As the saying goes, close neighbors are like relatives, and this sentence is actually very reasonable. In many cases, we tend to value our neighbors more and feel that no matter what happens, our neighbors will help each other. In this world, in addition to your loved ones, there are also people around you who can be trusted and relied on.
After going through a few things, you will find that reality is not always what you imagined. Many times, the relatives you trust may not be what you want, and those who are the real friends around you may be doing better than your loved ones.
Chapter01
My good friend Youyou, he's my colleague. A few days ago, after the Chinese New Year, I noticed that he seemed to be in a low mood, so I talked to him. During the chat, I found out that he was annoyed by some of the relatives around him.
Youyou has an ordinary family, and when I was in college, I worked very hard, and I either went to the library to study in my spare time, or found a part-time job to exercise myself. He met his current wife Xiaoice in college, and after the two met in the library, they did not indulge in pleasure, but worked harder.
Chapter02
It's amazing to have two great people together, and in addition to enjoying food together, they are usually learning from each other and broadening their horizons. After graduating from university, my classmates were anxious to find a job, but they decided to start a business with confidence.
Naturally, it was not easy to start a business at the beginning, and we also borrowed money from relatives and friends around us. After borrowing a circle, we found that only our parents would help us, and the other relatives did not dare to take risks. On the contrary, our friend helped us scrape together a sum of money without saying a word. This makes us deeply feel that the power of friends is very powerful.
Chapter03
The two of them help and care for each other, and they are more motivated. In addition, they often worked part-time during their university years, and accumulated a wealth of work experience, so their careers are gradually progressing.
After a few more years, the hard work paid off, and the two entrepreneurs finally succeeded, seizing the opportunity to grow their company and pay off all the debts they had previously owed. For the friends around them, they also generously helped them and provided them with substantial help.
Later, the two succeeded, and after returning home, relatives often borrowed money from them under various pretexts. Out of affection, the two were embarrassed to refuse, always thinking that they would return sooner or later. But I didn't expect that the money lent out was like water spilled out, and it was gone forever.
During the Chinese New Year this year, the two of us bought a lot of things to go home to see our parents, and the relatives around us heard the news and rushed to pick us up, in fact, just to see the gifts we brought back.
Later, Youyou and Xiaoice generously gave a red envelope to their visiting relatives. I thought they would be happy, but I didn't expect to hear that these relatives were full of complaints on the way back, complaining that the amount of red envelopes was too low. At this time, both of them were completely disappointed with these relatives around them.
Youyou felt very troubled in the face of these relatives, they borrowed money but were unwilling to pay back, but complained too little when giving red envelopes, in short, Youyou's conclusion was: "These relatives are not worth socializing, and compared with the friends around them, it costs more to get in touch with them, but you don't gain anything." ”
Sentiment Analysis:
In this world, in addition to friendship and love, the most important thing is family affection. Some people say that friendship and love don't stand the test, but so does family affection.
Sometimes, you value your relatives as if they were family, but they don't necessarily treat you as a relative, they just use you to satisfy their own desires.
Family members are only bound together by blood, and they are not necessarily closer than their friends. Sometimes, our friends can help us more than our loved ones. We should be friendly to our friends, and we need to be careful about our family, and only what is worthy of our real care and treatment needs to be cherished.
The so-called relatives and friends are the people who can really support and help you when you need help, not just those who can have fun but can't share the joys and sorrows. Cherish the opportunity to connect with these people and stay away from those who don't deserve it.