First, after graduation, Shen Lijun quickly emerged in the entertainment industry with her outstanding appearance. In 2006, with a dream, she went to Korea alone, hoping to find a broader development space there.
Opportunities always favor those who are prepared, and a company that develops online games took a fancy to Shen Lijun's image and invited her to endorse her games. This endorsement made Shen Lijun an instant hit, and her beautiful image soon spread all over major websites and street windows, and was even known as "Shanghai's first beauty", becoming the first generation of "Internet celebrity" in China.
Shen Lijun's star journey began to sing all the way. In 2009, she ushered in an important turning point in her acting career. The famous director Gu Dezhao invited her to participate in "Happy Family 2009", playing Huang Baiming's daughter Xiaomin in the film.
Although it is a supporting role, the rivalry with big-name stars such as Louis Koo and Wu Junru left a deep impression on Shen Lijun in the hearts of the audience. Immediately afterwards, she served as the second female lead in the movie "Transformation Contract", cooperating with the popular student Huo Jianhua.
In just a few years, 26-year-old Shen Lijun has become one of the most eye-catching female stars in Shanghai. However, just when her career was booming, fate arranged an unexpected turn for Shen Lijun.
Among the many suitors, Wu Kaixin, one of the top ten wealthy businessmen in Shanghai, touched Shen Lijun's heart with his amazing courage and romantic methods. Wu Kaixin not only often took her in and out of high-end places, but also introduced her to many rich and noble friends, which satisfied Shen Lijun's inner vanity.
Under the impulse of love, the two entered the palace of marriage after only eight months of dating. In order to take care of the dignity of her wealthy businessman's husband, Shen Lijun resolutely gave up her thriving acting career and chose to be a full-time wife at home.
She longs for a happy and prosperous life, but she doesn't know that this decision will completely change the trajectory of her life. Soon after marriage, Shen Lijun faced the most important task of a wealthy family - childbirth.
In order to overcome the problem of poor physical fitness and difficulty in getting pregnant, she began to exercise frequently and take various tonic medicines. However, the difficulties not only come from herself, Wu Kaixin's high sperm malformation rate has also become an obstacle.
With the joint efforts of both parties, Shen Lijun finally got pregnant as she wished. During pregnancy, in order to keep the hard-won child, Shen Lijun had to stay in bed for a long time to protect the fetus.
She doesn't wear makeup, she barely moves, and she has become sick and cheerful in the past. However, in this special period when she needs her husband's love, Wu Kaixin is obsessed with the game of cards between friends.
He often doesn't come home until one or two o'clock in the morning, and when he comes back, he doesn't greet his wife, just lies on the sofa and watches TV. Once, Shen Lijun, who was sleeping lightly, heard the sound of TV and walked to the living room to talk to her husband.
Second, Wu Kaixin, who played mahjong for a day, just wanted to watch TV quietly until he fell asleep. The only opportunity for communication between husband and wife is gone. Despite this, Shen Lijun still tried to comfort herself: "It's fine after giving birth."
Things didn't get better after giving birth. Shen Lijun has been having lochia after giving birth, which lasted for nearly three months, and her body trembled even when she got out of bed and walked. This hidden disease has seriously affected the life of the couple.
Wu Kaixin used the excuse that he was afraid of affecting Shen Lijun's sleep and was afraid of pressing the baby, so he moved to the film and television hall to sleep. Shen Lijun began to notice her husband's abnormality. Once, they watched a movie with their friends, but Wu Kaixin did not sit with Shen Lijun, but separated several friends.
What makes Shen Lijun even more chilling is that Wu Kaixin keeps sending messages throughout the movie, and he smiles from time to time. This experience made Shen Lijun suspicious, and she had a big fight with her husband after returning home.
Just when the contradiction was not resolved, Shen Lijun became pregnant again. In this pregnancy, she not only had to stay in bed again to protect the fetus, but also had to take care of Dabao. The mother-in-law was worried that the nanny was unreliable, and insisted that Shen Lijun take care of the child herself.
In the process of struggling to balance the fetus and take care of the child, Shen Lijun couldn't help but complain to her mother-in-law that her husband didn't care about the family. However, instead of blaming her son, her mother-in-law accused Shen Lijun of not being able to control her husband.
After giving birth to her second child, Shen Lijun originally thought that she could take care of herself again and return to her previous glamorous life. But reality gave her a slap in the face. Wu Kaixin has strict requirements for housework, often instructing Shen Lijun to help the nanny with housework, requiring her to keep the children's toys neat, there can be no dust on the table at home, and the clothes must be folded like in the store.
What makes Shen Lijun even more chilling is that she likes to cook, and every time she finishes cooking, others say it is delicious, but Wu Kaixin dislikes her for being as unpalatable as a country grandmother. Her husband's cold attitude towards her children also made it difficult for Shen Lijun to accept.
Wu Kaixin always uses the excuse that the children are small and busy with work as an excuse not to play with the children, Dabao is five years old, and the number of times the family of four goes out to play is only a handful. Just as Shen Lijun was trying to maintain the family, she accidentally discovered a fact that broke her.
While she was hospitalized while pregnant with her second child, she peeked at her husband's mobile phone and found that there was a netizen who was called a lover. Through social platforms, she found this woman named Ma Mingyue - a woman who wandered into nightclubs.
When Shen Lijun told her mother-in-law about her husband's cheating, she received an indifferent response: "You bear with it, it's normal for men to act outside." This sentence was like a sharp blade, which deeply pierced Shen Lijun's heart.
Three, her marriage, her dedication, seems so ridiculous and powerless at this moment. In the face of her husband's betrayal, Shen Lijun tried to be patient, she told herself: "Think more about the children, maybe my husband is just impulsive."
However, the daily torment was like a blunt knife cutting through the flesh, and finally she could no longer bear it. Summoning up the courage, Shen Lijun filed for divorce. This decision made Wu Kaixin panic.
He begged Shen Lijun bitterly and promised to cut off relations with Ma Mingyue. However, this is nothing more than another deception. Wu Kaixin not only did not relent, but intensified, and his relationship with Ma Mingyue became more and more intimate, almost to the point that everyone knew it.
What made Shen Lijun even more unbearable was that Ma Mingyue began to constantly "force the palace". Once, Shen Lijun posted a gift from her husband on social platforms, but Ma Mingyue defiantly said that she also received the same gift.
Another time, when Shen Lijun released beautiful photos, Ma Mingyue sneered, saying that her happiness and beauty were all faked, and she couldn't control her husband at all. Even the nanny car that Wu Kaixin bought for Shen Lijun was used by Ma Mingyue to show off her wealth and pose for photos before Shen Lijun sat on it.
These successive blows made Shen Lijun on the verge of collapse. She tried to find the truth, and finally learned Ma Mingyue's true background from Wu Kaixin's uncle. It turned out that Ma Mingyue had been in nightclubs for many years, and was once raised by a wealthy businessman in his fifties and sixties, who knew how to manipulate men and hurt other women.
In a fierce quarrel, Wu Kaixin's words completely shattered Shen Lijun's last dignity: "I'm afraid of you, I'm just a junior outside, what can you do, there are still others in this division."
"Take care of the child when you are alive, and I will take it when you die." "I'm not going to divorce you, I'm waiting to collect your body." These cruel words were like sharp blades, piercing Shen Lijun's heart deeply.
What broke Shen Lijun's heart even more was that the sensitive children had already noticed the disharmony in the family. Children will ask, "Why doesn't Daddy love me?" I don't want dad anymore.
"Even after a trip to Chengdu, the children said they didn't want to go home because they thought it was cold. The children's words were like the north wind in winter, making Shen Lijun shudder.
Under this kind of blow, Shen Lijun's heart was full of entanglement, despair, anxiety, fear and sadness. These negative emotions constantly tormented her, making it impossible for her to sleep and face reality awakely.
Fourth, she knows that if she doesn't make a decision, she will suffer not only herself, but also the children she loves deeply. In the early morning of 2011, Shen Lijun made the last choice in her life.
After countless nights of tossing and turning, she made it to the 28th floor alone at 7 a.m. Standing on top of a tall building, her mind may have flashed through her entire life: from the glamorous "No. 1 Beauty in Shanghai" to the tortured daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, from a hopeful bride to a desperate mother.
Before jumping forward, Shen Lijun left a suicide note of 10,000 words. This suicide note records in detail the grievances and pains she encountered after marriage. With her last strength, she poured out her mental journey and accusations against this marriage on paper.
This is not only her farewell to her life, but also the last indictment of this cruel world. However, what makes this tragedy even more ironic is that at the same moment when Shen Lijun chose to end her life, her husband Wu Kaixin was accompanying Xiaosan Ma Mingyue to choose a wedding dress.
Life and death, happiness and despair, form the strongest contrast in this moment. While a woman ends her life in despair, the man who betrays her prepares for a new marriage.
Shen Lijun's departure shocked the entire society. Her story spread quickly, triggering deep thought about wealthy marriages. People began to question: What kind of cruel truth is hidden in the glamorous and glamorous life of a wealthy family on the surface? Are those envied wealthy wives really as happy as they look? This tragedy is not only the tragedy of Shen Lijun alone, but also the sorrow of the whole society.
It acts as a mirror of society's unfair treatment of women and the problems that exist in the institution of marriage. Shen Lijun's story teaches us that money and social status do not guarantee happiness, on the contrary, they can sometimes be the last straw that crushes a person.
Shen Lijun's choice, although it is painful, also makes people think: In such a situation, does she have any other way out? If society could provide more support and help, would such tragedies be avoided? Shen Lijun's departure left two young children and countless questions.
Her story has become a warning to people to pay attention to the problems in marriage, pay attention to the rights and interests of women, and remind everyone to cherish life and seek help. This tragedy has become a microcosm of an era, allowing people to see the cruel reality behind the marriage of a wealthy family.
Shen Lijun's tragedy is like a mirror, reflecting the cruel reality behind the wealthy marriage. The glamour on the surface can't hide the pain and despair in the heart. This story provokes people to think deeply about the nature of marriage: is the standard of happiness really "a perfect marriage and a complete child"? The worldly eye often sees wealthy marriages as the pinnacle of life, but Shen Lijun's experience ruthlessly reveals the limitations of this concept.
Fifth, she gave up her thriving career, but in exchange for a marriage full of betrayal and humiliation. This begs the question, how should women maintain themselves in marriage? Shen Lijun's choice may be a silent protest against this distorted standard.
Her story reminds us that true happiness should not be built on material foundations, but on mutual respect and understanding. For women, maintaining an independent personality and self-worth is more important than clinging to a wealthy family.
The tragedy also exposed society's unfair expectations of women. When Shen Lijun tried to play the role of a good wife and mother, her efforts were not respected and cherished as they should be.
This unequal marital relationship eventually led to tragedy. Shen Lijun's story is a wake-up call to the whole society. It calls on us to re-examine the nature of marriage, to focus on the status and rights of women in marriage, and also to remind everyone not to lose themselves in the pursuit of happiness.
Shen Lijun's tragedy sounded the alarm for the world. Her story teaches us that marital happiness should not be built on material foundations, but on mutual respect and understanding.
For women, maintaining an independent personality and self-worth is more important than clinging to a wealthy family. This case reminds us to re-examine the nature of marriage and pay attention to the status and rights of women in marriage.