Hey, this Ke Lan is really convincing! I haven't broken a man since I was 18 years old, and I'm still playing at half a hundred years old. This is not a "stunner in the world", this is simply a "goblin in the world"!
Let's first talk about the origin of this "red three generations". Grandpa is the founding general, grandma is an anti-Japanese hero, and my mother is a great beauty. With such a family background, someone else may have drifted a long time ago, but our classmate Ke Lan is good, but he actually has an inferiority complex because of his appearance. What's going on? Could it be a genetic mutation? However, people's grandmothers said well, "Girls are beautiful because they are cute, and they are not cute because they are beautiful." "I want to applaud my grandmother!
However, our Ke Lan didn't live on grandma's chicken soup alone. She began to read, study, and make herself well-mannered. That's a tall move! You must know that in this era of looking at faces, there are not many people with connotations. Ke Lan does this, won't he become a "stunner in the world"!
Next is the emotional journey of our Ke Lan. To be honest, I was stunned by this journey. first fell in love with Li Yapeng, but as a result, they got along with Qu Ying. This Li Yapeng is really not a son of man! Ke Lan helped him introduce resources, and he was good, and in a blink of an eye, he became "Aquaman". This kind of man, let's Ke Lan, don't want it!
Then, Ke Lan and Li Quan fell in love for seven years. Seven years, brothers! That's enough to get married and have children. But our classmates Ke Lan are not so easy to fool. People don't want children and don't want to give up their careers. This kind of independent woman is really admirable! However, the relationship eventually broke up because of a disagreement. Alas, this is reality, no matter how beautiful love is, it can't withstand the cruelty of reality.
Later, Ke Lan had an affair with Geng Le and Huang Zhizhong. That's where it gets interesting. Geng Le had a girlfriend at the time, and Huang Zhizhong had a wife and children. In this case, Ke Lan can still have an affair with them, this is really no one! However, our classmate Ke Lan is not a vegetarian, she insisted that she and Huang Zhizhong were officially together after his divorce. That's really leaky!
Finally, let's talk about Ke Lan's view of marriage and love. She said: "If we like it, then we can be in love for the rest of our lives." But marriage is not possible. "That's really drunk! In this era when everyone is urging marriage, Ke Lan actually dares to say that he is an "unmarried". This courage is really not ordinary!
You say this Ke Lan, why is he so miserable? One or two, they are all unreliable masters. But on second thought, this Ke Lan himself is quite problematic. She openly describes herself as an "unmarried" and believes that marriage restricts personal freedom. I'm drunk! You said you don't get married, then you're looking for a single person to fall in love! Why do you keep beating other people's family ideas?
To be honest, Ke Lan's view of marriage and love is really shocking. But, if you think about it, what she said is not unreasonable. Marriage can indeed become a prison for love, and without the constraints of marriage, people may be more free to express their love. However, this view is still too advanced in our society.
I said Ke Lan, you are not too young, it's time to take care of it. In this way, you are not only hurting others, but also yourself. You say you don't want to get married, then you have to be responsible for your actions! You jump sideways like this, and you're the one who gets hurt in the end.
Ke Lan's lifestyle of not getting married and only falling in love may seem irresponsible to many people. However, we have to ask ourselves, is it necessary to be responsible for getting married? Looking at the current divorce rate, and then looking at those couples who are strangers, do you still think that marriage is a manifestation of responsibility?
You say you have your own career and don't want to be the woman behind a successful man. I want to applaud you for all this! But sister, can't you find a man who supports your career? Do you have to go to those who are married? Isn't this self-inflicted?
Besides, Ke Lan's attitude is also responsible for himself to a certain extent. She is unwilling to give up her career for love, and she is unwilling to wronged herself to accept an unsuitable marriage. This attitude of insisting on oneself should not be blamed, but should be respected.
However, let's not be too complacent! You are beautiful now, but when you are old and no one is by your side, don't regret it! You know, life is not only about love and career, but also about family and friendship. If you're playing like this now, don't die alone in the future!
Look at you now, you have become synonymous with "third party", and you have been scolded by netizens to the point of blood. What do you say you're trying to do? Just for that little bit of ethereal "freedom"? Sister, wake up! True freedom is to pursue the life you want without harming others. You're not free, you're selfish!
At the end of the day, everyone's life choices are different. Ke Lan chose his own way of life, and although it caused a lot of controversy, it also won the respect and understanding of many people. Isn't that what she wants?
Finally, let's ask a rhetorical question: If you were Ke Lan, what would you choose? Do you choose a traditional married life, or do you bravely pursue the life you want like her? I'm afraid everyone has their own answer to this question!