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In 2014, a popular blind date show "Blind Date Will Win" suddenly detonated the whole network. A sophomore girl named Zhou Lanjun shocked everyone with her amazing mate selection criteria.
"The rich second generation who is not worth more than 100 million will not marry!" This resounding declaration instantly pushed this 20-year-old young girl to the forefront of public opinion.
Zhou Lanjun firmly believes that with her conditions, it is natural to marry into a wealthy family. However, reality gave her a slap in the face. The two blind dates ended in failure, not only failed to get their wishes, but attracted overwhelming criticism.
Ten years have passed in a hurry, where is the girl who persistently pursued the "dream of a wealthy family" back then? Is her life the way she wants? Let's walk into Zhou Lanjun's story and see what kind of life inspiration this sensational "50 million rich second generation" declaration finally brought her.
Zhou Lanjun's concept of "money worship" did not come out of thin air, but was deeply rooted in her family background and growth experience. She was born into an ordinary working family, her father was an employee of a state-owned enterprise, and her mother was a housewife.
In this traditional family structure, the father has absolute right to speak, while the mother is often submissive. This family atmosphere invisibly shaped Zhou Lanjun's values, and made her have the idea of changing her fate through marriage since she was a child.
As she grew older, Zhou Lanjun's obsession with "marrying into a wealthy family" became stronger and stronger. After the college entrance examination, although her grades were enough to enter 211 colleges and universities, in order to get close to the "rich and handsome" group in her mind, she resolutely chose to go to Zhejiang to study.
At Zhejiang Gongshang University, Zhou Lanjun showed excellent learning ability, not only outstanding academic performance, but also showed good talent in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.
However, excellent personal conditions did not bring Zhou Lanjun an ideal marriage. Her criteria for choosing a mate are too strict, coupled with her strong personality, she has never been able to find the rich child she wants.
This frustration not only did not shake her belief, but made her more determined that only by marrying into a wealthy family can she achieve a happy and fulfilling life.
In the process of finding an ideal partner, Zhou Lanjun once consulted a matchmaker on a blind date website. The matchmaker spoke highly of her conditions, believing that with her height, weight, family background and ideological concepts, she was fully qualified to marry into a wealthy family.
These words undoubtedly gave Zhou Lanjun great confidence, and also laid the groundwork for her future performance on the blind date show.
Zhou Lanjun's concept of "money worship" actually reflects her desire for life change and her affirmation of her own worth. In her opinion, marrying into a wealthy family is not only a recognition of her own conditions, but also a shortcut to realize the value of life.
This deep-rooted concept has deeply affected her mate selection criteria and life choices, and has also laid the foundation for her words and deeds in blind date shows in the future.
Zhou Lanjun seems to ignore the fact that true happiness and success often require the spiritual fit of both parties, not just the matching of material conditions.
This one-sided pursuit not only made her repeatedly frustrated in the process of choosing a mate, but also laid a hidden danger for the storm of public opinion she will face in the future.
In 2014, Zhou Lanjun participated in the popular blind date show "Blind Date Will Win", and her appearance immediately caused a sensation. Facing the camera, the 20-year-old college student made no secret of his mate selection criteria: "I only choose the rich second generation as a partner, and it must be a rich second generation worth more than 50 million!" As soon as this remark came out, it immediately attracted great attention from the program team and the audience.
The program team carefully arranged two blind date opportunities for Zhou Lanjun. For the first time, she met a rich second generation with family assets of more than 100 million. On the same day, Zhou Lanjun was carefully dressed, dressed in an elegant purple dress, and came to the high-end restaurant with great expectations.
When the topic involved each other's expectations, Zhou Lanjun's remarks made the atmosphere of the scene change sharply.
She bluntly said: "I hope that your parents can distinguish between right and wrong, respect and tolerate their daughter-in-law, and at the same time have noble moral sentiments and a pragmatic attitude towards life."
These words made the man quite unhappy. When asked about her plans for married life, Zhou Lanjun confidently replied: "I can help you effectively manage this property and achieve profitability, and at the same time, entrust the children to the care of my parents."
These statements were clearly very different from the man's expectations, and the blind date ended in failure.
Despite the failure of the first blind date, Zhou Lanjun did not change his opinion. She firmly believes that the reason for failure is not herself, but that the other party cannot accept her independence.
At her insistence, the program team arranged a second blind date for her.
Although the second blind date is not a rich second generation, he is young and promising and has a successful career. However, when Zhou Lanjun expressed his desire to enter the showbiz, the scene was once again embarrassed.
She admitted that she is not inferior to popular female stars in terms of intelligence and diligence, and is eager to show her strength in the field of acting. Although the man kindly said that he could use his connections in the film and television industry to build a bridge for her, Zhou Lanjun misunderstood that the other party was showing off, and even questioned the man's educational background and family environment.
This blind date also ended in failure.
The two failed blind date experiences exposed the huge gap between Zhou Lanjun's ideals and reality. She insisted that her conditions were enough to match the rich second generation, but she ignored the more important emotional fit and value recognition in marriage.
Her self-confidence is somewhat blind in the face of reality, and her excessive focus on material conditions also makes potential partners uncomfortable.
Despite the setbacks, Zhou Lanjun still stuck to his point. She firmly stated in the show: "I will never give up on my ideals, even if the show fails to find a suitable partner for me, I will do my best through other means!" Behind this persistence, it not only shows her insistence on self-worth, but also exposes her deviation in perception of reality.
Zhou Lanjun's performance in the blind date show triggered the audience's in-depth thinking about "the right match". Her story is not only a person's view of marriage and love, but also reflects the value orientation of some young people in the face of love and materialism.
Her overly idealistic expectations and stubborn attitude not only made her miss the possible good fate, but also laid a hidden danger for her to suffer from a storm of public opinion in the future.
After the broadcast of "Blind Date Will Win", Zhou Lanjun's remarks were like a bombshell, causing an uproar on the Internet. Her declaration of "not marrying a rich second generation who is worth more than 100 million yuan" instantly pushed her to the forefront of public opinion.
Countless netizens expressed strong dissatisfaction with her concept of "money worship", and accused her of pursuing material interests too much and ignoring the more important emotional factors in marriage.
In the face of overwhelming criticism, some people speculated that this might just be a means of hype by the program team. However, the program team quickly came forward to clarify, emphasizing that Zhou Lanjun's words and deeds were completely true, and bluntly said that "there are many misunderstandings in her concepts".
This statement undoubtedly further focused the focus of public opinion on Zhou Lanjun.
Overnight, Zhou Lanjun became a "man of the hour" on the Internet. However, this attention was not what she expected. On campus, her classmates pointed fingers at her; In class, the teachers also looked at her with strange eyes.
The originally peaceful campus life was completely broken, and Zhou Lanjun fell into an unprecedented predicament.
At first, Zhou Lanjun tried to defend himself and insisted on his point of view. However, as the pressure of public opinion continued to increase, her psychological defense line gradually collapsed. Once full of confidence, she began to question her own values and life choices.
The storm of public opinion not only affected Zhou Lanjun's school life, but also cast a shadow on her future. When she graduated, she found that the "money worship" label she was carrying had become a huge obstacle on the way to finding a job.
Many businesses rejected her job applications because of her remarks on the show. The once glamorous ideal of life has gradually faded under the weight of reality.
Under the huge pressure of public opinion, Zhou Lanjun finally had to apologize publicly and express his deep apologies for his inappropriate remarks. Although not everyone accepted her apology, the storm finally began to subside.
This storm of public opinion taught Zhou Lanjun a profound life lesson. It not only made her aware of the deviation of her own values, but also made her realize the great power of online public opinion.
Zhou Lanjun, who originally expected to realize the "dream of a wealthy family" through the show, fell into the whirlpool of public opinion because of his remarks, which is undoubtedly a huge irony.
However, it was this turmoil that became a turning point in Zhou Lanjun's life. It forced her to re-examine her outlook on life and values, and also planted the seeds for her future growth and transformation.
After experiencing the baptism of public opinion storm, Zhou Lanjun's life fell into a trough. However, it was in the midst of such adversity that she embarked on a difficult but meaningful journey of self-adjustment.
She once firmly believed that she could be happy by "marrying into a wealthy family", and began to re-examine her life values.
After a period of precipitation, Zhou Lanjun gradually realized that true happiness and success do not only come from external material conditions, but more importantly, from the realization of self-worth.
With this in mind, she decided to start afresh and create her own future with her own hands.
Zhou Lanjun began to devote himself to his work, and at the same time actively prepared for various vocational examinations. She has demonstrated an amazing ability to learn and a resilient spirit that began to emerge as a student and is now being used in the workplace.
After several years of hard work, her career and life are gradually on the right track.
After accumulating enough experience and funds, Zhou Lanjun made a bold decision to return to his hometown of Xiamen and establish his own network technology company. The road to entrepreneurship has not been smooth, but Zhou Lanjun has shown extraordinary resilience and wisdom.
She no longer pins her hopes on others, but relies on her own efforts to create value.
This transformation not only brought success in his career, but also allowed Zhou Lanjun to regain his self-confidence and direction in life. The girl who once pursued "marrying into a wealthy family" has now grown into an independent and energetic working woman.
Her story, in a way, is a modern-day version of "Phoenix Nirvana", showing how a person can achieve self-growth and reinvent their worth in the face of setbacks and doubts.
In April 2020, 30-year-old Zhou Lanjun posted a post on social media, showing her mental journey. This date seems to be a farewell to the past and a declaration of a new life.
Today's Zhou Lanjun, although he is still single, his life is full of new pursuits and meanings. She is passionate about many hobbies such as tea ceremony, painting, archery, cooking, etc., and has shown a colorful attitude towards life.
The young girl who was once obsessed with "marrying into a wealthy family" has now transformed into a confident, independent mature woman.
Zhou Lanjun deeply realized that only by working hard in a down-to-earth manner can we go further on the road of life. This transformation is not only reflected in her career achievements, but also in her attitude towards life and self-awareness.
Her story has sparked deep thinking about the "right match": what is really important in life choices? Is it external wealth, or is it intrinsic value? This question may be worth pondering for everyone.
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