It was originally a well-intentioned funding, but how chilling can the result be?
A graduate student blogger was kind enough to subsidize a poor junior high school student with 800 yuan a month, but he never expected that he would not only be "promoted to hatred", but also insulted.
The experience shared by netizens in the comment area is even more "eye-opening", and they feel that sponsors must keep their eyes open.
Recently, a blogger posted an article on the Internet angrily criticizing the children he sponsored, calling "funding needs to be cautious", and posted his experience with the children he sponsored.
The blogger is a graduate student who has been sponsoring a poor child to study in junior high school since he was in graduate school, and it has been 2 years now. At first, the blogger gave her 600 yuan per month, but later it rose to 800 yuan per month, but now she was "bitten" by the children she funded.
At the beginning of the matter, it was the blogger who sponsored the child who went to the blogger several times because of eye surgery, but the blogger ignored it. Later, when I saw the child's message after my eyes recovered, I immediately responded, but I didn't think that this child could be so "vicious".
After seeing the blogger's bitter advice and learning that the blogger who funded him had surgery, the child's first reaction was not to care about and thank the blogger, but to scold the blogger for being blind.
The blogger said that he saw the child so vicious at first, and immediately returned the mouth, but then the sponsored child sent a long apology to the blogger that seemed sincere, and the blogger didn't care, thinking that the child was still young and couldn't care about the child in general, but he never expected what happened next to shock the blogger.
In the two years of sponsoring the child, in addition to the 800 yuan fixed monthly subsidy, the child always borrowed money from the blogger, not once or twice, and the blogger would receive the child's loan request almost every once in a while.
Maybe it was because she saw the blogger's "hard heart", she didn't impress the blogger to get the money she wanted, so she changed her routine and played the warmth card with the blogger instead.
The child told the blogger that her father had injured someone by drinking, and that someone called the police to ask his family to pay money, and she wanted to borrow 10,000 yuan from the blogger, saying that she would definitely pay it back to her in the future.
10,000 yuan is not a small amount, and the blogger doesn't know if what she said is true or not, after all, there is only one mouth to say, there is no evidence, and the blogger has no obligation to lend her, so he politely declined her request.
Unexpectedly, this child directly "morally kidnapped" the blogger with his future, saying that if the blogger didn't help her, it would definitely affect her schooling.
In the face of such moral kidnapping, the blogger also reasoned with her at this time, saying that it would not be affected, her school was funded by the blogger, and her family would not be affected, and he comforted her a few words by the way, but he didn't expect the latter sentence to make the blogger directly angry.
Unexpectedly, the child came directly: Sister, are you really unwilling to borrow? You travel a lot, and I know you have money.
This sentence can make the blogger angry, the sentence "Dou Mien sheng Mi Qiu" is really vividly reflected in her at this moment, it is obviously a kind funding, and now it is a mistake not to want to borrow money.
The more the blogger thought about it, the more angry he became, combined with the fact that the poor students who had been funded in recent years frequently asked her to borrow money, as well as the words that scolded her before, the blogger still decided not to be the wronged leader, and he didn't want to fund her anymore.
Although her family is very poor, the blogger should not be kind enough to be "repaid" like this, and finally decided to report the case and get back the money that has been funded for nothing over the years.
As soon as the blogger's experience was released, the comment area was directly fried, I thought that bloggers had very few such experiences, but I didn't expect the comment area to abound.
Some netizens were directly angry: I really didn't expect what kind of girl to scold her sister for funding her "blind", it seems that the character of the sponsor is really important, and a white-eyed wolf was funded in vain.
Some netizens even lamented that this is a realistic version of "Dou Mien Shengmi Hatred", it is really not good to borrow money so frequently at a young age.
Some netizens even analyzed these points: obviously she still has money to drink but can't support her daughter to go to school, and the living expenses of junior high school never need 800 a month, not to mention that she has no gratitude, we can help others, but don't take care of his life.
There are also many netizens who posted their same experiences, and they are all very explosive.
A netizen posted a few paragraphs to tell about his bad experience, saying that he once sponsored a 5th grade boy, but then stopped funding when he ran out of money. But after the other party learned about his difficulties, he didn't understand or understand, just an indifferent "oh".
What's more, later the netizen's family also encountered great difficulties, but the boy also asked the netizen to borrow money, and when the netizen explained the situation to him, he actually got the sentence "You deserve it".
Not to mention that netizens are angry with each other in this experience, other netizens are going to be angry. But such an example has also happened to other netizens, and it is even more infuriating.
And the following netizen's doctor father is also like this, sponsoring a rural female student from junior high school to college, but I didn't expect to be directly blackmailed by that family, and the younger brother of the family came to borrow money from the netizen's father from time to time, and said that all the expenses of his sister had to be borne by their family, and later they also suffered from the harassment of that family from time to time.
And this netizen's experience is even more explosive, at the beginning, when he had money, he gave 1500 a month, and then the business was not good during the epidemic, but it was reduced to 1000, and he was asked for money for various reasons.
Later, the funding was suspended, and the subsidized families sent spam text messages to their family like crazy, and said that they would sue their father for sexually harassing girls, which is really the ugliness of human nature.
Some netizens even said, not to mention the funding, even their own relatives are like this. My father-in-law raised the whole family alone, and my mother-in-law's relatives and the whole family, but none of them were grateful, and they all felt that this was what you should do.
Therefore, the result of this is that many people are cold, just like the netizen below said, I used to be like this, because I once sent clothes to the subsidized object, and the subsidized family knew her address, and finally called the police, and since then, I have never funded anyone.
But of course, it is not possible to generalize, and not all those who are funded have no conscience. Just like a few netizens below posted their experiences, saying that the children they sponsored were okay, but they went to work part-time when they were admitted to college, and they no longer asked for his money.
There are better ones, they will send things to themselves, and even start earning money for themselves as soon as they do an internship, and they will really be touched and feel that their kindness has not been disappointed.
In fact, the starting point of sponsoring poor students is kindness, but it is because of these greedy poor students, who are not grateful, that they have ruined the reputation of all poor students, resulting in many well-wishers being chilled by these white-eyed wolves and no longer willing to help others.
For example, Cong Fei has sponsored many children in poor mountainous areas, and he has also received gratitude, but after he was diagnosed with cancer, he had no source of work, and he actually received a lot of letters to force donations.
The last straw that overwhelmed Cong Fei's illness was probably these children who had been funded, but I didn't expect that at the end of his life, what he felt was not the love of the children, but the letter urging money, which was enough to sigh.
Funding is a good thing, but I hope these "white-eyed wolves" will reflect on themselves, don't drag down the children who really know gratitude, and don't chill the hearts of these good people.
Have you ever experienced anything like this? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
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