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52 years old, unmarried and childless, why did Ke Lan live as an "urban legend"?
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In the entertainment industry, the life script of female stars seems to have been set up for a long time: when they were young, they were as beautiful as flowers, married into a wealthy family or found a good match, and then married and taught their children, and lived a happy life
Unmarried and childless, in the eyes of many people, seems to be the "incomplete" of life, for Ke Lan, this is her thoughtful choice, her insistence on freedom and self, her life, like a movie with ups and downs, is full of legends, and it has also aroused endless speculation and curiosity: Why did she choose such a different path?
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Chapter 1: Red Family and Rebellious Youth
Ke Lan's background has a dazzling halo, her grandfather Zhong Qiguang is a famous founding general, who has made great contributions to the establishment of New China, such a family background means a rich life and star-like treatment, but Ke Lan did not choose to become a "good girl", her life was destined to be extraordinary from the beginning
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At the age of six, the divorce of her parents cast a shadow on Ke Lan's young heart, and the broken family made her realize the hardships of life early, and also shaped her independent and strong character
Maybe tired of wandering, or maybe trying to get rid of the shackles of fate, at the age of 14, Ke Lan resolutely embarked on the road of studying in a foreign country, alone in the Canada, language barriers, cultural differences, and academic pressure have become a test on her growth road, in order to reduce the burden on her family, she had to work and study, restaurant waiter, supermarket cashier...... She has tried all kinds of part-time jobs, and this arduous experience has honed her will and made her cherish the hard-won opportunity even more
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Chapter 2: From the catwalk to the screen, she lived her own wonderful life
When she was 15 years old, by chance, Ke Lan came into contact with the modeling industry, and her tall figure and cold temperament made her quickly emerge on the catwalk, Hong Kong Fashion Week, London Fashion Week...... She has traveled all over the major shows, and has also appeared on the covers of many fashion magazines, at the age of 16, when her peers were still reaching out to their parents for money, Ke Lan has become financially independent and has become a "winner in life" in the eyes of others
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Ke Lan did not indulge in the glamorous on the catwalk, in 1994, she participated in the host audition of Hong Kong Star TV, outstanding temperament and fluent eloquence, let her get the job, just one month, she became a household name "heartthrob" with her friendly hosting style and youthful and beautiful image, letters from fans were piled up in the office, in the face of the high salary offered by the boss, Ke Lan made a bold decision: suspend school!
From model to host, Ke Lan's every transformation is full of courage and challenges, she is not willing to accept the status quo, dare to break the comfort zone, and constantly try new possibilities, after the success of the hosting industry, she set her sights on the film and television industry, in 1999, she starred in the movie "Meet in 2000", officially started her acting career
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Chapter 3: Dare to Love and Hate, she finds her true self in love
In her career, Ke Lan is a brave and fearless "desperate Sanniang", and in her relationship, she also dares to love and hate, never hides her heart, debuted for many years, there is no shortage of suitors around her, and she has also been crazy about love and has done everything she can
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Li Yapeng, Li Quan, Geng Le, Huang Zhizhong...... Ke Lan's emotional experience is as wonderful as her life, she loves passionately and decisively, every relationship is a growth for her, making her better understand herself and what she wants
For love, Ke Lan has her own unique understanding, she longs for true love, but she is even more unwilling to compromise herself for marriage, she pursues spiritual fit, and also needs mutual respect and understanding, she does not believe in the fairy tale of "prince and princess", but also believes that love needs to be managed with heart
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"Everyone is a very beautiful experience", this is Ke Lan's summary of past feelings, she did not indulge in the pain of the past, but chose to continue to move forward with lessonslearned to find her own happiness
Chapter 4: Unmarried and childless, is it "selfish" or another kind of bravery?
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52-year-old Ke Lan, still alone, unmarried and childless, in the eyes of many people, it seems to be a regret, even a kind of "selfishness", in the face of doubts from the outside world, Ke Lan responded calmly: "I am a selfish person"
Yes, Ke Lan is "selfish", she does not want to be bound by traditional concepts, she does not want to wronged herself in order to cater to others, she clearly understands that marriage and childbirth are important choices in life, but not everyone must go through, she has her own life goals and pursuits, she wants to devote more time and energy to the career she loves, to help more people in need
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Ke Lan suffers from a hereditary disease in her family, spondylitis, which makes her full of worries about childbirth, and she is reluctant to pass on the pain to the next generation, let alone expose her children to the risks they may face, for her, instead of taking risks for the sake of so-called "wholeness", it is better to choose a more responsible lifestyle
"I want to be happy", this is Ke Lan's life creed, she lives transparently, and lives freely, she is not attached to anyone, nor does she live for anyone, she uses her own way, lives a wonderful life, and also lives out of herself
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Chapter 5: The "Awakening" of Urban Women, How Should We Define Happiness?
Ke Lan's story is not an exception, in today's society, more and more women choose to marry and have children later, or even not marry and have children, they are well-educated, have independent financial ability, they are eager to pursue self-worth, and they also pay more attention to spiritual satisfaction
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The traditional concept of marriage is being subverted, and women no longer regard marriage and childbearing as a necessary choice in life, they have the right to choose the life they want, and they also have the ability to take responsibility for their own life
Ke Lan's choice may cause controversy, but her courage and independence are worth pondering: how should we define happiness? Do you follow the traditional "playbook", or do you have the courage to live your own life?
Perhaps, as Ke Lan said: "There is only one life, you have to live a wonderful and happy life!" ”
(To be continued)
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