Go both ways! The farmer couple raised their foster children to become university students
Beijing Daily client
2024-07-12 10:59Published on the official account of Beijing Daily client in Beijing
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01 Farmer couple Ji Wanfa and Hao Fengqin have trained their foster children to become college students, among which Zhao Gui has been successfully admitted to university.
02 The couple took good care of Zhao Geng, who suffered from cerebral palsy, and Zhao Gui, who suffered from severe cleft lip and palate, so that they could grow up healthily.
03In order to take care of the foster children, Hao Fengqin and his wife did not hesitate to renovate the old house and improve the family environment.
04 Praised by the school teachers and neighbors, the kindness of Hao Fengqin and his wife touched everyone.
05 Zhao Gui is about to graduate from university, and Hao Fengqin and his wife fully support his decision to go to graduate school, hoping that he will always be a member of this family.
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When they came to Ji Wanfa, Hao Fengqin's and his wife's house, the old couple was in the room of their youngest son Zhao Gui, tidying up the room for him. The bed was replaced with a scrubbed mat early, and the study computer on the table was spotless. Pulling open the wardrobe, Hao Fengqin began to sort out the change of clothes for the child. And her husband Ji Wanfa sat aside and said with a smile: "I have all gone to college, and I still go home the same as when I was a child." When I took off my dirty clothes, my mother washed them, and if I wanted to eat something, my mother made it, and my hair was long, so I took him out for a haircut. ”
The son of the old couple was fostered by the two from the welfare home when he was a child. Although there is no blood relationship, it has not been related to each other for 20 years.
Hao Fengqin, who has a round face and a smiling appearance, is an ordinary villager in Lixian No. 2 Village, Lixian Town, Daxing District, and has a son and a daughter after marrying her husband, and the family of four lives a peaceful and happy life. She never imagined that an unexpected event would lead her life in a different direction.
After failing the college entrance examination, the eldest son plans to repeat his studies and fight again. Unexpectedly, the house leak happened to rain overnight, and her husband Ji Wanfa suddenly fell ill at this time, and the overstretched family could no longer support his son's education. Just when Hao Fengqin was at a loss, a neighbor took the initiative to provide the child with the cost of repeating school, and the school reduced part of the child's tuition fee. After overcoming the difficulties, Hao Fengqin and his wife are determined to contribute their modest efforts to the society.
In 2003, Hao Fengqin and his wife submitted an application to the Foster Care Guidance Center of the Lixian Town Children's Welfare Institute to foster care for orphaned and disabled children.
Foster care for orphans and disabled children is not an easy task and requires strict review criteria: family members must be caring and supportive of activities that care for orphans and disabled children; Families should have a stable income and spacious housing; The home environment and indoor and outdoor hygiene must meet the requirements.
In order to achieve this good deed, Hao Fengqin and his wife did not hesitate to renovate the old house and strive to improve the family environment. The gray floor was tiled, the old wooden windows were replaced with plastic steel windows with better lighting and warmth, and the ceilings were re-suspended...... Under the renovation, the originally gray bungalow suddenly became spacious and bright.
At the beginning of 2004, the first foster child, Zhao Geng, a 3-year-old child with cerebral palsy, was brought home by Hao Fengqin and his wife. Zhao can't speak, can't walk, suffers from phenylketonuria, and his urine is pungent and smelly. Hao Fengqin and his wife never disliked, they ate in the same pot with their children, slept on the same kang, and accompanied them during the day. When the child was convulsed and sick, the two stayed by their side all night and rubbed the child's body. "I take a shower twice a day, and there is no smell in the house. Thin and dry, pick smooth, and feed the child three times a day. The child is raised in our place for nothing, and everyone who comes will treat this child. Under the careful care of Hao Fengqin and his wife, Zhao Geng's condition gradually stabilized.
Zhao Geng came to this small home with Zhao Geng, as well as Zhao Gui, a disabled child with severe cleft lip and palate.
Picking up a thin baby who was only more than 4 pounds from the welfare home, Hao Fengqin, who had raised many children one after another, was worried. Because of the cleft lip and palate, the child is unable to suck normally. Hao Fengqin had to hold the bottle and squeeze the milk into the baby's mouth drop by drop. "How many times a day? Not counted! As long as the child hums, he has to be quickly hugged and fed, and it will take half a day to feed, not to mention how hard it is. ”
In July 2004 and May 2005, the welfare institute raised funds for Zhao Gui's surgery, and Hao Fengqin accompanied the child for plastic suturing surgery for 20 consecutive days, despite her herniated lumbar disc and her inability to stand for a long time. After the successful operation, when Zhao Gui, who learned to speak, called Hao Fengqin and his wife "Mom and Dad" in a childish childish voice, the couple's eyes were hot.
When Zhao Gui reached school age, the couple was even more busy. "I treat them as if they were my own children, and I care more about them than my own children." Every day, Hao Fengqin takes care of Zhao Geng, who is bedridden and unable to take care of himself, at home, and Ji Wanfa rushes to school to pick up Zhao Gui three times in the morning, noon and evening. Every time he picks up and drops off at school, Ji Wanfa always can't let go, he holds the child in one hand, and repeatedly tells the teacher: "Please help take care of it, don't let the child be wronged." ”
Hao Fengqin's kindness not only won the praise of the neighbors, but also touched the teachers of the school. Once, after the school's parent-teacher meeting, the teacher bowed deeply to Hao Fengqin and his wife: "Parents, I'll bow to you first." Thank you for the care you have given to your children over the years. ”
The sensible Zhao Gui is diligent and motivated, not only won the honor of the municipal three good students, but also won a scholarship in high school for three consecutive years. The moment they handed over the municipal certificate of three good students to Hao Fengqin and his wife, the couple couldn't believe their eyes. Ji Wanfa asked repeatedly in disbelief: "Is this true or false?" Really? Hao Fengqin looked at her wife, couldn't help laughing, smiled and smiled, raised her hand to wipe away the excited tears from the corners of her eyes.
On the day of the college entrance examination, Ji Wanfa's mobile phone, who was waiting anxiously at home, rang, and a photo in WeChat surprised him. The photo was sent by a teacher waiting at the school gate. In the empty campus, Zhao Gui walked slowly to the school gate alone.
What's going on? Why did the child come out alone? Ji Wanfa hurriedly asked the teacher.
"The child finished answering the paper early, and the first one came out of the examination room!" The teacher was full of emotion.
Now, Zhao Gui, who has been successfully admitted to university, has grown into a young man of 1.8 meters. Hao Fengqin and his wife, who always talk about "can't wronged their children", bought laptops for their children as soon as possible.
Children in foster care are dissolved from foster care when they reach the age of 18. Zhao returned to live in the welfare home, and Zhao Gui chose to stay in this small family that raised him for 18 years.
Although he is still a student, at the end of 2022, Zhao Gui used the 2,000 yuan he secretly saved to buy a mobile phone for Hao Fengqin and his wife, which surprised the couple and the couple.
Zhao Gui, who is about to graduate from university, wants to continue his studies and graduate school, and Hao Fengqin and his wife fully support his decision: "In the future, we will work, marry a wife, and have children, and we will help wherever we can, so that he will always be a member of this family." ”
Before leaving, the reporter found in Hao Fengqin's house that among the family photos placed in the living room, the boy who grew taller and taller always stood in the middle behind Hao Fengqin and his wife.
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Go both ways! The farmer couple raised their foster children to become university students