What about the cemetery deadline: Will the urn in 20 years really be dug up?
We often hear that there is a time limit for the placement of ashes in the cemetery, usually 20 years. Many old people began to wonder, when the 20 years come, if we don't renew it, will we really have to dig out our urn? Don't worry, let's talk about this topic today and answer the doubts in your heart.
First of all, this 20-year period is actually from the early years. At that time, the management of the cemetery was relatively rough, so such a deadline was set. However, with the development of the funeral industry, these regulations and practices have been gradually improved and perfected. Today, many local cemeteries have lifted this 20-year time limit, and even if there is, it does not mean that the urn must be dug up when it expires.
You must know that for our deceased loved ones, the nostalgia and longing in our hearts are eternal. How can this emotional sustenance be limited by a simple deadline? The operators and managers of the cemetery are well aware of this, so they are more inclined to provide long-term service and security.
So, if such a situation is really encountered, and the children and grandchildren do not renew the fee, will the urn really be dug up? The answer is no. First of all, it involves respect for the deceased and the affection of the family. The cemetery will be very cautious and respectful of the wishes of the families when dealing with such issues. Second, such a practice is also likely to arouse dissatisfaction and condemnation from public opinion. So, you don't have to worry about this at all.
But then again, while we don't need to worry too much about the urn being dug up, as children and future generations, we should really pay more attention and think about how to better manage and maintain the cemetery. After all, this is the best respect and remembrance for a deceased loved one.
We can visit the grave regularly, clean up the weeds, tidy up the cemetery, and keep the "home" of our loved ones tidy and beautiful at all times. We can also learn and understand funeral knowledge to better plan and arrange the funeral of our loved ones. For example, choose a cemetery with a beautiful environment and thoughtful service, or set up a monument for loved ones, so that more people can remember and commemorate them.
In addition, we must also cherish life and care for everyone around us. Because of the transience and fragility of life, we understand more the importance of cherishing the present moment and caring for others. When our loved ones are still alive, we should spend more time with them and care for them, so that they can feel our love and warmth. In this way, even if one day we leave this world, fellow relatives will feel warmth and comfort because of our love.
In fact, we don't need to be too nervous and worried about these regulations and practices of the cemetery. As long as we maintain a normal heart and face every stage of life with love, we can truly respect life and cherish the present.
Therefore, whether it is a living relative or a deceased relative, we should treat them with a grateful heart. Cherish every moment with them and let them feel our love and care. In this way, even if we are faced with various problems in the cemetery one day, we can face and deal with them with a peaceful mind.
Finally, I would like to say that life is short, but love is eternal. Let us warm every corner with love and care for everyone in need. In this way, our world will become a better and warmer place. Do you think I'm right? Welcome to leave a comment, like and forward! Let's pass on positive energy and love together!