The meme "I'm afraid you can't help it" quickly became popular across the country. Li Peixia from Wannian County, Jiangxi Province, made five fatal mistakes in the workplace:
First, there is no background in the system, and it is difficult to be promoted
Li Peixia works within the system, but has no background, which makes her path to promotion extremely difficult. Especially as a woman, it is more difficult to get promoted. However, Li Peixia's thirst for power is very strong. Although she has become the secretary of the township party committee at the age of 41, she is still not satisfied and wants to continue to climb the ladder. Since no one was able to help her, she was left to her own devices.
In order to get closer to Kiki, she will do whatever it takes to get close to him, and she is willing to cater to any request from the other party as long as her physical condition allows. Qiqi was also happy with Li Peixia's active overtures, and the two developed a relationship willingly.
Second, emotional games cannot be capricious
Li Peixia also made a fatal mistake in terms of feelings. Judging from the call records of the two, Qiqi is very fond of Li Peixia and often invites her to the office for tea, but Li Peixia refuses many times on the grounds that her health is not yet good and she is afraid that the other party will not be able to bear it. Kiki laughed at this, saying that he didn't care. From these conversations, it can be seen that the relationship between the two is extraordinary. However, Li Peixia underestimated the risks of emotional games, and she thought that she could achieve her goals by being coquettish and threatening, but it turned out that she was wrong.
Third, underestimate the ferocity of the other party
Li Peixia mistakenly believes that her relationship with Qiqi is very strong, and the two get along very harmoniously in private. She even treats the other party as a lover, thinking that if she plays tricks and threatens in front of her lover, the other party will not mind, and will even help her get promoted. However, Kiki doesn't eat this set. Li Peixia may have used similar tactics in the past, and tried and failed, but this time she miscalculated. Kiki is a ruthless man who will strike first whenever he feels that his position is threatened.
Fourth, the desire for power is too strong
The 41-year-old has done well in her current position, but she is still not satisfied and wants more power. With no background, she can only achieve her goals through power trading, which is extremely risky and will trap herself if she is not careful. Her lust for power has led her down a dangerous path in the workplace.
Fifth, poor family management
Judging from this incident, Li Peixia's husband has not spoken out. Although some people say that Li Peixia has a good relationship with her husband and has a harmonious family, her husband did not stand up for her at a critical moment. If Li Peixia was really sexually assaulted, why didn't her husband speak out? This shows that her husband knows well and chooses to remain silent to avoid slapping himself in the face. A 41-year-old woman, if the family is not running well, should at least take care of her children. However, Li Peixia was so focused on her work that she ignored her family's feelings. Now that she's in trouble, the other party ignores her.
epilogue
Li Peixia's story is regrettable. Her wrong choices ultimately led to self-destruction. If she had chosen not to go into politics and become a teacher honestly, her life would have been much happier now than she is now. If she had run her family well in a down-to-earth manner, regarded work as a responsibility, and taken care of her family at the same time, she would not have fallen to where she is today. In the final analysis, it was all because her desire for power was too strong, which eventually led to a catastrophe.
Through Li Peixia's experience, we can see that the balance between work and family is very important. Excessive lust for power and improper means not only do not lead to success, but lead to self-destruction. I hope that everyone can take care of their families while pursuing their careers, so as to achieve true balance and happiness.