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In 1999, Yan Ni's career shone as brightly as she shined on the stage, but her private life ushered in an unexpected turn. The marriage with Zou Wei was like a silent storm, quietly disintegrating.
The blow that this parting brought to Yan Ni was far deeper than she imagined.
On the set of "Wulin Gaiden", she made frequent mistakes, as if she was lost between the character and reality. The director's harsh criticism is still in her ears, but it can't bring back her sluggish mind.
Who would have thought that today, twenty years later, his former partner Zou Wei has formed a happy family with his new love, but Yan Ni is still groping alone in the fog of emotion.
What kind of ups and downs has this seemingly happy but abrupt marriage experienced? How does Yan Ni find emotional balance in the wave of her career? Let's step into Yan Ni's world and uncover her little-known story.
In the early 90s of last century, Yan Ni, who had a dream of acting, stepped into the ranks of literary and artistic soldiers. At this hopeful moment, fate arranged for her to meet Zou Wei through a blind date.
Although Zou Wei is just an ordinary grassroots policeman, his upright and frank temperament is like a breeze blowing through Yan Ni's heart.
The acquaintance of the two seems to be fate. Zou Wei is not as glamorous as a star in the entertainment industry, but he has a special charm. His integrity and conscientious work attracted the young Yan Ni.
And Yan Ni's talent, liveliness and cuteness also made Zou Wei fall in love.
With the support of both parents, the two quickly established a romantic relationship. Yan Ni recalled those sweet days, with a gentle glint in her eyes: "At that time, we were like the protagonists of a fairy tale, and every day was full of laughter.
After marriage, Yan Ni seems to have become a good wife and mother, devoting all her energy to family life. She takes good care of her husband, considerates her in-laws, and takes care of the family's affairs in an orderly manner.
Soon after, they ushered in the crystallization of love - their lovely daughter Zou Yuanqing. The life of the small family is warm and happy, and Yan Ni's in-laws love her as if she were their own daughter.
However, Yan Ni's dream of acting has not been completely extinguished. In addition to taking care of her family, she often thinks about how to balance her family and career. Although Zou Wei is proud of his wife's talent, he is also vaguely worried that it may affect their family life.
Yan Ni once said with emotion in an interview: "At that time, I was like standing at the crossroads of life. On one side is a warm home, and on the other side is a shining stage. I thought I could do both, but fate gave me an unexpected turn.
Although this marriage started well, as time went on, conflicts quietly grew. The gap between Yan Ni's love for acting and Zou Wei's expectations for his family has become a thorn in their relationship.
Despite this, in the eyes of others, they are still a happy couple, and no one expected that this seemingly happy marriage was about to usher in a huge test.
In 1999, Yan Ni's acting career ushered in a turning point. She met director Shang Jing, a talented man who later directed "Wulin Gaiden", which opened the door to the showbiz for Yan Ni.
However, the arrival of opportunities also means the beginning of challenges. Endless filming and long business trips followed, making it difficult for Yan Ni to take care of her family as wholeheartedly as she used to.
At first, Zou Wei showed understanding and support for his wife to regain her acting dream. He is proud of Yan Ni's talent and hopes that she can achieve her ambitions. However, as time passed, Zou Wei's inner uneasiness grew.
He hopes that Yan Ni can spend more time with her family, especially her young daughter Zou Yuanqing.
Yan Ni recalled: "I often went back and forth between the set and my home, trying to juggle both sides, but I found that I couldn't do it. Every time I go home, when I see Zou Wei wanting to speak and stopping, my heart is like pressing a big stone.
Zou Wei also confided his concerns to Yan Ni: "I understand your dreams, but our family also needs you. This sentence was like a blunt knife, slowly cutting off their feelings.
Yan Ni was caught in a dilemma, she didn't want to give up her hard-won career opportunities, and she didn't want to ignore the needs of her family.
The contradiction between the two gradually deepened. Yan Ni was so busy with work that she often didn't have time to go home for months. Zou Wei hopes that she can stay at home with her children.
This disagreement has strained the otherwise harmonious family atmosphere.
In 2004, after a long period of struggle and reflection, the two finally chose to break up peacefully. The decision came suddenly, but it made sense. Yan Ni fell into deep self-blame and confusion, and she didn't know if she had made the right choice.
Life after the divorce is not easy. In 2005, Yan Ni made frequent mistakes in the filming of "Wulin Gaiden", and was even severely criticized by the director: "It's just a divorce, how can it be so unbearable?" This sentence was like a hammer, hitting Yan Ni's fragile heart.
"During that time, I was like a walking corpse, doing my work mechanically, but I didn't feel the meaning of life," she recalls.
However, it was this difficult experience that made Yan Ni re-examine her life. She realizes that although she lost her marriage, she still has her own career and daughter.
This became the motivation for her to regain her strength.
Yan Ni's parents-in-law once dissuaded Zou Wei, telling him that losing Yan Ni would bring endless regrets. However, it turns out that it is not Zou Wei who really feels remorse after the divorce, but Yan Ni, who is in trouble for a while.
The end of this marriage not only brought a huge blow to Yan Ni, but also became an important turning point in her career. It forced Yan Ni to rethink the meaning of life, and also made her stronger and more independent in the days that followed.
In 2005, the broadcast of "Wulin Gaiden" became an important turning point in Yan Ni's career. Although she made frequent mistakes due to the impact of divorce in the early stages of filming, she finally succeeded in creating an unforgettable image of Tong Xiangyu with her strong will and love for acting.
This role not only made Yan Ni famous in one fell swoop, but also became an important opportunity for her to get out of the haze of marriage.
Yan Ni, who came out of the trough, put all her energy into her work. She continues to challenge various types of roles, from comedy to drama, from urban drama to period drama, Yan Ni's performance range continues to expand, and her acting skills have become more and more proficient.
Every character she portrays is lifelike and leaves a lasting impression on the audience.
However, behind the success, Yan Ni still maintains her love and humble attitude towards her acting career. She once said in an interview: "Every role is a new challenge for me, and I never dare to slack off.
The profession of an actor has allowed me to constantly meet new selves, and it has also given me the opportunity to understand the world through different roles.
Yan Ni's efforts have been recognized by the industry and the audience. She was praised by CCTV for her no makeup and no makeup during the filming process, and her peers such as Zhang Yi and Huang Bo also praised her acting skills and beauty.
These must have given Yan Ni the motivation to keep going.
In 2023, "Dad" and "Wading through the Sea of Anger" starring Yan Ni will be released one after another, once again attracting widespread attention from the audience. Especially in the promotional activities of "Learning Dad", Yan Ni's lively and humorous performance, especially the video of her dancing weight loss exercises in Liu Genghong's live broadcast room, quickly became popular on the Internet.
This not only shows her authentic and relatable side, but also allows people to see her consistent enthusiasm and energy.
Yan Ni once sighed: "Life has given me ups and downs, but every time I fall, I choose to get back up." Acting has allowed me to find meaning in life and heal the wounds in my heart.
I hope that through my performance, I can bring joy to the audience and also convey some positive energy.
As a single mother, Yan Ni has struggled to balance her career and family. When her daughter Zou Yuanqing showed a strong interest in her acting career, Yan Ni chose to fully support it, although this decision caused some controversy in the outside world.
In 2017, the mother and daughter worked together to shoot the movie "I Am Your Mother". This film, which tells the story of "deep love and non-concession" between a single mother and daughter, although the box office results are mediocre, Yan Ni and Zou Yuanqing's sincere performances still touched many audiences.
Yan Ni said in an interview: "It is a special experience to be able to work with my daughter. I hope that through my own experience, she can understand the difficulties of this industry, and at the same time support her to follow her dreams.
Subsequently, Zou Yuanqing emerged in a number of works, including "Mountains and Seas", "Breakthrough" and "Grandma's New World". Although some people questioned whether she relied on her mother's relationship to get opportunities, Yan Ni always insisted on letting her daughter speak with strength.
However, Zou Yuanqing's "Undercover Police Flower" caused controversy due to improper role arrangement, and Yan Ni also received some negative reviews.
Facing doubts from the outside world, Yan Ni said frankly: "What I can do is to show her the direction, but she must walk the road of growth by herself." I believe that as long as she works hard, she will eventually be recognized.
These words not only show Yan Ni's care as a mother, but also reflect her expectations for her daughter.
Yan Ni and Zou Yuanqing's mother and daughter are of the same heart, which is not only reflected in the cooperation on the screen, but also reflected in the mutual support in life. Yan Ni used her own experience to tell her daughter that the road to her acting career is not smooth sailing, but as long as she maintains her love and persistence, she will definitely be able to shine.
The story of this mother and daughter has also become a unique and warm story in the entertainment industry.
Today's Yan Ni, although she is still emotionally single, she has not lost her love for life. On the contrary, she showed a more open-minded and optimistic attitude towards life.
In public, Yan Ni always faces life with a humorous and optimistic attitude. In August 2023, the video of her dancing weight loss exercises in the live broadcast room when promoting the movie "Learning Dad" quickly became popular, allowing people to see her true temperament.
This video, which was called "Yan Ni dances and plays me" by netizens, shows her unrestrained and free attitude to life, and has won the love of more audiences.
For the future, Yan Ni maintains a strong creative enthusiasm. She said: "I will continue to explore on the road of acting, and I hope to bring more excellent works to the audience."
As for feelings, I believe that fate has its own arrangement.
Yan Ni's story tells us that the ups and downs in life are not scary, the important thing is to maintain a positive attitude and face every challenge bravely. Her experience will undoubtedly inspire more people to persevere on the road of life and find their own happiness.
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