When we make friends or look for the other half, we should not pay too much attention to the appearance of the other party, but should focus on the other party's conduct.
In interpersonal interactions, it is not right to treat people with their appearance, we must be good at discovering the inner beauty of others, and if everyone can do this, then society will naturally become more harmonious.
There is such an emotional story, a man and his online girlfriend made an appointment to meet, and after meeting, his online girlfriend was wearing a mask, so he took the initiative to take off the mask, and after seeing her true face, he felt very disappointed, and made an impolite act to let the other party leave.
The man has worked for a few years after graduation and has a certain amount of savings, and he has reached the marriageable age and has always wanted to find a suitable marriage partner, but there is no opposite sex around him who he likes.
He is not handsome, and he is worried that the appearance of his children will not be outstanding after marriage, so he wants to find a beautiful other half.
He observed that none of his friends were good-looking of the opposite sex, which made him anxious about his marriage, and in order to quickly find a suitable other half, he began to make friends online.
By chance, he met his online girlfriend, and after a simple conversation on the Internet, the two felt that they could continue to get along with each other.
After getting to know his online girlfriend, he began to chat with his online girlfriend frequently, and he almost always kept in touch with his online girlfriend except for work and meal time.
During the chat, the two learned that they both had a lot of common hobbies, which made him feel very excited and felt that he had finally found a suitable partner for him.
Especially after he saw the photos of his online girlfriend, he found that his online girlfriend was a very beautiful person, and he didn't want to miss her, so he began to pursue her.
When he encounters festivals, he will send red envelopes to his online girlfriend, and often order takeout for her, and his generous performance also makes his online girlfriend have a good impression of him.
The two people who were in love soon got together, and although the two had not met in reality, it did not hinder the development of his relationship with his online girlfriend.
Later, he was no longer satisfied with just chatting with his online girlfriend online, so he put forward the idea of wanting to meet, and his online girlfriend also wanted to have further development with him, so he agreed to meet him.
He and his online girlfriend are not in the same city, and at first he planned to meet each other in the city where his online girlfriend is, but she offered to go to his city.
He felt the sincerity of his online girlfriend wanting to meet, and he was very happy in his heart, in order to make a good impression on his online girlfriend, he also bought clothes to dress himself, hoping to have a good start with his online girlfriend.
On the day the two agreed to meet, he put on the newly bought clothes and shoes, and dressed himself up in a good manner, just so that his online girlfriend would not be disappointed with his appearance.
He and his online girlfriend agreed to meet at the high-speed rail station, and he saw that it was close to the time to meet, so he immediately went to the high-speed rail station.
After arriving at the high-speed rail station, he saw someone selling flowers, and in order to surprise his online girlfriend, he also spent money to buy a bouquet of flowers for her.
When he received his online girlfriend with flowers in his hand, his online girlfriend was still wearing a mask, which made him feel very puzzled.
The online girlfriend was wearing a mask, so he couldn't see what the other party looked like, so he had to take the initiative to take off her mask, but after the mask was removed, he found that the online girlfriend looked different from what he imagined.
The online girlfriend's appearance is very ordinary, which does not meet his standards for his other half at all, and he wants to leave immediately when he is disappointed.
He wanted to leave, but he didn't know how to tell his online girlfriend, and he was also embarrassed to think that the other party had dragged his luggage and worked hard to come to his city.
He thought about it and took out money from his pocket and gave it to his online girlfriend, hoping that she would take the money to buy a ticket back.
After giving the money to his online girlfriend, he thought that the flowers in his hand were useless, so he stuffed all the flowers into the arms of his online girlfriend, and after seeing his online girlfriend holding the money and flowers, he immediately turned around and left.
And the online girlfriend felt very angry when she saw that he was leaving, so she stepped forward and pulled him to prevent him from leaving.
He saw that his online girlfriend was still keeping him, and he felt very helpless, and he just wanted to leave quickly, so he had to confess to his online girlfriend, saying that his online girlfriend's appearance was not beautiful enough, and he was not satisfied.
When the online girlfriend heard him say this, she stopped keeping him with interest, and finally the online girlfriend was unceremonious, taking the money and flowers he gave to buy a ticket for the return trip.
Author's point of view: When a man reaches marriageable age and wants to find his other half to marry, he finally finds an online girlfriend with similar interests, but dislikes her appearance when they meet, resulting in him not being able to be with his online girlfriend in the end.
In fact, a man is not handsome, so he should not dislike the appearance of the other half, after all, if two people want to get married, appearance is secondary, and inner beauty is the most important.
When getting along with people, whether it is making friends or becoming a husband and wife, you should not pay too much attention to each other's appearance, you must know that no matter how good-looking a person is, his appearance will change over time.
How a person looks is not a choice for himself, you know, a pure and kind heart is more important than an excellent appearance, so when we are looking for the other half, we should look for someone who is in line with our three views and has a good character, only in this way will we meet the right person, and we will live happily after marriage.