spent 10 yuan to take his son to eat Haidilao, netizens complained: Parents with a small pattern can't raise atmospheric children

Cuckoo Mom

2024-05-30 21:27Posted in Hunan Parenting Creators

When it comes to Haidilao, my impression is that the service is very good, but it doesn't seem to be cheap......

But I was really surprised when I saw one thing online.

A mother took her son to eat Haidilao, and the whole meal was satisfying, the key is that she only spent 10 yuan.

How did she do it?

One: Bao's mother spent 10 yuan to take her son to eat Haidilao

Bao's mother took her son to eat Haidilao, and after entering, she began to order.

The bottom of the clear soup pot, no money; The staple food is a noodle, 5 yuan, and a rice is 3 yuan; Another egg, 2 yuan.

No more, no less, just 10 yuan, which reached the budget.

Okay, let's see how she makes a difference.

In the seasoning area, free beef cubes, coriander, mustard, oyster sauce, sesame oil, and tomatoes are all poured into the clear soup pot.

The bottom of this clear soup pot instantly became the bottom of the "luxury version" pot.

Then, how can you miss out on the free cucumbers? Take out the prepared plastic bag and pat it vigorously, and the cucumber is ready to be patted on a plate.

Son hungry? Don't worry, don't you have a variety of free snacks and fruits, don't you have a lot of money!

When the child said she wanted to eat shiitake mushrooms and vegetables, she took out the dishes she had prepared long ago from her backpack. This wave of operations is really amazing!

She put all the ingredients into the pot one by one, cooked a tomato and egg noodles for her son, and brought a bowl of beef rice herself. Coupled with the free melons and fruits, the two of them ate to the fullest and were satisfied.

At the end of the meal, the mother couldn't help but say proudly: "Awesome, you must learn!" ”

At the beginning, everyone was deeply impressed and felt that this mother was so good at living.

But slowly, the comments of netizens began to be mixed, and even quarreled.

Two: Comments from netizens

Netizens who don't approve of it mainly feel that this mother's pattern is too small to raise an atmospheric child.

A netizen said that Haidilao would not care about such a loss, on the contrary, the biggest loss was this mother.

He believes that this matter is not a question of money or not, but a matter of conduct. If you don't have money, you can eat at home, or try to save some money to take your children to eat generously and happily. But if you rack your brains to calculate and exploit loopholes, the child will only be "smart" in the future and will not be able to become a big climate.

There is also a netizen who said that his brother-in-law bought clothes, wore them for a day and then returned, and his son followed to learn to take advantage of his classmates, but he didn't even have a friend, and he really didn't know what would happen to his children when they grew up in the future.

Of course, there are also those who watch the excitement, saying that the main thing is that they are not embarrassed, and it is others who are embarrassed.

In addition to netizens who disapprove, there are also some netizens who feel that this is nothing and there is no need to make a fuss.

Some netizens said that in this way, the child will be thick-skinned in the future, and the thick-skinned child will not mix too badly in the future.

Some netizens also agreed, since it's free, why can't you eat it? And it didn't break the rules, why is there such a thing as a small pattern?

Some netizens said that looking at this mother's dress, she is not poor, maybe the parents who are greedy for cheap, and the children raised are also mixed well.

In fact, most of what everyone focuses on is the education behind it.

"Greedy for small cheapness", we will be a little bit more or less, so how to educate children on the basis of this small cheapness?

Three: The main thing is how to educate children

One of my neighbors was greedy for money, and she is now sad because she found out that her son likes to steal from other people. Obviously there is no shortage at home, or you can afford to buy it, why should you steal someone else's?

The son replied, "Won't I save it?" ”

The neighbors didn't know how to educate them, and they only regretted that they shouldn't have brought their sons to be greedy and cheap.

In fact, I think that "greedy for small gains" itself is fine, the main thing is what is the purpose behind this behavior.

I also often shop around, buy promotional clothes, pick discounted fruits, and save money, but I won't cry poor with my children, and I won't say that our family is too poor, so I can only pick and search for cheap, eat and use these bad things.

When "greedy for small and cheap", if parents educate their children, we will not steal or rob, behave rightly, sit upright, and use cheap things without shame.

Then we buy things that match within our own consumption level, and that's no problem at all.

But if we take the opportunity to tell our children how to find loopholes and exploit loopholes, how to take advantage of others by harming the interests of others. This kind of "greed for cheapness" is indeed not good, and it is easy to lead children astray.

Just like my neighbor, every time I take advantage of someone else, I am very happy, and by the way, I also teach my children how to take advantage of the loopholes next time.

Sooner or later, this kind of education will lead the child to spoilage.

Finally, let's go back to my mother spending 10 yuan to eat Haidilao.

If she's just curious, she'd like to experience this unusual life once in a while. I think individuals have their own way of living, and there is nothing to say. After all, she really didn't break the rules.

But if it's me and I only have 10 yuan in my pocket, then I will take my child to eat a bowl of noodles, at least, I don't have any psychological pressure.

The mother spent 10 yuan to take her son to eat Haidilao, but was complained that "small pattern parents can't raise atmospheric children".

What do you think about this?

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