Crash! On the streets of Guilin, the uncle and the woman were on the "bar" because of lychees, and the children were distressed
On June 28, there was a high-profile dispute on the streets of Guilin, where an uncle was selling two baskets of lychees on the street, and a woman led her children to buy lychees, but she had a dispute with the uncle over the selection of lychees, which eventually caused a big storm.
It is reported that when the woman was choosing lychees, she found that there were only two lychees hanging on a lychee stalk, she hoped to remove the lychee stalk and only buy the fruit on it, but the uncle insisted on not wanting to remove the lychee stalk, so the two sides had a dispute, the uncle was emotional, and actually scolded the mother and son, the child was frightened and cried all the time, the woman felt very angry and asked the uncle to apologize.
According to the video at the scene, the woman had an argument with the uncle, and asked the uncle to apologize emotionally, she said angrily: "Everyone comes to comment, I buy lychees, one pole is two lychees, you let me buy that lychee, I want to remove the pole, you say no, if you don't buy it, you will scold me."
Uncle said, did I scold you, and then the woman took the one with only two lychees from the basket, let everyone see, sell me such one, I said remove the pole, just want lychees, you don't want to, I want to buy lychees, you have to let me buy the poles, I don't buy them, you just scolded me and the child behind the buttocks, my child has been crying, he has been wronged, you have to apologize!
The uncle insisted that he did not scold, the two sides insisted on their own words, and the dispute intensified, and in the end, the uncle, driven by emotions, pushed the woman and quickly fled the scene, this scene shocked the people present.
After this incident was filmed and uploaded to the Internet, it quickly sparked heated discussions among netizens. Some netizens said that the uncle's approach is not kind, and he should not be careful because of a little money, let alone scold innocent children, and some netizens said that the uncle is not easy, and the woman's attitude is not friendly enough during the dispute.
Some netizens said that this mother is really speechless, and she doesn't care about the quarrelsome children. But more people think that it is wrong for the uncle to scold people, and he does not apologize to the child, which is really not generous enough.
As bystanders, we may not be able to fully understand the situation at the time, and can only understand part of it from the video, but the mother asked the uncle to apologize, more because she was worried about the feelings of her children, every child is the heart of the parents, and the mother will naturally feel angry and dissatisfied when she sees her child being hurt.
So, who is justified in this dispute? In fact, there is no absolute answer to this question. From the uncle's point of view, he felt that he was selling the whole lychee, and the pole was also part of the commodity, and should not be removed casually, it was nothing more than wanting to sell it for a little more money, and from the woman's point of view, she just wanted to buy the lychee she liked, remove the extra pole, and weigh it a little less, and just want to save some money.
However, let me say, who is the most ignorant, I think it is the uncle, he should not scold people, especially scolding an innocent child, it is even more unacceptable, do business, make money with harmony, if the uncle can be generous at that time and apologize to the woman, this matter will pass, but unfortunately, the uncle's stubborn temper made him miss the opportunity to resolve the conflict.
Here, we also want to remind parents and friends, when taking children out, we must always pay attention to the child's feelings, although the child is still young, but their hearts are also very sensitive, if parents have an argument with someone in public, it is easy to make the child feel scared and uneasy, so, for the healthy growth of the child, parents must learn to control their emotions, stay calm and rational.
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Finally, I hope that both the uncle and the woman can learn from this experience and be more calm and rational when dealing with similar problems in the future.
Do you support the uncle, or is it a woman?