Everyone has great expectations for marriage, and always expects their marriage to go with the flow and get the happiness they want. Women, in particular, are more eager to marry a good husband who is gentle and considerate, and come to a kind and friendly in-law's house.
But in reality, women rarely get the ideal life after getting married, hoping to get the love of their in-laws, and hoping that husband and wife will get along with each other. But please note that after getting married, the relationship between husband and wife needs to be managed with more care, because it is not only the relationship of two people, but also the relationship of two families.
Chapter01
I have a colleague named Ms. Zhang, who has been working in the company for two years and has a good relationship with many of her colleagues and is very popular. But at the end of the year, she made an unexpected decision to leave the company. After inquiry, I learned that she was about to get married. After that, she wanted to devote herself to being a stay-at-home wife at home.
Hearing this, our colleagues are still very happy, after all, there is no need to be busy in the family, and enjoying life is a yearning for many women. However, not long after getting married, Ms. Zhang actually came to work in the company again. We asked her curiously why, and she replied vaguely, and we didn't ask any more.
Later, I learned that Ms. Zhang's marriage was not as happy as everyone imagined. Many times, she was always not respected in her in-laws' house, and the people in her in-laws' family did not treat her very well. So, she decided to come out to work to relieve her mood and not have to be depressed at home.
When it comes to Ms. Zhang's other half, Xiao Liu, he is also a successful person. Ms. Zhang and Xiao Liu were classmates in college, and the two had a very good relationship, and then they naturally got together. When in love, Xiao Liu's mother had all kinds of dissatisfaction and all kinds of pickiness about Ms. Zhang, but Ms. Zhang was obedient. When they got married, Xiao Liu's mother still didn't approve of their marriage, but in the midst of opposition, the two got married, and Xiao Liu's mother didn't say much.
Chapter02
It is precisely for this reason that after getting married, Ms. Zhang always consciously completed the tasks she should do and did her best to fulfill her duties as a good daughter-in-law. However, even so, her mother-in-law was still not very satisfied.
Ms. Zhang's health was not good during pregnancy, but her mother-in-law still asked her to do a lot of things. However, Ms. Zhang did not say anything to complain. When giving birth, no one in her in-laws showed up with her except her husband. It wasn't until after the child was born that the in-laws came to visit the child and didn't care about Ms. Zhang.
Chapter03
When Ms. Zhang was confined, her body was very weak, but her mother-in-law did not care about it and was indifferent to it. When Ms. Zhang's husband was present, her mother-in-law would do some superficial work to some extent, but when her husband was away, her mother-in-law completely ignored her.
In desperation, Ms. Zhang had no choice but to call her mother to provide her company. Ms. Zhang's mother sighed a few words as soon as she saw the situation, and was overheard by her mother-in-law. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law said, "She is not my daughter, why should I take care of her." So the two began to quarrel, but Ms. Zhang was in a dilemma.
Sentiment Analysis:
Many people want to get married when they are in love, and at this time, the two have to face more trials and need the support of the family behind them.
Even if you love each other again, the two families oppose it, the woman has no warmth in her mother-in-law's house, and the man has no respect in her mother's house, such a marriage will not last and will eventually end.
If the couple is already married, then both families should accept the reality, respect each other and the choice, and give enough understanding, so that the marriage has a reason to survive.
At this moment, if the two families are still finding fault with each other, what is the point? This will only make the two more miserable, make it difficult for the child to be proud, and will not benefit both families.