Why do men cheat a second time? There are three reasons why he and Xiao San's old relationship is rekindled!
Many men will cheat on them a second time, or even multiple times.
The object of their cheating again is still the junior who broke up before.
Why do cheating men do this? Is it because of love with the mistress?
In fact, it is not, the third party before a man will cheat for the second time is often for three reasons.
Wives need to find the reason and solve this reason in order to put an end to the second cheating.
There are three reasons why the cheating man and the mistress can't escape the rekindling of their old relationship!
The first reason is that the cheating man and the mistress have feelings, but they just broke up but the relationship did not break.
After many men cheat, the way their wives settle their extramarital affairs is coercion and inducement.
The goal is to let the cheating man return to the family, not to fundamentally solve the problem of the cheating man and the breakup.
This has led to many cheating men, who have indeed broken up with the junior, but the relationship is still there.
He was forced to break up under various pressures, not because he had any opinions on Xiao San himself.
Therefore, it is easy for cheating men to rekindle old feelings, because they can rekindle old feelings.
Many original couples do not attach importance to emotional separation when they solve extramarital affairs.
Compared to letting the cheating man and the mistress break up emotionally, and finally choose to break up.
The starting point of the wives is more of a spatial separation.
Let the cheating man and the mistress say that they will break up, and it will be okay not to meet in the future.
This has led to many cheating men who are disobedient, and they did break up with the mistress.
But tell the mistress that the breakup is a last resort, or love the mistress.
When there is a chance in the future, the wife will not hold on to the extramarital affair so much.
The cheating man must go to the junior, because before the cheating man, the junior will probably accept the cheating man.
Therefore, if you cut off the affair in the extramarital affair, it will be difficult to completely solve the extramarital affair.
The second reason is that the wife's attitude after the man's return leads to the man's second cheating.
The wife's punishment for the cheating man was too heavy, and he felt the pain so he chose to find the mistress again.
After a man's cheating is over, his wife's attitude towards him also affects whether the man will cheat again.
Many wives are afraid that a man will cheat on him for the second time, so they take strict care of him.
You keep him in custody like a prisoner, and he must be in pain.
It's better to continue cheating, it's all painful anyway, it's better to choose the one that has more benefits.
This is also one of the reasons why some men choose to cheat for the second time.
The wife forgives easily, and the cheating man feels that there is no price to pay for cheating.
Why do wives forgive easily? Because I care too much about this man, I care too much about this marriage.
Many wives are afraid, and after a long time, the cheating man is unhappy and chooses to continue cheating.
Or there are more conflicts between husband and wife, and life will not be too good in the future.
Su Yue wants to remind everyone that if you just don't forgive easily, the cheating man will continue to cheat.
It proves that he has not completely returned at all, and his cheating heart is not dead.
Then whether you forgive easily or not, he will cheat sooner or later.
So it's better to be strict and let the cheating man pay a certain price, but it is not easy for him to cheat again.
Because cheating means paying the price, and the cost of cheating again is even higher, so he naturally doesn't dare to cheat.
The third reason is the essence of cheating men.
Many men cheat because they naturally like to pursue excitement and novelty.
Or they have some love brains, and the wives can't stop him from cheating.
You can't change the essence of a person, so his second cheating is a sure thing.
In fact, many women, from the beginning of your marriage, are destined to have such a marriage in your marriage.
It's not that after the man gets married, the woman doesn't manage the marriage, so the man has gone bad.
Or maybe the conditions in the family are good, and the man begins to have the idea of cheating.
They have always had problems with their nature, and they did not dare to expose it before.
also wants to coax his wife to get married, wants to coax his wife to have children, and pays him wholeheartedly.
He naturally didn't dare to expose his true face, and when the marriage was stable, his wife would not divorce easily, and the essential problem would be exposed.
What if you find out that he is the essence of the problem, and you still can't get a divorce?
On the one hand, you have to lower your expectations of him, not because he keeps getting hurt.
Because this man can't be changed, you have to be clear about that.
He's just going to cheat all the time, and it's important that you don't get hurt because of that.
On the other hand, a little bit of the solution is not the reason for divorce.
If you are not financially independent, you should use the resources of marriage to improve yourself and strive for economic independence.
Emotionally reluctant, I was hurt little by little, and let myself slowly hurt so much that I was willing to give up.
You can get stuck in the quagmire for a short time, but you can't never come out.
For the original partner who has encountered cheating, there are only two ways to solve his predicament.
One is to be decisive and straightforward, and divorce directly.
After discovering the extramarital affair, react decisively,
Take advantage of the defenselessness of the cheating man to collect conclusive evidence of cheating,
Organize the property-related information, coerce and induce the agreement to divorce to fight for more property,
The cheating man did not cooperate, and directly brought evidence to the cheating man to court.
The other is not to divorce, then you must separate the mistress and maintain the marital relationship.
There is evidence of cheating and confronting the cheating man, so that the cheating man must admit to cheating,
Grasp the handle of the cheating man, and force the cheating man to stand in line for marriage instead of the mistress,
Then it is to clean up the mistress, which plays the role of killing chickens and setting an example for monkeys, so that the cheating man is in awe of the original partner and does not dare to cheat again.
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