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As a well-known "national mother", Xi Meijuan has experienced ups and downs along the way, and her career-like career is in stark contrast to the ups and downs of her love life.
In her role in the film "Mom! When she won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress, her ex-husband Zhou Yemang suddenly broke the news on social platforms that "she cheated and abandoned our children", which caused an uproar in the outside world.
Behind the seemingly happy marriage, there are so many family ugliness and power struggles hidden, let us uncover the mystery of the married life of this old drama bone.
Ordinary background, dream persistence
Xi Meijuan was born in an ordinary working family in the 50s of the last century, and has had a strong interest in performing arts since she was a child. It can be said that extraordinary dreams are born in the ordinary. At the age of 18, like many young people, she responded to the country's call to go to the countryside to exercise, and although life was hard, she never extinguished her inner yearning for the stage.
Fortunately, God finally favored this diligent and studious girl, and Xi Meijuan was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy for the first time in the college entrance examination. During his time in school, although his appearance was not outstanding, he relied on his persistent love for performing arts and the spirit of diligent study, and laid a solid foundation for acting.
In 1979, Xi Meijuan was successfully assigned to the Shanghai People's Art Theater after graduating from the opera. With his excellent temperament and acting skills, he soon gained attention in the theater and began to play an important role in stage plays. At the same time, she also began to experiment with film and television works. Although the aura is small, the fire of dreams in my heart has never been extinguished.
Soon, the opportunity came. In 1990, Xi Meijuan, who was only 30 years old, won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress with her first movie "Fake Girl's True Love", and since then she has officially become a hot first-line actress in the Chinese film industry. In this way, with her own efforts, she not only climbed to the peak of her career, but also realized the value of life from the heart, which is admirable.
Love marriage is in crisis
In 1985, when her career was in full swing, 30-year-old Xi Meijuan met a man who would change the trajectory of her life - Zhou Yemang. At that time, Zhou Yemang was just an unknown young actor, 13 years younger than Xi Meijuan, but the two fell in love at first sight and fell madly into the whirlpool of love.
Despite the huge disparity in status and the large age gap between the two, Xi Meijuan is extremely attentive to this relationship. Perhaps out of a kind of hesitation, a sudden love gave her a new purpose and focus in life. After a short period of love, the two soon decided to enter the palace of marriage.
No one thought that the honey oil of the newlyweds would fade soon. Soon after marriage, Xi Meijuan became pregnant, and the two were originally elated, but what happened next made them never expect.
During pregnancy, Xi Meijuan unfortunately suffered an accidental miscarriage, and the process of miscarriage also caused great trauma to her body, and the doctor told her that it would be extremely difficult to get pregnant again. This undoubtedly cast a shadow on the happy life of the young couple.
In the days that followed, the contradictions between the two began to accumulate gradually. Xi Meijuan is already a popular film and television star, and Zhou Yemang is still a small role. The difference in status and this miscarriage made both of them emotionally sensitive, and quarrels began to be staged frequently.
After a quarrel, Zhou Yemang even moved out of the two's house directly. From a couple in love to a separated couple, the couple has come through a bumpy road.
In order to make up for her regrets, Xi Meijuan was determined to have another child
Faced with the embarrassment of marital life, Xi Meijuan did not choose to give up easily. Instead, she decided to redeem her lost happiness with a greater determination and courage.
As the doctor told her that it was very difficult to get pregnant at an advanced age, Xi Meijuan put her work aside for the time being and began to focus on recuperating her body in the hope of being able to conceive a baby again.
Fortunately, God appreciates people with hearts, and her efforts have not been in vain. In 1989, Xi Meijuan was 39 years old, but she gave birth to a healthy son as she wished. For her, this is undoubtedly a good opportunity to make up for her regrets. The birth of the child also rekindled new hope for her and Zhou Yemang's marriage.
The good times did not last long, and the contradiction between the two was still difficult to eliminate. Only a month after the child was born, Zhou Yemang asked for a breakup and divorce. The reason is most likely due to the difference in status and lifestyle between the two. One is a well-known film and television star, and the other is just a small actor, which is enough to make the man have a serious inferiority complex.
As you can imagine, the court finally granted the two divorces. In this way, Xi Meijuan's married life from being in love with her newlywed to being pregnant and miscarrying, separating, and divorced can be described as a difficult resume, full of hardships and twists and turns.
Single mothers create a warm image
After the divorce, Xi Meijuan, who is a single mother, chose to raise her children alone. But in her career, she didn't give up because of this. On the contrary, while raising her children, she still devotes herself to her work.
This time, Xi Meijuan decided to challenge different styles of characters in turn. Due to her status as a single mother, she began to frequently appear in some dramas that interpreted the image of her mother. For example, the 1995 movie "Parents' Heart" and the 1998 film "Yun Zhifan" were all her classic masterpieces at that time.
Through her excellent acting skills, Xi Meijuan perfectly interpreted the images of various mothers, leaving a deep impression on the audience. Especially in "Parents' Heart", she played a single mother who worked hard to raise her children, and her delicate emotional performance made the audience cry. Since then, the "warm and kind mother image" has been deeply imprinted in the hearts of the public.
After that, Xi Meijuan took the image of her mother to the extreme. Whether it is a stage play or a film and television work, she can always fit the role and vividly show a mother's doting, understanding and unwavering love for her children. The audience is also happy to associate her with beautiful elements such as happy family and warm maternal love, so she is also known as the "national mother".
It can be said that Xi Meijuan's small transformation in her career has won her unprecedented popularity and influence. As a single mother, she not only takes maternal love to the extreme, but also interprets how women can achieve a perfect balance between family and career with her own practice.
encountered the news of her ex-husband's fierce revelations, and her married life fell into controversy again
Just when everyone thought that the life of this "national mother" was finally on a stable track, something that shocked the entertainment industry happened-Xi Meijuan's ex-husband Zhou Yemang broke the news on social platforms, claiming that Xi Meijuan "cheated and abandoned our children" back then!
The news was so appalling that it aroused strong attention and heated discussions in public opinion for a while. For Xi Meijuan, who has always maintained a low-key and positive image, this is undoubtedly a heavy blow. As an old husband and wife who have been divorced for many years, why did the two suddenly start such a verbal war? What are the reasons and shady reasons behind this?
Judging from the information, Zhou Yemang's revelations seem a little inexplicable. After all, the divorce agreement was reached voluntarily by both parties, and the custody of the child was also awarded to Xi Meijuan. In the past 20 years, Zhou Yemang has never expressed any dissatisfaction with this. So what is the original intention of this revelation?
For a while, all kinds of speculations and opinions appeared. Some people think that this may just be a kind of nostalgia and reluctance for Zhou Yemang's past, and he poured out some dissatisfaction in his heart when he was old; Some people also revealed that this is likely to be related to Xi Meijuan's latest "National Mother" title and career pinnacle honor, which is due to the jealousy of some villains; Of course, there is no shortage of speculation that there may be another hidden truth behind this......
In any case, the blow this incident brought to Xi Meijuan is self-evident. At the age of seventy, she has entered the second half of her life at this time, and she should have successfully reached old age. But just when she achieved the ultimate career achievement, she was destroyed by an incision in her old partner, and she was not spared by the subsequent rumors and criticism.
Not only her personal prestige has been damaged, but even the "mother figure" she has carefully created over the years has not been spared. Because if the child is really not biological as Zhou Yemang said, she will also lose the capital to preach and influence the public. This is undoubtedly the greatest humiliation for her.
Perhaps because of the fact that she had just passed the year of her establishment, Xi Meijuan seemed a little lacking in confidence in the face of such a blow, and she chose absolute silence. In the face of repeated questions from the media, she just waved her hand again and again to avoid talking. As her old friend, actor Zhang Yiman only said when the outside world attacked Xi Meijuan personally, "Whether it's true or not, this is not what everyone should care about the most."
At the same time, Zhou Yemang's side also quickly began to remain silent. After such a shock, no news can be obtained from him himself. And the divorce lawyer of the two at the time wittily chose not to comment on it.
It seems that the old couple has adopted an extremely low-key and silent attitude towards this sudden marriage turmoil, and did not choose to add chaos to the field of public opinion. It seems that he only sees this incident as an unpleasant past, and does not want to dwell on it too much.
Fade the halo and hope for a long time
This incident did add some shadows to Xi Meijuan's peaceful life in her later years. Despite her successful career, she still has to pay for this dusty marriage. However, as an old drama bone of both virtue and art, even if she is over the age of six, she still maintains an optimistic attitude towards life.
In the interview, someone asked her: "What do you think of this 'cheating and outcast' storm that has been on the hot search?" Why don't you explain more?" Xi Meijuan just smiled: "The rumors are right and wrong, and they are not enough to worry about." The important thing is to live your life well. It seems that after the vicissitudes of life, she has already been quite a bit of an old minister.
In fact, in the past few decades, Xi Meijuan has become a leader in the Chinese entertainment industry with her own efforts. Not only has it won numerous awards at home and abroad, but also subtly influenced the understanding of maternal love for several generations with the role of a classic mother.
And her son is now married, and Xi Meijuan has also tasted the joy of being a mother. Therefore, for this "national mother", the old things that her ex-husband suddenly broke out can only be regarded as a small episode in her later life.
As the saying goes, "If a person is not a sage, who can do nothing". After more than half a century of dominance in the art world, Xi Meijuan still maintains a frank and clean philosophy. Although there have been many difficulties recently, I believe that with her open-mindedness and wisdom, these will eventually be resolved by her and diluted by time.
I hope that this respected veteran actor can smile at the future in her later years and continue to maintain her love for life and optimism. Even if her halo fades, she is still something we can learn from and emulate in terms of sincerity and tenacity. I hope she can live a long time, forever young and always with tears in her eyes.