preface
In 2011, Liu Qi, the top student in the college entrance examination, has graduated from a prestigious school for nine years.
But he did not become famous and reached the peak of his life, but lived in the old house of his family, and was sent to a mental hospital by his parents many times.
In the eyes of outsiders, Liu Qi, a high-achieving student, gnawed at home and seemed to be mentally abnormal.
However, the truth is not so, in Liu Qi's current bleak situation, there is a painful past that no one knows.
1. The top student in the college entrance examination who was sent to a psychiatric hospital
On the road of life, we always have to face choices, such as the conflict between personal ideals and family affection.
For example, our protagonist Liu Qi today.
Liu Qi was born in an ordinary rural family in Hunan, precisely because the family was poor.
Liu Qi has understood the importance of reading since he was a child, so he studies hard, and his head is really smart, since he was a child, he has always been a top student in school.
When Liu Qi took the college entrance examination in 2002, his results were quite dazzling, with a total score of 654 points, and he was the top science student in the local area.
Because of this incident, Liu Qi and his family were specially interviewed by the TV station, and were envied and praised by the people around them, and they were also invited by the school to tell the younger students about their learning experience.
Liu Qi's mother
Then, the contradiction arises.
Liu Qi's grades are quite good, and after the scores were announced, the admissions teachers of Tsinghua University and Peking University took the initiative to contact Liu Qi to inquire about Liu Qi's intentions, and Liu Qi's ideal university was Tsinghua University.
To say that this was a good thing, but his parents poured a basin of cold water on Liu Qi.
It turned out that Liu Qi applied for the Tsinghua major, after graduation, he needed to work in the western region for five years in accordance with national policies.
This makes the parents very worried, after all, the old couple is such a son, first four years of college in Beijing and then five years to work in the west, these nine years are not around, they are really reluctant!
So his parents began to persuade Liu Qi not to apply for Tsinghua University.
But how can Liu Qi be willing, after all, Tsinghua University is a dream-like existence for the vast majority of college entrance examination students, how can he say that he will give up?
But the question is, when his mother ignores it and engages in all kinds of family kidnapping, what else can Liu Qi say?
Morality and emotion can really drive people to death!
In the end, in desperation, Liu Qi had to give up Tsinghua University with hatred and apply for Beihang University.
After graduation, Liu Qi was first assigned to work in a state-owned enterprise in Shaanxi, but after working for a while, Liu Qi felt that the atmosphere here was not suitable for him, so he gave up his iron job and began to look for jobs elsewhere.
Then, Liu Qi, like many college graduates, faced a very embarrassing situation.
That is, the salary is low, Liu Qi can't look at it, but those high-paying positions, either the major is not right, or Liu Qi's qualifications are not enough.
After tossing like this for a few years, Liu Qi went to the south to try his luck.
But what Liu Qi didn't expect was that just when he was worried about his future, his parents came to a wave of backstabs!
In 2011, Liu Qi learned a bad news that his grandmother had passed away, and after learning the news, Liu Qi immediately set off to go back to his hometown for the funeral.
But what he never imagined was that he was deceived by his parents into a mental hospital as soon as he returned home!
What made Liu Qi even more desperate was that in the following year, he escaped from the psychiatric hospital three times, but he was driven back by his parents and stayed in the psychiatric hospital for more than seven months before being released!
So what's going on here? Why did the old couple have to drive their son to a mental hospital?
Second, the sad insider
First of all, why was Liu Qi regarded as mentally ill by his parents?
It turned out that since Liu Qi went to college, the communication with his family has become less and less, and often his parents send hundreds of messages, and Liu Qi will only occasionally reply.
When he returned home for the Chinese New Year, Liu Qi rarely socialized with his parents at home, and always locked himself in the house alone to play on the computer.
And when Liu Qi left Shaanxi and returned to his hometown, he behaved quite wrong.
Refusing to leave the house every day, being at home, and indulging in the world of computers make parents very worried, so they want Liu Qi to go to a mental hospital to have a look.
However, it should be noted that although Liu Qi stays at home, he will go out to look for a job from time to time, and his daily life and rest are also very regular, and there is no sign of madness.
As for the relationship with parents?
Honestly, what did he say to his parents?
Before being sent to a psychiatric hospital by his parents, Liu Qi was not reluctant to communicate with his parents, but he really didn't know what to say to his parents.
And after his parents sent Liu Qi to a mental hospital, he completely cut off communication with his parents, and simply closed himself in the house, even if his father beat him with a stick, he refused to say anything.
So, is there anything wrong with Liu Qi's mental condition?
In fact, there is, with the help of reporters, Liu Qi finally accepted the doctor's examination and was identified as mentally paranoid.
In layman's terms, it is to make a mistake.
It's not a serious illness, as long as the family can communicate in a timely manner, it's fine, and there is no need to send people to a psychiatric hospital to toss, you must know that a psychiatric hospital, even if it is Chinese, is not easy to treat.
So what is Liu Qi's condition?
To be honest, although Liu Qi is a little paranoid, he has not caused substantial harm to others, it is really nothing.
During this time, Liu Qi locked himself at home, not because he couldn't think about it, but just engaged in inventions and learned new professional skills.
When the reporter arrived, Liu Qi, who was finally able to find someone to talk about his professional knowledge, was very happy to talk about the inventions he had made in recent times, as well as the program code on the computer.
And Liu Qi also said that he has not wasted his nine years, but is learning new skills and doing some of the attempts he has always wanted to do.
It's just that he also admitted that he really didn't communicate well with his parents during this time, and he will pay attention to it in the future.
After figuring out that these were actually misunderstandings, the parents also forgave their son for what he had done.
All parents want is for their children to live a good life, but it is always inevitable to do bad things with good intentions.
epilogue
A child is like a kite flown by his parents.
Many parents will hold the string tightly in their hands and pull it back when the kite flies higher.
But kites are destined to see the world, and blindly restricting them will only backfire.
Now that many years have passed, I don't know if Liu Qi has stepped out of the house to embrace a new life.
I hope his parents can really be willing to let go, after all, Liu Qi's intelligence and knowledge can allow him to fly to a broader world, he has wasted nine years, and he can't continue to waste his time.
The source of the information in this article
"Looking for Love" "Nine years after graduating from a prestigious school, why does he live at home".