Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
From the bottom of my heart, what does it feel like to love someone deeply?
Writer Zhang Ailing once said: "When I hear some things, they are obviously irrelevant, but I can always think of you in my heart." ”
When you love someone, you are kept in the bottom of your heart.
No matter what you do, I will always think of you, take into account your feelings, and care about your thoughts.
In middle age, men still love you very much, and the behavior of caring for you, a behavior: accommodating your feelings.
02. When there is a disagreement, he will choose to accommodate you
I have a colleague Li Shunying, who said:
In the ten years of marriage with her husband, there has been no quarrel between her and him.
We asked her, what is the secret to keeping the two from arguing?
She said that her husband was very accommodating to her, so she couldn't quarrel.
Whenever there is a difference of opinion between two people, he will take care of her feelings, humble her, and make choices according to her heart.
Two people who love each other, have different tempers, different life backgrounds, and different living habits, naturally there will be many run-ins, and there will be times when there are differences of opinion.
As Lawrence once said, "The deeper the love, the more demanding it becomes, so it is impossible for lovers to quarrel without will." ”
In middle age, a man who really loves his wife deeply is willing to accommodate her feelings when there are disagreements.
For example, when the husband wants to eat hot pot and the wife wants to eat steak, he is more than happy to accompany him.
A woman's happiness is more important than anything else in his heart.
03. Work hard to bear family trivialities and accommodate your feelings
In the adult world, we have long known that love is just an embellishment of life, and life is full of pressure and trivial things.
Middle-aged men, the way to love their wives is no longer to spend money before and under the moon, but to share.
The more a man loves his wife, the more he will try to take on the trivial matters of the family and take care of his wife's feelings.
When she comes home from work every day and sees a chaotic home, she will not complain that she sees that her children have not cleaned up the house. Instead, I will think about her, I must be too tired at home to clean up.
Putting down his computer bag, he began to put away the toys on the sofa, arrange the folded clothes, and clean the dishes and chopsticks in the sink.
Although, after a day's work, my feet are too tired to lift, and my waist is too tired to straighten, I still try my best to take on some housework.
Allowing her wife to rest at home can make her feel more relaxed.
The way a middle-aged man loves his wife is to learn to share the burden and make her live easier.
04. Accommodate your feelings
People who love you will see you as a part of their lives.
Someone who doesn't love you will only make you accommodate him, contribute to him, and pay for him.
In "Spring Lover", after Chen Maidong fell in love with Zhuang Jie, he has been taking care of her feelings.
Once, Zhuang Jie's ex-boyfriend invited Zhuang Jie to dinner at a restaurant, and he went to answer the phone again and again and left the door open.
Zhuang Jie, who was thinly dressed, was shivering by the cold north wind, but he never saw it.
When Chen Maidong arrived at the restaurant, he took off his coat and put it on her lap. Moreover, thoughtfully close the door of the restaurant to avoid the wind blowing on Zhuang Jie's disabled leg.
A man who truly loves you deeply, whether in front of or behind people, he will accommodate your feelings.
Even in middle age, his love for you has never changed, and it has never faded in color.
His eyes can see your needs and take care of your feelings.
He will give you a delicate tenderness, give you a firm preference, and make you feel that you can rely on him at any time.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
In the "People's Daily", there is such a sentence: "The best relationship is to grow together, nourish each other, appreciate each other, and achieve each other." ”
In a love, a man can accommodate your feelings, and a woman does not forget to give back a sincere heart.
Good love comes from the efforts and maintenance of both parties. Don't ignore a man's feelings just because he accommodates you, just because he is inferior.
With each other, learn to exchange sincerity and accommodate each other, and love will grow more lushly.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.