Hello everyone! I am writing about life, holding the pen in my hand to share with you the trivial things in life, tasting the ups and downs of life, and the mood of the four seasons.
It is said that families with children and daughters are the happiest to be able to make up a "good" word, but I feel very painful, as if I am being placed on a charcoal fire.
Obviously, I was already very fair to my daughter and daughter-in-law, but in the end, I still attracted complaints, my daughter thought that I was partial to my daughter-in-law, and my daughter-in-law thought that I treated my daughter more kindly than her.
That's true! It's hard to be a mother, it's even more difficult to be a mother-in-law, I have contributed money and efforts at both ends, but I haven't been able to get a good word in front of my daughter and daughter-in-law, I'm really sad and angry!
I really don't know what I'm doing that is not to their liking, but I've thought about everything I can think of.
Let's talk about my family's troubles and distress right now!
Daughter-in-law Liu Xin and daughter Jiajia gave birth to a child, only five days before and after confinement, I am worried that my daughter-in-law Liu Xin is not happy, and I have heard many people say that most of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law feuds are "confinement feuds", in order to avoid the occurrence of contradictions, I invited my daughter-in-law early to the confinement sister-in-law, or the gold medal confinement sister-in-law, which is 2000 yuan more than the salary of ordinary confinement sister-in-law.
I thought in my heart, how many times can a woman have children in her life, and the more money she pays, the more money she can pay, as long as she can take care of the adults and children properly and thoughtfully.
But when I told my daughter-in-law about asking her confinement sister-in-law to take care of her confinement, my daughter-in-law's face immediately became gloomy, and she said in a weird way
"So be it! Mom, didn't you say that the confinement lady is professional and nutritious with meals, then my sister-in-law should be more considerate of my sister, and take the initiative to give her a good thing, you come to serve me in confinement, and let the confinement sister-in-law go to serve Jiajia's confinement! ”
Now that the daughter-in-law has spoken, how can this mother-in-law refuse? This was the only way things could be settled, and I turned to my daughter
"Jiajia, when you were confined, your mother invited you a professional gold medal confinement sister-in-law, plus your mother-in-law took care of you together, you are only responsible for taking care of your body."
"Mom, didn't you say it earlier? You come to take care of my confinement, my mother-in-law's cooking, I really can't get used to it, besides, you know, I can't get along with my mother-in-law, she has a broken mouth, and I am most annoyed to listen to her nagging......"
"Don't talk about your mother-in-law like that, she has been treating you very well"
Then the daughter said angrily
"Okay, Mom, it must be your good daughter-in-law who is a demon, I'm not wrong, right? It must be that she stopped you from serving my confinement child, let me use the confinement sister-in-law, it's better for you not to help your daughter but to help an outsider"
"Jiajia, your sister-in-law is not an outsider, besides, I am serving your sister-in-law's confinement and will come to see you"
There's no way, I don't know how to do it, so I can only take care of it first and try to balance their sister-in-law relationship, after all, we are a family, and if the relationship is stiff, it is necessary for outsiders to see jokes.
The days passed quickly, and in a blink of an eye, there was movement on my daughter-in-law's side, and she gave birth to a big fat boy of seven pounds and three taels.
Sure enough, at my age, I really experienced the kind of next-generation parent, I held the child and looked at the kiss and kissed, and wrapped a 10,000 yuan red envelope for my daughter-in-law, and a 10,000 yuan red envelope for my grandson, and then happily took my daughter-in-law home for confinement.
Five days after the birth of my grandson, my daughter was also hospitalized, and after I received the notice, I waited anxiously outside the delivery room, but my daughter's birth was not so smooth, and the child's fetal head never went down, and there was no choice but to give birth smoothly.
As soon as I heard that my daughter was going to have a caesarean section, I couldn't help but pinch my heart, you must know that a caesarean section hurts the body, but there is no way to do it in this situation, I can only listen to the doctor.
My in-laws and I were waiting in the corridor of the hospital, we were talking together, my eyes never left the door of the operating room, I was really worried about my daughter, every minute and every second was so long for me now.
Suddenly, the door to the operating room was opened, and the nurse reported the good news
"Girl, six pounds and eight taels, the child is very beautiful"
I finally let go of my hanging heart and said happily to my in-laws beside me
"You upgraded to be a grandmother, and I also became a grandmother!"
Who knew that the in-laws did not answer, but casually echoed with a small voice like a mosquito humming, well, not very happy.
Thinking that her in-laws are daughters-in-law, I didn't say much, looking at her current attitude, I don't need to ask to know that she is worried about adding a granddaughter.
To be honest, in the face of the lukewarm attitude of my in-laws, I feel very uncomfortable, my daughter gave birth to such a big sin, and she still dislikes it.
Because my daughter was born by caesarean section, I stayed in the hospital for seven days before being discharged, and after receiving my daughter from the hospital, I hurried back to continue to serve my daughter-in-law's confinement, and I couldn't do without it here.
On the third day after my daughter was discharged from the hospital, she called me crying
"Mom, come on!"
I asked my daughter what happened on the phone, she didn't speak, just kept crying, I comforted my daughter while rushing to my daughter's house.
It turned out that the daughter's mother-in-law packed her luggage on the third day after her daughter returned home, turned around and went back to her hometown, saying that there was a confinement lady at home to take care of, and it was redundant for her to stay here, and there was still a lot of farm work to do in her hometown!
didn't ask for her daughter's consent at all, just said a word and left without looking back, and her daughter choked up
"You didn't see my mother-in-law like that, she refused to hold the child when she came home, she was disgusted everywhere, she was blind to me, couldn't see anything?
When others become grandmothers, they will give their children a meeting gift, she didn't give my daughter a penny, and let my husband go to the study to sleep, for fear that his son would not rest well at night and affect his work
No, drop a word, get up and leave, who is it?
Besides, I have the final say in the matter of having a boy or a girl? I lose face at home every day, and I say something to scold Huai, let's go, don't come back"
The woman in the confinement is the most angry, I hurriedly comforted my daughter with kind words,
"Your mother-in-law is from the countryside and has no education, and now the child is small, and when the child grows up, she will call grandma, and she promised to kiss her when she met"
I can only coax my daughter like this, she is in confinement, afraid that she will block the milk when she is angry, which is not good for herself and the child, but she is afraid of what comes, and after two days the child has no milk to eat, and is so hungry that she cries, and the child refuses to eat the milk powder, so anxious that I am like an ant on a hot pot.
At this time, my daughter-in-law called and said that I should buy a few more catties of pork ribs when I went back, and she still wanted to eat the lotus root pork rib soup I stewed for her yesterday.
I suddenly thought that my daughter-in-law's milk was so good, that my grandson couldn't eat it alone, and that my daughter-in-law would squeeze out the swollen milk and pour it out, and an idea immediately appeared in my mind, so that my granddaughter could also eat my daughter-in-law's milk, so that the problem would be solved.
As soon as I got home, I told my daughter-in-law what I thought, but my daughter-in-law did
"It's not that I don't feed, Jia Jia has a lot of things, don't let her daughter eat my milk when the time comes, and say I'm not good, find fault with me"
"Where? Jiajia thank you for being too late, I won't let her daughter eat for nothing, when the time comes, let her give you this aunt's nutrition fee"
Hearing me say this, my daughter-in-law did not shirk it, and I came to my daughter's house with pumped milk that afternoon.
In this way, I went back and forth between the two houses, and after three months, my daughter and daughter-in-law's maternity leave was over, and it was time to go back to work.
In order to make it easier to take care of them, I took all my grandchildren and granddaughters to my home.
My daughter-in-law's workplace is far away from home, so she pumps the milk in advance in the morning and puts it in the refrigerator, and I feed it to my grandson after I warm it up.
One day when I was busy at noon, I said to my daughter
"This pink bottle is Yueyue, this blue bottle is Ranran, and when the child wakes up, you will feed it to them"
When my daughter asked me, I had to say that this distinction was for hygiene, in fact, because the contents of the two bottles were different, one was milk powder and the other was breast milk.
Who knew that my daughter actually fed the bottle with breast milk to her granddaughter, but let Ran Ran drink milk powder, I came back from going out and saw it, I said daughter
"Don't be like this, in case your sister-in-law knows, it's not good"
Who knew that her daughter didn't think so, saying that her daughter-in-law was at work, how could she come back at this time?
It was just a matter of time, and sure enough, one day as soon as I entered the door, my daughter-in-law yelled at me
"I really can't imagine that you will join hands with your daughter to harm your own grandson, I said why can't Ranran eat my breast milk well, it turns out that you let him eat milk powder, and feed all the milk I pumped for the child to your granddaughter, you really will elbow out!
Not close to his own grandson, but good to a person with a foreign surname"
I just wanted to explain, but my daughter-in-law didn't give me a chance to speak, so she took out her mobile phone and showed me a group of pictures and videos
"You don't know, I installed a camera at home, and I wanted to see what you were doing at home after work, but who knew that I saw your daughter feeding my pumped milk to her own child, but letting my son drink milk powder, is there such an aunt?
And you, after knowing that your daughter is doing this, you will not stop it, I will call your son right now to see how vicious his sister is, how eccentric is
You mother and daughter do this, I really don't worry about letting such a selfish and vicious person as you take care of the child, I want to hand over the child to my mother to take it, and let the child change his surname to our family, because he can learn what good he can learn when he grows up with a person with bad thoughts and bad hearts like you?
I will ask for leave from the unit tomorrow, I will send my son to my mother, if any of you dare to stop it, I will divorce your son"
Watching my daughter-in-law leave with her grandson in her arms, I was aggrieved and didn't know what to say, but then my daughter spoke
"She dares to divorce, and she dares to change her child's surname, look at what she can, I really don't know how many pounds and taels she has"
I was already angry, but my daughter added fuel and vinegar to the side, and I yelled at her angrily,
"It's not all because of you, I said a long time ago that I wouldn't let you do this, but you didn't listen"
When my daughter saw me yelling at her, she immediately picked up her granddaughter and left, and said to me when she went out
"You know to yell at me, your daughter-in-law is doing well, it's all right, you just care about her in the future, don't care about me"
Seeing my daughter-in-law and daughter treat me like this, I couldn't hold back the grievances in my heart anymore, sat on the sofa and began to cry loudly.
One by one, they are really enemies, they really want to me off!
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