With the first "mom" after the child's vacation, it ushered in a 60-day summer vacation.
The sky is not afraid of the earth, and the gods are afraid of the summer vacation.
Now the 40 degrees are still dangling under the sun, not the delivery man, nor the driving brother, but the old mother who sends the child to the training class.
Back then, it seems that our parents didn't care, and after finishing our homework during the summer vacation, watching TV, catching and knowing, the summer will pass.
But now the child's summer vacation is completely different.
It's not this cram school, it's that activity class, the children are happy, and the parents' pockets are empty.
This year, a post on Xiao's book titled "Beijing Haidian Primary School Students' Summer Vacation Starts at 8w" caused the whole network to complain.
The post said:
The two Haidian mothers revealed in the chat that this summer, they reported a lot of activities to their babies, including Singapore mathematics, overseas research activities, Beitu summer camp, etc. Each one is staggeringly pricey.
Like the Beitu summer camp, it costs 6,000 yuan in 10 days.
These activities and cram schools add up to 80,000 or 90,000 yuan for parents in a summer vacation.
I gasped: eighty or ninety thousand, many people can't earn a year, right?
This figure is an incredible "sky-high price" for us ordinary people, but in the eyes of many Haidian mothers, it is normal to spend less than 100,000 yuan in a summer vacation.
Yes...... The world has become something I couldn't have imagined.
The child, a gold-swallowing beast, will officially awaken every year during the summer vacation.
When it comes to the summer vacation, calls from various cram schools come one after another:
"XX mother, the child has just tried the class, I like it very much, just report one to the child, don't leave regrets for the child's dream."
So you thought: Anyway, the child stays at home, the whole house is demolished, the refrigerator has to be opened 800 times a day, and the divine beast is sent to the training institution, isn't it a beautiful thing?
However, as soon as you hear the price, a mouthful of old blood spurts out:
The child is gone, and the shadow is all given to the parents!
The children are honest, the training institutions are happy, and only the parents eat the soil.
Sure enough, the summer vacation is very simple, and the complicated thing is people.
A few years ago, an article on the Internet titled "A monthly salary of 30,000 yuan can't support a child for a summer vacation" blew up the circle of friends.
The article mentions an executive mother with a monthly salary of more than 30,000 yuan, but it is not enough for her children's summer vacation expenses.
The mother made a bill for her child's summer expenses:
In the summer vacation, my daughter went on a study tour to the United States, 20,000 yuan for 10 days;
The daughter usually needs to be taken care of by an aunt at home, 5,000 yuan;
Two piano lessons per week, 200 yuan each, a total of 2,000 yuan;
2,000 yuan for swimming class;
English, Olympiad mathematics, composition 3 subjects training class 6,000 yuan.
After a rough calculation, sure enough, 35,000 yuan a month was gone.
One stone stirred up a thousand waves, and these real experiences have aroused the resonance of countless parents.
July and August, for children, is just an ordinary summer vacation, but for many old mothers, it is a practice that costs money and mothers.
The first is extracurricular training.
The most basic swimming, painting, and piano have no combat effectiveness.
Open the circle of friends, and I feel that there are now small painters per capita.
As soon as the video opens, they are all seeded swimmers, as if they are about to win the Olympic championship.
But these regular extracurricular classes, for today's children, are just pre-dinner desserts for the summer vacation, and the main meal of the summer vacation is a variety of cram schools to improve their grades.
Some time ago, a Didi master in Shanghai complained:
Don't mention any kid to me, it's a money shredder!
The child's make-up fee for a class is 1,000 yuan, and after a summer vacation, the make-up fee of 30,000 yuan is estimated to be unbearable!
There was no way, so he had to go to work during the day and drive an online car-hailing service at night to subsidize his family.
Below this video, many people also told their real experiences:
sold the house to make up for the children's lessons, and spent 470,000 yuan in three years.
Only...... The baby graduated from the third year of high school, and the parents' third high school is almost at the top.
In the comment area, the tuition fee is higher than the other.
30,000, 60,000, 100,000......
This generation of children simply grew up stepping on the RMB.
Parents earn money in the first half of the year to spend in the summer vacation, and earn money in the second half of the year to spend in the winter vacation.
Many parents have wailed:
Summer vacation is coming, and so is my retribution.
Let's just say, there is such a reluctant request: can this summer vacation be shortened to one month?
However, the most bloody thing is that you gritted your teeth and saved money to enroll your child in class, thinking that you have worked so hard during the summer vacation, you have to give me a corner to overtake, right?
But as soon as school starts, your child will be able to prove to you with his grades what it means to stand still.
You hollowed out your family, thinking that you would harvest a cow baby with excellent grades, but you didn't expect that after the experience of the summer vacation class, you will still be the same Tie Hanhan when you return.
The old mother spent money and effort, and still did it for nothing.
Some people say that when the children's college entrance examination is over, this grand involution activity should end, right?
The person who said this is still too tender after all.
The college entrance examination is over, and it is not the end.
Some parents said in the comment area:
The child finished the college entrance examination, and the make-up fee was not spent, but this summer, I bought 14,000 computers and 5,000 driver's licenses...... All of them add up, and it's even more than the make-up fee!
There are also contributions from readers:
After the college entrance examination, the child buys electronic products, learns to drive, does medical beauty, and travels add up to tens of thousands!
Flowers, one flower and one without squeaking.
It's good to have a child, and I won't dare to give birth again in the next life.
Many parents say, what are you doing with such a roll? Children, they come to this world just to experience, so let them see the world.
The problem is, it's not cheap to see the world now.
One summer vacation, the baby happily went on a trip, and the old mother looked in her pocket, clean and had no money.
Then you may have said again, then I don't go to the training class and don't go to the head office of tourism, right?
You are still too tender after all when you say this.
Every summer vacation, it is also the time for all kinds of gold-swallowing beasts to "return to the factory for maintenance".
If you don't go to cram school or training classes, you may not save enough money to go to the hospital once.
Myopia, rhinitis, orthodontics, the price of each item is enough to kill the old mother.
9500 for teeth and 7600 for glasses, my mother, if this money is spent on myself, I can't imagine how happy I am!
"More than 4,000 glasses, 58,000 Invisalign!"
"Orthodontics 40,000!"
Sure enough, there is a kind of "local tyrant" called "spending money on the baby".
Someone summed up the cost of their children's summer vacation last year:
Sprinkle water when flowers, add up to dizziness.
I see money like dung, but my children are septic tanks.
Migrant workers usually pick and choose, eat a pancake and consider whether to add eggs, but as long as the child likes it, we can wave it with a big hand: report!
In front of the merit box of the Gold Devouring Beast, the last vestige of our remaining sanity was struggling, so you weakly asked the front desk of the training institution:
Is there a discount for bringing another person in?
Once, in the "Xinhua Dictionary", it was written that Zhang Hua was admitted to Peking University, Li Ping entered the technical secondary school, and I worked as a salesperson in a department store, and we all have a bright future.
We all believed this sentence before, and then we had an epiphany: Li Ping is very good, but I still want my child to be Zhang Hua.
Therefore, no matter how hard it is, let the child go to a make-up class.
But then you had an epiphany, children can't change their fate, it's us who can change their fate.
I have a friend who is a problem solver in a small town from the mountains.
Later, he settled in Beijing and had a stable job with an enviable salary.
thought that he could live a glamorous life, but since he had a child, he saved all the money to register for his child, and he couldn't hold hundreds of thousands of dollars a year.
And I am reluctant to eat, I am not willing to wear, and I usually hesitate to add fat cow to eat a rice bowl;
Seeing 39.9 T-shirts in the mall is like a treasure;
In the early hours of the morning, he was still squatting in the live broadcast room, just to kill the 9.9 bag of tissues.
Tighten your belts to raise children, this day is bitter and astringent.
Slash-and-burn chicken baby, with vegetables on the face.
The husband and wife were afraid that the other party would run away, so they tempered a pure revolutionary friendship in the battle and locked it completely.
I found that my generation has caught up with everything.
When I was a child, I was told to study hard, and if I can't get into college in the future, it will be over!
So, we studied hard and finally took root in the city;
When I grew up and gave birth to a baby, I was told by the market and the environment:
You have to work hard to earn money, otherwise the baby can't afford to apply for the training class, and the class will be over!
Okay, well, if you can't read a book, if you can't teach a baby, you'll be finished, and if you dare to love us, we're all doomed.
But what's the solution?
Even if he is angry to death 10,000 times a day, he can't quit the job of bringing a baby.
This is the "never give up" of modern people.
A summer vacation, spending money and effort and paying mom, no matter what the effect is, in a word:
With a baby, you have to be deaf and blind, but also have a big heart.
Share.