"In the Name of the People" Qi Tongwei's crying grave has become a classic scene: Qi Tongwei served as the director of the Municipal Public Security Bureau, and once accompanied Zhao Lichun, then secretary of the Municipal Party Committee, to return to his hometown to visit the grave.
In the words of Secretary Dakang: "Comrade Qi Tongwei can really do it, he knelt down when he got to Zhao's grave, that was really crying!" Snot and tears all came down. ”
Qi Tongwei started from the weeping grave incident, and gradually got Zhao Lichun's reuse, and finally became the director of the Provincial Public Security Department.
But Qi Tongwei's crying grave is a storyline shaped by the needs of the plot, and an unusual arrangement recently occurred in Dejiang County, Tongren, Guizhou. After the death of an important person, the superior unit unexpectedly asked all the staff of Dejiang No. 1 Middle School and the Health Center to take turns to keep the vigil, and it lasted for 8 days, which aroused widespread attention and discussion among tens of millions of netizens.
The most important thing is what kind of person can influence all employees in the education and medical systems, and what is going on?
According to Xiaozheng's video report, someone died in Dejiang County, and all the staff of a local middle school and health center arranged shifts to keep a vigil. According to the schedule released by the "Dejiang No. 1 Middle School Trade Union", the middle school's "wake" was grouped by course groups from June 22 to June 28, of which June 29 is today, when all employees collectively held a wake.
From June 22 to June 28, the health center was divided into multiple medical groups according to the department to take turns to keep the vigil, and all the staff of the health center must be present on June 29.
Two different units issued wakes schedules with the same schedule at the same time, and the arrangements were well organized.
After the two schedules were released online, they quickly caused an uproar and controversy, exposing three controversial issues:
- Two units with different systems coincidentally make the same arrangement for the same deceased, who is this person?
- Sending a written notice in the form of a "wake" is obviously not a voluntary act, but more like an administrative directive
- In recent years, the funeral reform advocates "thick and thin burial", and the whole country is 1-3 days to complete the funeral, why can the wake be up to 8 days?
Netizens are hotly discussed
Netizens speculated that this must be the death of the local leaders in charge of these two departments or the relatives of the leaders, otherwise it would be impossible to arrange it in the form of a written schedule.
And shouldn't the wake for the deceased usually be children and immediate family members? Two people with different systems are on duty to keep vigil, what a prestige this is.
Some netizens speculated that this had to be one of the most important people in the local area.
Some netizens said: It's terrible, the right is for them to use this time, the right is a kind of supremacy in their hands, and this kind of behavior should be condemned by the whole country.
"Do you have any friends of Dejiang, come out and tell me who is dead in Dejiang, such a big battle"
A netizen whose address was a local in Guizhou replied, "I know, but it's hard to say."
The insider revealed: Let's put it this way, the older generation generally has several children, if the children are promising, the son has a job, the son's unit union will issue a notice to invite everyone to mourn, the daughter-in-law also has two units, the second son also has a job, that is, three units, and even the grandson's unit. Equality for everyone, this is humanistic care.
That is, the death of the immediate family members of local employees will have such treatment, and this is also the local custom.
The identity of the deceased surfaced, and the family spoke out
On June 29, the Propaganda Department of the Dejiang County Party Committee officially responded: The father of a teacher in the county died, and the school union's approach was to care for and comfort the employees.
That is, the father of a teacher in a local middle school died, and the school union cared for the employees out of humanistic care and condolence in the form of a shift and a vigil.
As for why the local health center also issued a wake-up list on duty at the same time, the Propaganda Department of the county party committee further responded that the teacher's wife was a nurse at the Yantang Township Health Center, so the health center's trade union posted the wake-up schedule according to the usual practice when handling the funeral, but the fact was not as rumored by the outside world. After verification by the Propaganda Department of the county party committee, in fact, only a small number of cadres and workers spontaneously went to express condolences and condolences during the rest time, and it did not have any impact on the study, teaching and hospital work.
As for why the whole country advocates the custom of "thick and thin burial", the deceased can keep the soul for 8 days before the funeral is buried for peace. Some netizens questioned "If you take a long time, you can collect more money, who would dare to let ordinary people go for so many days."
The relatives of the deceased responded in the comment area: "We waited for Mr. Feng Shui to read it and said that it would stop for a few more days, the time would be more appropriate, and there was no money at all."
In the end, in many traditional and remote communities, the emotional bond between people is particularly strong, and this emotion goes beyond the everyday relationship of colleagues and is more like a deep-rooted sense of collective belonging, building a close-knit family-like community.
Although this kind of community behavior has its roots in ancient traditions, the emotional temperature it contains cannot be ignored, and it embodies the deep emotional connection between people and the simple humanistic care.
However, in the fast-moving modern society, especially under the magnifying glass of online public opinion, this traditional custom is often met with misunderstanding and prejudice. It touches on sensitive issues such as the abuse of public power in modern society, and divides the understanding and acceptance of this tradition.
After the official investigation responded and clarified in a timely manner, the doubts in the hearts of netizens were also lifted, and the incident was full of warmth and human touch.
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