Goodbye, old times
When I was 31 years old, life hit me hard – I got divorced. The partners who once thought they could spend their lives together ended up being guests in each other's lives. What saddened me even more was that when I told my mom the news, she sighed and said, "You can't find it no matter how beautiful you are." ”
At that moment, my heart felt as if something was clutching me, and I couldn't breathe in pain. Am I pretty? Maybe in the eyes of others, I am the girl who always smiles brightly and is full of confidence. But in the face of this failed marriage, all my self-confidence was in vain.
My mother's words pierced my heart like a sharp knife. I began to doubt my own worth, to doubt my ability to love and be loved. I was in a state of deep self-doubt and pain, unable to extricate myself.
However, life is always full of surprises and twists. Just when I was in despair, I met him - a sunny, humorous, kind boy. His appearance, as if it was a ray of light, illuminated my dark world.
We met at a gathering of friends. He took the initiative to come up and greet me, and that smile seemed to melt away all the cold. We talked very speculatively, from hobbies to life ideals, as if there were endless topics. At that moment, I felt a sense of ease and joy that I hadn't felt in a long time.
Since then, we've been in frequent contact. He invited me to watch movies, go shopping, and eat with me. With him by my side, I gradually walked out of the shadow of divorce and regained my self-confidence and optimism.
However, when I told my mother about this relationship, she poured cold water on me again: "You are 31 years old and divorced, how can he really like you?" Don't be silly! ”
Mom's words plunged me into pain again. I began to hesitate and hesitate, wondering if I should continue the relationship. But every time I saw his warm smile and determined eyes, I regained my courage.
One night, we sat on a park bench by the river and watched the river flow slowly. He suddenly took my hand, looked at me affectionately and said, "I know your past, but I value your present and future more." I love you, not just because of your appearance, but also because of your kindness, strength, and bravery. I hope to be able to walk with you through every day in the future. ”
At that moment, tears welled up in my eyes. I knew I had found someone who could truly understand and accept me. I held his hand tightly as if I were holding the whole world.
Since then, we have cherished each other's feelings even more. Together, we plan for the future and face life's challenges together. With him, I became stronger and more confident. I knew that I was no longer the girl who had been crushed by the divorce, but a woman who had been rejuvenated.
Looking back now, I really appreciate my mother's words. While it used to make me miserable, it also made me more determined to follow my path. I learned what I was worth and how to love and be loved better.
I know that there are still many unknowns and challenges waiting for me in the future, but I am no longer afraid. Because I know that as long as there is love, there is hope, and as long as there is courage, there are infinite possibilities. I will cherish this relationship and will work harder to make myself better and happier.
Goodbye to the old times, those past pain and confusion have become precious treasures in my life. And now, I want to bravely welcome my new life and embrace the happiness and beauty that belong to me.