In life, when we make friends, we judge a person's personality from their appearance. For us, the first criterion for making friends is a person's character and character. Friends are indispensable partners in our lives, communicating with each other and learning from each other. Good friends can help us benefit for life, while bad friends must be kept away because not only will they not help us, but they often take advantage of others when we are in trouble.
Some friends may approach you with a purpose, so we need to be wary. A person's qualities can be known through their details and behavioral abilities. If you encounter such a person, you should keep your distance at the first time.
No matter how long it takes, even if you are reluctant, I still recommend dealing with the problem decisively, eliminating the bad factors as soon as possible, and making life better.
I have a friend who is already a small accomplished professional elite, but he still feels a little unsatisfied. People tend to want more after they get more.
He has a friend he doesn't know very well at the place where he works, but he has recently become familiar with each other in the chat. Not long after they met, the friend revealed to him a method that said he could make a lot of money. At first, he thought it was just a joke, but seeing that friend became rich, he began to be tempted and even tentatively asked for tips on how to make money.
In the end, he tried this money-making method with that partner, and it worked well at first, making a lot of money. But slowly he felt that it was not enough, and it happened that the partner told him that he had found a faster way, but now he didn't have enough money, and asked to borrow a little money to turn around. He was a little puzzled, but he wanted to believe the partner, so he lent him the money. Eventually, the partner slipped away with the money.
It's really uncomfortable to make him just dumb and take bitter medicine. Those who approach you only for the sake of calculating you must not make friends. They do one thing on the surface, but behind the scenes they are another, and they will stab you in the back when you trust them the most.
Making friends is nothing more than to see if the other party treats you sincerely, if you don't feel sincere, then you need to think about whether there is another purpose.
There is a type of person in life who is always complaining about his situation. They think that their dissatisfaction is a providential injustice, but they forget that society will not stop moving forward because of their dissatisfaction. Whether you are self-motivated or resentful, the reality will not change.
People with a negative and pessimistic mindset always carry negative energy. They often feel that they are unfairly excluded from others and that the world owes them more. They often think that they are the people who deserve the most attention.
They will gradually influence everyone around you, and you will also be immersed in negative, pessimistic emotions. As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black. So when we meet such negative, pessimistic people, it's best to keep our distance.
People who lack self-motivation and are lazy and hardworking. We humans are social creatures and are susceptible to the environment around us. If you have a positive, optimistic person next to you, you will also gradually be infected and feel that life is full of hope.
If you live with such a person and make progress together, you will become better with it. But if there is a person around you who is not motivated, who likes to work hard, they will affect you and make you gradually become like them, and it will be difficult for you to improve yourself.
In the society we live in, as we get older, our understanding grows more and more sophisticated. We see more broadly and our insights are more precise. When facing certain people and things, if we see through some of them, we should keep our distance from them as early as possible.
Good people can progress and grow with us, and bad people will make our lives miserable. Human life is not that long, so avoid those who make you "toss" and make life smoother.