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Text: Zhou Mingxuan
Edited by Zhou Mingxuan
Preface
In traditional Chinese culture, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often described as one full of contradictions and conflicts.
But is this really the case with all mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships?
Is there a possibility that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can not only live in harmony, but even become each other's strongest backing?
A turning point in fate
At 3 a.m. on June 22, 2008, in the corridor outside the delivery room of a hospital in Beijing, Wang Ke suddenly fell to the ground.
This once dominated the business world, one of the "Four Youths of Beijing";
When his wife Liu Tao had just given birth to their first child, he fainted due to great pressure and his heart stopped beating for a while.
The medical staff rushed to the rescue, and the ward was filled with tension and anxiety.
This scene became an important turning point in Liu Tao and Wang Ke's married life;
It also marks that they are about to face the most difficult challenge of their lives.
Acquaintance and flash marriage
Back in the autumn of 2007, Liu Tao and Wang Ke met by chance at a charity dinner at The Peninsula Hotel in Beijing.
At that time, Liu Tao was famous for his role as A Zhu in "Dragon Babu", while Wang Ke was an upstart in the business world worth more than 20 billion.
The two looked at each other in the elevator, as if they were favored by the god of fate, and instantly had an indescribable attraction.
In the following 20 days, Wang Ke launched a dazzling pursuit.
He not only sent rare flowers and expensive gifts, but also appeared on the set of Liu Tao many times, expressing his sincerity with actions.
Liu Tao was moved by Wang Ke's enthusiasm and sincerity, and soon fell in love.
The rapid development of the relationship between the two surprised the friends around them.
Weddings & Commitments
On January 6, 2008, Liu Tao and Wang Ke held a luxurious wedding in Beijing.
The scene is decorated like a fairy tale, with white lilies and pink roses decorating every corner;
Precious antique furniture and precious works of art show the groom's extraordinary status.
Liu Tao was dressed in a custom wedding dress worth millions, as beautiful as a princess.
At the wedding, Liu Tao not only announced that he was pregnant, but also said that he would quit the entertainment industry and concentrate on his husband and children.
This decision moved the guests present, especially Wang Ke's mother, Li Yourong, with tears of relief in her eyes.
She saw that her daughter-in-law was so sensible, and her heart was full of expectations for this marriage.
Crisis strikes
However, happy days were short-lived.
Less than a month after the marriage, the global financial crisis erupted in 2008, and Wang Ke's business empire was devastated.
His main investment areas – real estate and the stock market – have suffered an unprecedented blow.
The capital chain was broken, creditors came one after another, and the former "sky-high rich" became "sky-high losers" overnight;
Saddled with a huge debt of 400 million.
The blow was devastating for Wang Ke.
He went from being a confident and successful businessman to a debtor who was terrified all day long.
Deep remorse and depression engulfed him, and he began to be depressed all day long;
Unable to communicate with the outside world, he also suffered from severe insomnia and migraines.
Wang Ke, who was once high-spirited, is now just a walking corpse.
Liu Tao's determination
In the face of this sudden change, Liu Tao showed extraordinary courage and responsibility.
Instead of running away or complaining, she stood firmly by her husband's side and was determined to get through it with him.
Liu Tao understands that Wang Ke at this time needs support and understanding more than ever.
After the child was full moon, Liu Tao made a difficult but necessary decision: to return to the entertainment industry.
She knew that with her fame and strength in the entertainment industry, she had the opportunity to earn enough to help her family tide over the difficult times.
This decision means that she will have to give up the promise she has made before, and it also means that she will face a lot of pressure and challenges.
But for the sake of his family and husband, Liu Tao resolutely embarked on this difficult road.
Grandma Mi Hands
Liu Tao's decision was fully supported by his mother-in-law, Li Yourong.
Li Yourong knew that his daughter-in-law was not easy, and took the initiative to take care of his grandson and family.
Not only does she have to take care of her newborn grandson, but she also has to take care of her son, who is falling into depression, while also taking care of the housework.
Despite the daunting task, Lee never complained.
Li Yourong said to Liu Tao: "You can rest assured to go to filming, there is me at home."
I will take care of the children and this family, and I am your strongest backing. "
This sentence gave Liu Tao great courage and strength.
Two women, one daughter-in-law and one mother-in-law, face the challenges of life together in this most difficult time for the family.
work arduously
The road back to entertainment has not been smooth.
Liu Tao, who has been out of the shadows for a long time, has difficulty finding a good role for a while, but she is not discouraged.
She decided to win by volume and took on various roles, even inconspicuous supporting roles.
She has a full schedule for the whole year and lives a life all year round.
Liu Tao's schedule is airtight.
She often has to get up before dawn to put on makeup, and she can't get home until late at night when she finishes shooting.
Sometimes, she even has to travel back and forth between different cities, just to get one more ad or one more scene.
Even if it was so hard, Liu Tao never complained.
She knows that every income is to ease the burden on her family and to be able to pay off her debts as soon as possible.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are deeply affectionate
In these difficult five years, the relationship between Liu Tao and Li Yourong has become deeper and deeper.
Every time filming ends, no matter how late it is, Liu Tao will make a video call to his mother-in-law as soon as possible to ask about the situation at home, especially the situation of Wang Ke and the child.
After Wang Ke and the child fell asleep, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often chatted about the future like best friends and encouraged each other.
Li Yourong was deeply moved by Liu Tao's strength and perseverance.
She saw her daughter-in-law working day and night regardless of her image, and she was distressed and more admired.
She often said to the people around her: "Liu Tao is not my daughter-in-law, she is my baby daughter, and she is my heart." "
This deep affection has transcended the traditional relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and has become the warmest force in this family.
See light at the end of the tunnel
After five years of unremitting efforts, Liu Tao finally paid off all his debts.
During this period, she took on 25 TV series, countless commercials and variety shows.
Her efforts have not only brought financial rewards, but also made a major breakthrough in her acting career.
She has created many outstanding roles, such as the Nihuang County Lord in "Langya Bang";
Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy", etc., these characters not only won the love of the audience;
also won Liu Tao many film and television awards.
At the same time, Wang Ke, with the support of his wife and mother, gradually came out of the haze.
He regained his strength and began to try new business projects.
Although the scale is not as strong as before, he has become more stable and mature.
He was deeply grateful to Liu Tao for his dedication, and the relationship between the two was deeper than before.
Wang Ke often said: "If it weren't for Liu Tao, I might have given up a long time ago."
It was her persistence and dedication that made me rediscover the courage to live. "
Balance between career and family
With the development of their careers, how to balance work and family has become a new challenge for Liu Tao and Wang Ke.
They know that only when their families are happy can their careers reach a higher level.
In his spare time, Liu Tao always finds time to spend with his family as much as possible.
She will attend the children's parent-teacher meetings, accompany the children to do homework, and even find time to do handicrafts with her mother-in-law and chat about family life.
She often said: "No matter how busy you are, you can't forget that you are a wife, a mother, and a daughter-in-law." "
Wang Ke also tries to adjust his work rhythm and try to be with his family on important days.
Not only does he accompany his children as they grow up, but he also often prepares surprises for Liu Tao, such as arranging family trips for her birthday or cooking for her wedding anniversary.
Wang Ke said: "I want to tell Liu Tao with my actions, I see her efforts in my eyes and remember them in my heart." "
Give back to the community
After a successful career, Liu Tao and Wang Ke did not forget to give back to the society.
They actively participate in various public welfare activities to lend a helping hand to those in need.
Liu Tao has traveled to poverty-stricken mountainous areas many times to donate to build libraries and schools for local children.
She has also set up her own public welfare fund, which specializes in helping women in poor areas to receive education and employment training.
Liu Tao said: "I have experienced difficulties, so I can better understand the difficulties of others.
I hope to use my strength to let more people see hope. "
Wang Ke used his connections in the business world to organize a number of entrepreneurs' public welfare actions.
He led a group of entrepreneurs to visit remote areas and provide advice for local economic development.
He also set up a start-up fund to help young people with ideas realize their dreams.
Wang Ke said: "I have fallen, but some people have pulled me.
Now, I want to be the one to lend a hand. "
Family
As parents, Liu Tao and Wang Ke are well aware of the importance of family education.
They not only pay attention to children's academic performance, but also pay more attention to the cultivation of children's moral character.
Liu Tao often takes her children to participate in her public welfare activities, so that children know how to be grateful and repay from an early age.
She will discuss various issues in life with the child and guide the child to form correct values.
Liu Tao said: "I hope that my children will not only study well, but also have a kind heart. "
Wang Ke often shares his entrepreneurial experience with his children, including the joy of success and the lessons of failure.
He taught his children to face setbacks and never give up.
Wang Ke emphasized: "Life will not be smooth sailing, the key is to have the courage and wisdom to face difficulties. "
Lee also plays an important role in the education of his children.
She uses her life experience to teach children to respect the elderly, love the young, and be filial to their parents.
She often said: "To be a man, you must know how to be grateful, and remember the efforts of your parents and the people around you." "
epilogue
After more than ten years of married life, Liu Tao and Wang Ke have found their own way of getting along.
They know how to be considerate of each other in life and support each other in their work.
Liu Tao often said: "Marriage is the joint creation of two people.
We must learn to cherish and support each other in the bits and pieces of life.
Even if it is an ordinary day, it is necessary to manage it with heart and make every day full of love. "
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