Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Love, like a lotus flower in summer, blooms all over the pond before you know it. The greater the sunshine, the more enthusiastic the lotus flowers will be.
I don't know when it began to wither, until you saw that there was no longer a green or a flower in the pond, only a depression, and you felt sorry for it.
In a relationship, if you often neglect to manage and ignore responding to your lover, the two people will drift apart and the love will fade.
In the end, they don't love each other and become strangers.
This is the essence of a woman's heart is dead and unloved: not responding in time.
02. If you don't respond to love in time, women gradually save enough despair
My colleague Li Yan shared her story with me:
She is married far away, and she was willing to go desperately for love.
After getting married, there were many conflicts between her and her mother-in-law, and her husband chose to ignore them.
She has proposed countless times that she wants to move out, but her husband insists on living with his parents on the grounds of "saving living costs".
Living with her in-laws, her husband never does housework and does not pay for living expenses. Sometimes she was wronged, and he ignored it.
She wanted to go to the movies with him, and sometimes she wanted to go out on a trip with him, but he said it was a waste of money. She wanted her husband to share the housework, but he was even more indifferent to her.
Now, Li Yan packed her luggage and returned to her hometown with a heart full of holes. Next, she said she was ready for a divorce.
A woman doesn't love, and many times, it's because she wants the love and never gets a timely response from the man.
Her expectations, the care she wanted, and the pampering she wanted were all disappointed.
Someone said, "I've seen him love me, and when he doesn't love me, I know it, but I don't want to admit it." ”
After being disappointed for a long time, a woman despairs of feelings, and over time, she no longer wants to get love and care from men.
She reclaimed her withered heart and healed alone.
03. Love that does not respond makes women feel loved
When a woman is willing to marry a man, she believes that her love can overcome any test in this world.
As long as the two hearts are firmly glued together and the strength is in one place, no matter how much hardship she endures, the woman will be willing.
The most feared thing is that after love becomes dull, men no longer care about women and no longer respond positively to love.
Women want to travel abroad once when they are living to leave a good memory for themselves. But the man said that it was a waste of money, and wherever he celebrated his birthday, he was all over.
When the man was on a business trip, the woman sent him a message saying that she missed him, but the man did not respond for a long time. In the end, the information sank into the sea, and her heart died.
In life, almost every day is firewood, rice, oil and salt, and it is monotonous day after day.
If a man never responds to a woman's love, she will feel that life is extremely boring, and she will not feel love.
After a long time, her heart will gradually wither, and she will no longer have any expectations for marriage, and she will no longer ask men to cooperate with her in managing love.
04, love that does not respond is a one-man show
In "Rose Story", when Huang Yimei fell in love with Zhuang Guodong, she was like a warm rose.
With Zhuang Guodong, she is like an elf, with light in her eyes and expectation. She put all her attention on Zhuang Guodong.
However, Zhuang Guodong chose to go abroad for his own career. He ignored her passion, her love.
In order to satisfy his career development, he offered to let Rose give up her career, give up her family, and go abroad with him.
Huang Yimei felt that all her expectations and love in love had been disappointed.
What he loves is always himself. He never responded to the love that she really wanted in her heart.
Huang Yimei finally chose to break up with him.
True love is when a woman does not say a word, and a man knows what she thinks and can respond.
And not love, is that no matter how passionately a woman expresses love, the man will never see her needs.
In a relationship, the person who is not responded, like a clown, is writing and acting out a relationship.
And those, the love that is not reciprocated, is like a one-man show, which makes women feel extremely lonely.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
As once said: "As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win countless in the world." ”
Sincerity is the most precious thing in this world.
When a woman goes for love and gives her true heart to you, she must learn to cherish it.
No matter how busy, tired, or stressful you are, don't forget to manage love and respond to love.
Love will make you feel more happy, and it will also eliminate the tiredness that life brings you. Cherish the people who love you, and you will be happier.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.