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In October, the nights in Beijing are slightly cool. At the 2011 Golden Rooster Awards ceremony, Na Renhua in the spotlight held the Best Actress trophy tightly, with tears flashing in her eyes.
At the age of 49, she finally stood at the pinnacle of her acting career. However, what made the audience even more curious was the man standing next to her - her husband Ning Cai, who was also the Golden Rooster Award actor.
What is less known is that the love story of this on-screen couple began in the year of undoubtedness. At the age of 40, Na Renhua met the true love of her life. What kind of fate makes this Mongolia "Golden Flower" still gain such precious feelings when his acting career is brilliant? A moving story spanning the grassland and the screen is slowly unfolding.
In the late autumn of 1962, the city of Xilinhot in Inner Mongolia ushered in a special new life. On November 17th, Na Renhua fell to the ground, and her parents named her "Sun Flower", placing their hopes on their daughter.
However, no one expected that this shy and introverted little girl would become a star who would shine on the screen in the future.
As a child, Na Renhua had nothing to do with the art world, and her parents were ordinary state cadres. Before the age of 13, Cortana's dream was to become a doctor and heal patients with her own hands.
However, fate always likes to joke. In 1975, the crew of "Battlefield Yellow Flower" came to Xilin Gol for filming, and Na Renhua participated in the audition by mistake, but she didn't expect to be successful in the first try.
In this way, at the age of 13, she embarked on the road of acting, which changed the trajectory of her life.
In 1979, Na Renhua ushered in her first starring movie "Milk Yanfei". This work made her an instant hit, and then the film appointments continued. Works such as "Love and Heritage" and "All Are Happy" followed, and Na Renhua's name began to rank alongside popular actresses such as Liu Xiaoqing and Chen Chong, becoming one of the most dazzling screen goddesses in the 80s.
However, Na Renhua is not satisfied with being a simple actor. In 1982, she was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with excellent grades and began to systematically study performing arts.
During her time at school, she starred in films such as "Silent Rain" and "Hunan Girl Xiao Xiao", among which "Hunan Girl Xiao Xiao" made her nominated for Best Actress at the Golden Rooster Award for the first time.
Although she missed out on the award in the end, this nomination undoubtedly laid a solid foundation for her acting career.
After graduating, Na Renhua chose an unusual path. She stayed on to teach and went to the United Kingdom in 1988 for further study. In the 9 years in a foreign country, Na Renhua has not wasted time.
She has made many documentaries for well-known institutions such as "Qin Shi Huang" and "The Secret of the Great Wall", which have shown China's long history and culture to Western audiences, and have been widely acclaimed.
In 1997, the 35-year-old Na Renhua returned with a full load. However, when other peers have children around their knees, her love life is a blank slate. Na Renhua adheres to the principle of "rather lack than excess", and would rather be celibate than be wronged.
In this way, she became the "golden leftover girl" in the eyes of everyone, and she was not married until she was 40 years old.
Na Renhua's life seems to be filled with a career, but deep down she still longs for sincere feelings. As everyone knows, the love that belongs to her is waiting quietly not far away, just waiting for the right time to bloom.
What kind of touching love story is hidden behind this seemingly perfect goddess? Let's move on.
An ordinary day in 2000 became a turning point in Na Renhua's life. At that time, Ning Cai, a young man who had just graduated from the directing department of Beijing Film Academy, came to Na Renhua and invited her to play the soul role in the TV series "Quiet Emin River" - Dolan.
This drama tells the touching story of 3,000 Shanghai orphans who were placed in the steppes of Inner Mongolia in the early 60s.
At first, Na Renhua was suspicious of this fledgling director. However, Ning Cai's deep understanding of Mongolia culture soon moved her. In one shoot, Na Renhua thought that she perfectly interpreted a crying scene, but Ning Cai bluntly pointed out: "The tears of the Mongolian mother are drops deep into the bone marrow."
These words gave Na Renhua a new understanding of Ning Cai's talent.
The shooting environment was extremely difficult, and the temperature in Hailar was as low as minus 30 degrees. However, under such harsh conditions, Ning Cai showed extraordinary leadership and care.
He often roasted a leg of lamb for the crew and served hot milk tea to dispel the chill for everyone. Na Renhua was moved by Ning Cai's thoughtfulness, and began to silently prepare a double lunch for him, and even carefully put vitamin tablets at the bottom of the lunch box.
The two hearts approached quietly in the cold grassland.
After the completion of "Quiet Emin River", Na Renhua felt a trace of reluctance in her heart. Perhaps it was the arrangement of fate, and soon after the famous director Seif invited Na Renhua to play the heroine of the movie "Heavenly Prairie".
Knowing that the actor was undecided, Na Renhua did not hesitate to recommend Ning Cai.
During the two-month filming, Na Renhua and Ning Cai played a loving couple, and the tacit understanding in and out of the play made the relationship between the two heat up day by day. In their free time, they often rode horses together in the vast grasslands, and Ning Cai also sang Mongolia love songs affectionately for Na Renhua.
Under the bright starry sky, Ning Cai finally mustered up the courage to confess to Na Renhua: "I love you deeply, please let me be your boyfriend."
In June 2002, 40-year-old Na Renhua and 39-year-old Ning Cai got married in Beijing in a low-key manner. They didn't make a big deal, but chose the easiest way to celebrate this hard-won love.
On the wedding night, they bought a bottle of red wine and some ingredients hand in hand, and returned to their new home to enjoy the world of two. Although Na Renhua is not good at cooking, Ning Cai cooks herself and presents a sumptuous dinner for their new life.
In May of the following year, 41-year-old Na Renhua gave birth to a healthy baby boy at Peking Union Medical College Hospital, named him Gu He, hoping that the child would be as clear, bright and full of vitality as a spring in the valley.
This family, which came a little late, was filled with happiness and warmth.
Na Renhua often said: "Ning Cai is a very practical person, this is what I admire most about him." And Ning Cai interprets his love for his wife with practical actions. The newlyweds not only support each other in life, but also work together in their careers, composing a moving screen story.
After marriage, Na Renhua and Ning Cai not only get along with each other in life, but also go hand in hand in their careers. In 2003, the newlyweds teamed up again and co-starred in the movie "Horses in the Monsoon".
This work is more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people than their previous collaboration "Heavenly Prairie", vividly showing the living conditions of grassland herders and the homesickness that is difficult to part.
The success of the film is not only reflected in its artistic achievements, but also won the nomination for the Huabiao Award for Outstanding Feature Film, and Na Renhua was also nominated for Best Actress for her superb acting skills.
Immediately afterwards, the couple set their sights on the work "Quiet Emin River", which they had once married. They worked together to adapt the novel into the movie "Eji", with Ning Cai as the director Na Renhua playing the leading role.
However, in June 2010, just before the start of the film, Na Renhua suffered a major blow in her life - the death of her mother. This unfortunate news almost crushed her, but Ning became her strongest backing.
Ning Cai comforted his wife affectionately: "Your deepest nostalgia for your mother is to make the character of 'Eji' vivid. Our old Eji is silently watching you in heaven, cheering you on.
These words gave Na Renhua a lot of strength, and she integrated her longing for her mother into the character and presented a moving performance.
Hard work pays off. In 2011, Na Renhua won the Golden Rooster Award and the Huabiao Award for Best Actress with "Eji", becoming an enviable "double actress".
Before the Golden Rooster Award ceremony, she nervously asked her son Gu He about the possibility of winning the award. Gu He innocently replied: "Mom, you will definitely win the award." In the past, although I was shortlisted many times, I didn't win the award, and that's because you didn't have me by your side.
This lovely prophecy finally came true, and Na Renhua defeated many powerful actresses with a high number of votes, fulfilling her dream of being a movie queen for many years.
It is worth mentioning that as early as 2003, Ning Cai won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actor with "Heavenly Prairie". So far, Na Renhua and Ning Cai have become the only fairy couple in the Chinese film and television industry who have won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actor and Queen, which can be called a good story.
The couple's tacit understanding and achievements on and off the screen not only illustrate their deep affection for each other, but also show their persistent pursuit of art. Their story is like a moving idyll, which has written a romantic and affectionate stroke in the history of Chinese cinema.
In addition to the glamorous screen life, Na Renhua and Ning Cai's daily life is full of fireworks. Every morning, Na Renhua spends a full hour preparing a different breakfast for the whole family.
She retains the habits she developed when she was studying in United Kingdom, preferring coffee with bread, bacon and chips. Ning Cai, on the other hand, is more fond of the taste of his hometown, preferring rich milk tea with fragrant fried rice.
The couple's lifestyle reflects their diverse upbringing. Na Renhua has studied in Western countries for many years and is open-minded and avant-garde; Ning Cai grew up in the Mongolia steppe and has a straightforward and open-minded personality.
Such differences will inevitably cause some friction in daily life, but they can always resolve the conflict by understanding and tolerating each other.
Na Renhua patiently teaches Ning Cai to do housework, and Ning Cai also strives to learn how to be a competent husband. He began to try his hand at peeling potatoes, drying clothes, shopping for ingredients, and even practicing the piano with his children.
Na Renhua often sighed: "Ning is a very practical person, this is what I admire most about him."
In addition to taking care of her own small family, Na Renhua also cares about Ning Cai's family. She often reminds her husband to send money to his brother and sister who are far away in the grassland, and helps pay for her nephew's school fees and her niece's wedding expenses.
This kindness and virtuousness won the praise of Ning Cai's whole family, and was praised by relatives and friends as a model daughter-in-law.
Every year, the couple takes time to return to their hometown in Inner Mongolia. They sat with local herders on the vast grassland, sipping mellow milk tea and enjoying delicious roast mutton.
At such a moment, Na Renhua and Ning Cai seemed to have returned to the days when they first met, reliving the innocent touch.
In May 2003, a loud cry came from Peking Union Medical College Hospital. 41-year-old Na Renhua has gone through a lot of hardships and finally ushered in the crystallization of her and Ning Cai's love.
This little life, which came a little later, brought infinite joy to the family. The couple named their son Gu He, which means that it is as clear and bright as a spring in the valley, full of vitality.
As time passed, Gu He's growth surprised his parents. This little boy not only inherited the excellent genes of his parents, but also showed extraordinary emotional intelligence and thoughtfulness.
Once, when he was only 4 years old, Gu He brought water and medicine to his sick mother, and waited until 11 o'clock at night. He went to bed at 7:30 on weekdays, but he held on until he was about to fall asleep that day, and then reluctantly said: "Mom, I'm sorry I'm too tired and have to go to sleep."
This precocious sensibility made Na Renhua both moved and distressed.
Gu He also often acted as a "little peacemaker" between his parents. Whenever Na Renhua was depressed, Gu He would always say in a childish and gentle voice: "Mom, please stay calm and angry mother is not beautiful."
Words like this can always dissolve Na Renhua's troubles and make her smile again.
In Gu He, we saw the crystallization of the love between Na Renhua and Ning Cai, and also saw the strong love of this family. This little "peach and plum" is thriving under the care of its parents and exudes a unique fragrance.
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