The nephew came back and happily told his parents: "I picked up an old man who fell down at the school gate, and I happened to be seen by the head teacher, who praised me in front of the whole class!" ”
It was really a thunderclap on the ground, and my cousin and cousin-in-law didn't have any joy, but were scared.
Not because of anything else, but because we also had shadows when we were children.
It's just that I didn't know what the ending was at the time, and now, I have to find the ending anyway and let the children take a look.
01 The boy was blackmailed for 1 million, and the old lady swore poisonously to "deceive people and the whole family suffered", what happened?
This happened in 2013, when we were still in college and about to graduate.
To be honest, if we saw an old man on the side of the road falling, we would really help him.
It's just that after seeing this news, my heart suddenly stopped being "kind".
The 9-year-old boy's name is Jiang Xiaoyun, and he is a young boy who likes to help others. One day, he and two classmates were walking on the road when they saw an old lady fall to the ground.
The little boys didn't think about it, and they went to help the old lady who had fallen.
Without thinking about it, the old lady did not get up, but grabbed the boy's hand, hugged the child's leg and shouted: "You knocked me down and lost money!" ”
I thought it was a simple thing to help people, but where did the little boys think that it was mixed with complex human nature, and the children were at a loss in the cry of the old lady.
Eventually, the parents of the children were invited.
Looking at the old lady's posture, the father really thought that his son had knocked the old lady down, so he reprimanded his son.
The son who was already aggrieved was even more aggrieved now, crying and telling his father that he didn't push her at all, but just watched her fall and wanted to help her get up.
It's just the old lady's cry, and it doesn't look like a fake.
In desperation, he could only send the old lady to the hospital for examination, but unexpectedly, the old lady's grandson found the boy's father and attributed the old lady's illness to this wrestling, claiming 1 million medical expenses and mental damages.
Such a posture made the father begin to believe that his son was innocent.
However, the old lady insisted that it was Xiaoyun and his classmates who collided with him, and Xiaoyun's father negotiated with the parents of the other two children, and each family paid 2,500 yuan for the old lady to see a doctor.
But the old lady's family did not agree, in order to get this huge amount of compensation and plant the sin on the children, she issued a poisonous oath to "deceive people and the whole family suffer"!
Since negotiation is not possible, then find witnesses.
Xiaoyun's father ran to the scene of the incident to look for witnesses, but fortunately, he found 2 eyewitnesses, both of which proved that the old lady fell down by herself, and the children went to help her.
In the end, as the old lady said, "the whole family suffered", and they also paid the price for their lies and claims: the old lady was sentenced to 7 days of detention, but she was too old to carry out the execution, but the grandson who participated in the claim was detained for 10 days and fined 500 yuan.
Such a trouble, such a family, and the reputation in the neighborhood have also collapsed, which can be regarded as the best "retribution".
02 You can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people
After telling his nephew about this incident, the nephew breathed a sigh of relief: Huh~ It's good that the bad guy got the punishment he deserved.
It's just that not all "good people and good deeds who have been wronged" will get a good ending, and what I am most afraid of is being "entangled" in the back, so this is what my cousin and cousin-in-law are most worried about.
They are afraid that the child is too kind and too helpful, giving the bad guys a "chance".
Then the cousin asked the nephew, "After seeing this story, if you could choose again, would you still help the old man?" ”
The nephew thought for a while: "I still have to help, but in order to prevent him from blackmailing me, I should have a certain amount of protection, right?" ”
That's right.
It is actually a good thing for children to be kind and helpful to others, but we must also tell our children that whether it is to save others or help others, the premise must be to protect themselves.
For example, you can ask an adult for help.
The strength of the child is relatively small, and sometimes it is not easy to lift up an old man, in case of secondary injury, it is not good, so it is better to ask adults for help in the case of everyone's "witness", so that there are a bunch of "witnesses".
This is actually teaching children how to deal with a thing, not all by words, but more importantly by evidence.
The same is true for helping the elderly, and dealing with things in life.
In our eyes, the campus is a clean and pure land, but there will also be school bullying, deception and so on.
We have to teach our children that we must not have the heart of harming others, and we must not have the heart of guarding against others.
We can be kind, but the premise of our kindness is to protect our own safety, so that we can prevent villains.
Topic discussion: If it were you, would you help the old man who fell?
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