A high-profile new couple was born in the entertainment industry, and the relationship between Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen was exposed in front of everyone. The way they announced their relationship was very romantic, Kan Qingzi was on the stone pier by the river, gently holding Ji Lingchen's face, and his eyes showed deep tenderness.
Behind them at this moment are flickering lights, and the whole world rejoices for their love, and this moment becomes the sweetest testimony of their relationship.
The young actor quickly became the focus of public attention because of their relationship, which not only attracted the attention of fans, but also received the blessings of insiders. At a grand awards ceremony, Ji Lingchen interpreted romance to the extreme with the words "I am Ji Lingchen of Kan Qingzi", and the affectionate and simple self-introduction instantly ignited the atmosphere of the scene and made the audience fall for it.
Since that moment, Ji Lingchen has established the image of a "good man" in the hearts of the public.
This sentence spread quickly in the entertainment industry and became a hot topic of discussion. The phrase "There is a relationship called Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi" has been widely spread inside and outside the circle, which shows the high degree of attention to this relationship.
People envy their sweetness and at the same time look forward to their future.
Ji Lingchen was intoxicated by the happiness surrounded by love and praise, and his career was also booming. A large number of invitations to variety shows and film and television dramas have come one after another, and he has become a popular idol of a new generation that has attracted much attention.
However, he didn't realize that this hard-won beauty needed to be maintained and managed with care.
During the honeymoon period of their relationship, Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi's every public appearance would attract media attention. Their interaction has been described as "sweet", and the tacit understanding and affection between the two is enviable.
However, just when everyone thought that the relationship would blossom, an unexpected turn is quietly coming.
In 2017, Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi participated in a variety show that attracted much attention. thought that this was a great opportunity to show their sweet relationship, but the real relationship under the camera gradually broke the audience's beautiful illusions about their golden boy and girl.
During the recording of the show, Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen quarreled frequently, and every quarrel caught people off guard. These quarrels can be caused by a trivial matter of attitude, or a phrase that is poorly worded, but can lead to a heated argument.
Every scene of quarrel is heart-wrenching, especially Kan Qingzi will shed tears, while Ji Lingchen seems indifferent and even a little impatient.
Other guests, such as Wang Ke and Liu Tao, also served as peacemakers, trying their best to mediate the conflict between the two. When the audience saw this scene, they sincerely felt sorry for Kan Qingzi, and began to question the health of this relationship.
The two who were praised as "fairy couples" in the past now present a depressing and discordant atmosphere.
As the show progressed, the source of the conflict between the two was gradually excavated. Kan Qingzi, who is already 29 years old, longs to enter into marriage before the age of 30, with a family and a stable sense of belonging.
Although Ji Lingchen is five years younger than her, he has a hesitant attitude towards marriage, and he is unwilling to be "bound" by marriage so early, and this huge difference in values between the two parties has become the biggest obstacle in the relationship between the two of them.
When Wang Ke kindly reminded Ji Lingchen that he should consider proposing, Ji Lingchen vaguely said that he knew what he knew, which embarrassed everyone at the scene. Liu Tao couldn't help but say to Ji Lingchen: "You must know that if you don't propose marriage before the age of thirty, then she may not want to marry after the age of thirty."
Kan Qingzi's eyes were slightly red, but she held back her tears, as if she was waiting for Ji Lingchen's response.
However, in the face of Kan Qingzi's expectations and other people's suggestions, Ji Lingchen has remained silent. His attitude made it clear to everyone that the relationship was coming to an end.
What Kan Qingzi hopes for is to have a home, a safe haven that she can rely on; But Ji Lingchen only took care of his own feelings, did not take the responsibility of marriage, and was unwilling to give a clear promise.
was originally a stage for their love show, but this variety show unexpectedly turned into a turning point that revealed contradictions. Ji Lingchen may not have noticed that his hesitation and indifference were pushing away the person who loved him deeply step by step.
On Kan Qingzi's 30th birthday, although the long-awaited marriage proposal did not come as scheduled, she was still disappointed and made a difficult decision: to end the relationship and start a new life journey.
She cut her long hair short, as if to cut the memories of the past, a gesture that symbolizes her farewell to the past and her determination to start over.
The news of the breakup spread all over the entertainment industry and the Internet, causing an uproar. As for the reason for the breakup, there is speculation, some people think it is because of the age gap, and some people doubt whether a third party is involved.
Faced with the doubts and speculations circulating everywhere, Ji Lingchen chose to publicly clarify the rumors.
Ji Lingchen published a seemingly poetic statement on the dynamic, "You have loved the sea, I have loved you". He thought this was a romantic way to say goodbye, but he didn't know that this sentence not only did not calm public opinion, but caused greater controversy.
Ji Lingchen was criticized by netizens because of his lack of responsibility and responsibility. "Without Kan Qingzi, who knows you Ji Lingchen", "Scumbag", "Do you think you are romantic" and other comments are flying all over the sky, people accuse him of only enjoying sweetness in his relationship, but he is unwilling to take responsibility, and finally he has to use "poetic" words to beautify his behavior.
Since then, Ji Lingchen has had a new online title - "Brother Dahai", a nickname with obvious irony, because his untimely "confession" in variety shows made him the focus of public criticism.
In the face of these criticisms, Ji Lingchen did not take them to heart at first. He thinks it's just an ordinary breakup and doesn't understand why it has attracted so much attention. In his opinion, love and breakups are all common things, and the public seems to be a little too strict with him.
However, he soon discovers that the impact of this breakup is far greater than he could have imagined. With the passage of time, Ji Lingchen's career fell into a trough. He was once hot, but gradually faded out of the public's sight.
There are fewer and fewer invitations to various variety shows and film and television dramas, and even low-cost online short dramas, few people invite him to participate.
This situation has lasted for six years, making Ji Lingchen feel confused and unwilling. He didn't understand why "just breaking up" could lead to such serious consequences, and why the public would be so him.
He originally thought that ending a relationship would only have to pay such a heavy price.
Ji Lingchen's experience shows us that in this era of highly transparent information, every word and deed of a public figure can have an unexpected impact. An inadvertent remark may cause a storm of public opinion and even affect a person's career and life.
While Ji Lingchen's career fell into a trough, Kan Qingzi walked out of his own life path. In the early days of the breakup, she also experienced a low ebb and lost faith in love and marriage.
However, she quickly adjusted her condition and pulled herself together.
Kan Qingzi chose to focus on career development and actively explore new areas. She participated in various variety shows and showed a lively and cheerful personality; challenge yourself to act in dramas and hone your acting skills; created characters in the TV series that will make the audience unforgettable.
Her tireless efforts paid off, and her career flourished and her popularity continued to rise.
What's even more gratifying is that Kan Qingzi finally found his true love. Her new boyfriend not only has outstanding looks and financial resources, but also knows how to manage relationships with his heart. Kan Qingzi loves the sea, so he carefully plans a lavish and romantic marriage proposal and charters a small island.
With a diamond ring the size of a pigeon's egg, he brought her the happiness she had been craving.
This romantic marriage proposal sparked a hot topic for a while, and the story of "You like the sea, I contract the island" quickly appeared on the hot search, Kan Qingzi attracted much attention, and netizens expressed their happiness for her.
She finally got the happiness she deserved, much to the relief of many who cared about her.
However, fate seems to have deliberately played a joke on Kan Qingzi. When Kan Qingzi was happy, Ji Lingchen's name once again appeared on the hot search list, but people's comments seemed quite ironic.
They sighed: "Even the ring the size of a pigeon's egg is bigger than Ji Lingchen's heart", this comparison makes people feel Ji Lingchen's carelessness and lack of responsibility.
This abrupt contrast made Ji Lingchen's situation even more difficult. Seeing his former lover Kan Qingzi live happily and achieve career success, while he is still at a low point in his career, this gap makes him feel depressed and puzzled: why can Kan Qingzi regain his life after the breakup, but he can't get rid of the haze? .
Kan Qingzi's story is completely different from Ji Lingchen's, which reflects the impact of a fork in fate. Kan Qingzi's story has become an inspirational example in the eyes of the public, and Ji Lingchen has become a sobering example.
This stark contrast has not only affected their current situation, but also profoundly changed the public's perception of them.
The public's reaction to the story of Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen is very strong, forming a stark contrast, and this reaction has had a certain impact on the current situation of the two and the general perception of the public's attitude towards relationships.
For Kan Qingzi, many people expressed sympathy and support for her. In the variety show "Dear Inn", her tears moved many viewers. The sincerity she gives in her relationship, as well as her vulnerability in dealing with emotional problems, make the audience deeply sympathetic.
After the breakup, Kan Qingzi's state of losing confidence in marriage for a while caused widespread resonance, and many people saw their own shadow in her experience, so they reciprocated with deep sympathy for her.
In contrast, Ji Lingchen has never escaped public criticism and ridicule. It is believed that he lacks a sense of responsibility in his relationship and only enjoys the sweetness of love and is unwilling to take the corresponding responsibility.
His classic line: "You have loved the sea, I have loved you", is regarded as a representative of the "scumbag" behavior, and this sentence has become the evidence of people's accusations against him, and many people insist that it was Ji Lingchen's indecision and evasion of promises that hurt Kan Qingzi, and also pushed this relationship to the abyss of destruction with his own hands.
This polarized public opinion environment has undoubtedly increased Ji Lingchen's predicament, and to a large extent, the downturn in his career is also related to this negative image. However, Ji Lingchen never seemed to be able to understand why "just breaking up" would lead to such serious consequences.
His confusion and reluctance are now particularly prominent in this public opinion environment.
Ji Lingchen's experience is a profound lesson. In relationships, inconsistencies in words and deeds and a lack of responsibility can have unintended and serious consequences. This story serves as a warning to the person concerned and provides an opportunity for reflection for all.
Ji Lingchen showed a sweet side in the whole incident, declaring in public that he was Kan Qingzi's lover, and at the same time, he also posted in private, "Although I am very busy, can you find time to marry me?" However, when faced with the decision to marry, he visibly backed down.
This inconsistent attitude eventually broke his feelings and left indelible damage on himself.
Ji Lingchen only cared about his own thoughts, did not take into account Kan Qingzi's feelings and needs, he only enjoyed the sweetness of romantic love, but did not want to take due responsibility, this selfish attitude eventually led to the breakdown of the relationship between the two, and also aroused strong public disgust.
This story teaches us that love requires not only romance, but also responsibility and responsibility. If you can't give the other person a sense of security and commitment, then no amount of sweet words can only be empty tricks.
In this era of extreme information transparency, the words and deeds of public figures are very easy to be noticed and irresponsible for the moment, which may have an impact on long-term career and life.
For Ji Lingchen, the current situation may be an opportunity for reflection and growth. He needs to realize that the present predicament is the result of past actions. Only by being honest about your mistakes can you have a chance to start over.
This lesson, though costly, can also make him grow.
This story reminds us that we must learn to cherish and take responsibility in our relationships. Don't wait until you lose it to understand the importance of cherishing.