Why does a man help the mistress deal with his wife after cheating? Three very practical reasons!
What kind of extramarital affair is the most desperate for the original partner?
The man not only cheated on the mistress, but also chose to stand on the mistress's side after being discovered.
The wife wants to target the mistress, and the cheating man is the first to jump out to protect the mistress.
You don't know where to start, and you can't pose any threat to Xiao San.
Xiao San has no fear, and he will provoke the original partner, which is what makes the original partner the most painful.
It should have been her closest people, to help the people who destroyed her family.
If the wife wants to solve this problem, you have to know why the cheating man is very good.
The cheating man helps the mistress deal with his wife? It's for three very practical reasons!
The first reason is that the cheating man doesn't want the mistress to leave, he wants a threesome.
What a cheating man wants most must be marriage and extramarital affairs in parallel.
The red flag in the family does not fall, the wife takes care of the elderly and children, and the marriage is very happy and stable.
The colorful flags outside fluttered, and the junior met his need for freshness and gave him the enjoyment of love.
If the original match is aimed at the mistress, it is difficult for the cheating man to keep the mistress if he does not help the mistress.
In order to be able to keep the mistress and maintain the threesome relationship, the cheating man will take the initiative to help the mistress.
Because cheating men don't want to divorce, many mistresses will want to leave when they know about it.
At this time, the cheating man needs to behave to make Xiao San feel that she still has hope of being on top.
So the original partner found a mistress, and the cheating man helped the mistress,
This kind of behavior will give the mistress the illusion that the cheating man loves the mistress and does not love the original partner.
The juniors will always think that whoever the cheating man loves is the winning party.
If the wives have no love, they will soon be unbearable, and if they choose to divorce, they will be able to take the throne.
If you want to solve the extramarital affair, the wives must learn to debunk the cheating man and let the mistress be completely disappointed.
The cheating man originally did this to keep the mistress, but after it was debunked, he naturally couldn't keep it.
The second reason is to use the hands of the junior to suppress the original partner and seek benefits for himself.
Why does a cheating man help the original partner? Su Yue's contact with the rails, several cases of derailment, are similar situations.
There is a big contradiction between the original partner and the cheating man in marriage.
The cheating man has also been in a low position and is controlled by his wife,
He felt unconvinced, and felt that his wife was not good to him, and he had resentment in his heart.
So I want to take revenge on my wife, and I want to borrow the hand of the junior to suppress my wife.
Wives have to learn to fight back a little bit, don't give cheating men a chance to suppress you.
Don't think that if a cheating man and a mistress deal with you together, you will definitely fall behind.
This needs to be noted, why did he borrow Xiao San's hand to do this?
Because cheating men are very inward-looking, they are actually very weak-hearted, and they don't dare to do it directly.
They did not dare to directly suppress their wives, for fear of provoking a counterattack from their wives.
They will only find a way to use Xiao San's hand to secretly use Xiao San to deal with his wife.
Many of the original partners may not be found at all, and the cheating man is helping the mistress.
If you come into contact with the junior, the junior's attack on you is an attack on your pain points.
It's not that this junior is so powerful, and he analyzes you clearly.
Instead, the cheating man helped the mistress and told the mistress about his analysis of you.
The person next to your pillow, the person who knows you best, will naturally become the most painful knife to you.
The third reason, the special psychology, enjoys the feelings of two women competing for him.
Many men's three views are problematic, and the reason for their cheating is also abnormal.
They are simply enjoying, two women competing for his feelings.
So they help the mistress, just because the mistress is weaker than the original partner, they want to balance the relationship.
Otherwise, Xiao San was directly solved by his wife, and he would not be able to enjoy it.
This kind of cheating man, the wives either directly hold it and make him dare not think crookedly.
Either you're sure you don't have the ability, and you don't want to intrigue with cheating men every day.
Then divorce in time to stop the loss, don't fall into the abyss of extramarital affairs.
Many cheating men are far worse than wives think.
Su Yue suggests that when you think about where your marriage is going,
Don't just think about whether the man was very good to you before, you have to look more at him after cheating,
Because many men will disguise, and their previous kindness to their wives is disguised.
Not out of love, but out of purposefulness to maintain marriage.
After they cheated, they exposed their true colors, and they didn't love their wives and hurt their true colors in turn.
If you have the means to manipulate him, you don't care what he is like, you can continue the marriage.
If you can't, then don't embarrass yourself and don't let yourself be constantly hurt.
Your life is not only about this marriage, you have a lot of good things, don't delay your life for the wrong person.
Why can't you solve an extramarital affair?
Because in the face of seemingly difficult things, I always dare not face the difficulties and find ways to delay time.
In fact, I hope that things will drag on and solve them by myself.
Many original partners are this kind of mentality, the small tribula is separated, and the cheating man is irretrievable.
Then drag it out and don't do it, hoping that the cheating man will quarrel with the mistress, and the quarrel will break up, and the extramarital affair will automatically end.
The reality is that without external intervention, the cheating man and the mistress will only live more freely and happily,
The probability of the internal disintegration of the extramarital affair is very small, and the original partner will not wait for the end of the affair, but may wait until the end of his marriage.
So you have to learn to solve problems and learn to fight for the results you want.
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