Today I want to talk to you about some clothes at home, sometimes the clothes are decent, and some can only be worn at home and cannot be put on the table.
Let's start with this overly revealing outfit. In summer, we all want to cool off and show off our good figure. But sometimes those clothes that are too revealing can be a bit of a headache. Once I went out wearing a crop top and a miniskirt, and my head turned around on the road, but at the same time, I also felt a lot of strange eyes, which made me feel uncomfortable. And when it comes to some formal occasions, such as work meetings or something, it looks too unprofessional to dress like this, and the leader looks at me strangely, and I know that this is a bad thing. Later, I thought that it was not unreasonable to say in Feng Shui that excessively revealing clothing symbolizes a lack of privacy and protection. No, just because of this dress, it has caused a lot of trouble to myself, and it has also affected the image of the work, which can really be described as "disaster dependence"!
And then there's the one with the ominous pattern or text on the garment, which is also a big problem. I remember once shopping and I saw a very nice t-shirt with a big skull printed on it, and I thought it was so cool that I bought it. As a result, when I wore it home, my mother frowned when she saw it, saying that this pattern was unlucky and told me to throw it away. I don't think so, I think she's too superstitious. But then something unfortunate happened, although it wasn't necessarily because of the clothes, but I always muttered a little in my heart. Now that I think about it, we still have to respect these sayings in traditional culture, and there are some patterns and words with bad meanings, so let's not wear them on our bodies.
When it comes to second-hand clothes, it's also a tangled matter. For a while, I really liked to visit second-hand stores, and I thought I could find a lot of treasures. Once I bought a second-hand coat that looked new and cheap. But after wearing it a few times, I always felt itchy on my body, and when I went to the hospital for a checkup, I was actually allergic. The doctor said it could be caused by bacteria or allergens left on the clothes. Oops, I've been a little scared of second-hand clothes ever since. And I've heard that in some cultures, it's a bad omen to wear clothes that other people are wearing. Just like our ancestors said, wearing old clothes that others have worn will take away the breath and fortune of the old owner, how scary it is! So, although second-hand clothes are good, we have to choose carefully, don't cause unnecessary trouble to ourselves in order to save that little money.
Let's talk about the clothes left behind by the deceased. For many people, this is a topic full of taboos and mysteries. Traditionally, clothing left behind by the deceased is often thought to have a special energy or symbolic meaning.
Some people believe that wearing the clothes of the deceased may bring bad luck or misfortune. They believe that these garments carry the memories and emotions of the deceased during their lifetime and may have a negative impact on the lives of the living. However, from a scientific point of view, there is no conclusive basis for this claim.
But it is undeniable that when we are confronted with the clothes left behind by the deceased, there is often an indescribable emotion and awe in our hearts. Even if we don't believe in the supernatural, we will be cautious about these garments out of respect for the deceased.
In some families, the deceased's clothing will be kept properly as a remembrance and memorial to the deceased. Others choose to dispose of it to avoid the psychological burden on the living.
Whether it is retained or disposed of, it depends on the perceptions and emotions of the individual and the family. But in any case, we should approach this issue with respect and understanding, after all, everyone has different ways of expressing life, death and emotions.
In short, some of the sayings and exquisiteness about the clothes at home may be based on traditional culture and superstition, while others are based on people's expectations for a better life and the psychology of self-protection. In this era of pluralism, we can keep an open mind to look at it, but we must also rely on science and reason to make choices that suit us while respecting tradition.