory to everyone.
There is a follow-up about giving up your seat, and it is also a topic that can make everyone quarrel again
More and more old people, energetic and some young people, are arguing because they give up their seats.
Netizens once joked that when buying special goods in the morning, the elderly rushed faster than the other, but on the other hand, young people felt that they couldn't get up in the eighth class in the morning.
He even summed up the saying "energetic old people, lifeless young people".
Respecting the elderly and caring for the young is a traditional Chinese virtue, but it is not a mandatory norm for everyone to do.
Whether or not to give up their seats is decided by the parties, not who is weak and who is reasonable.
epilogue
Regarding whether to give up your seat, everyone actually just said "let is love, not let is duty", moral kidnapping of the other party will only make everyone more disgusted with this matter, so that the situation is getting more and more serious.
Traditional virtues are demanded of oneself, never by the standard of others.
Source: Jiupai News 2023-7-12 A man on the Shenyang subway was angrily reprimanded by the old man for sitting on a love seat, subway: It is not necessary to leave it to a specific group, everyone has the right to ride
Phoenix.com 2024-6-25 The old man was detained for assaulting and harassing a woman in the subway
Chongqing TV Society and Law Channel 2024-6-19Shanghai woman grabbs a seat on the subway
Qingdou News2023-4-28 April 28, Shanghai
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