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A marriage trouble in Shandong has recently attracted widespread attention. The groom was stripped naked and tied to a lamp pole, and the wedding troublemakers sprayed him with a sprinkler high-pressure water cannon and swept the road, causing road congestion and affecting public order. Such a scene makes people ask: Is the marriage trouble to add joy or to create chaos?
Marriage troubles are part of traditional customs, and their original intention may be to bring blessings and joy to the newlyweds. In the past, a moderate amount of wedding trouble could liven up the wedding atmosphere and allow family and friends to share the joy of the couple. However, today's marriage troubles often go to extremes and turn into farces and even tragedies.
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Take this wedding trouble in Shandong as an example, spraying the groom with a high-pressure water gun, where is this blessing? It's just abuse. Tie the groom to a lamp pole, which not only sweeps the groom's dignity, but also brings a bad visual impact to passers-by. What's more, the marriage troubles also lead to road congestion and affect public order. This is no longer just a private wedding farce, but has risen to the level of affecting the public interest of society.
Excessive marital troubles will not only make the couple feel embarrassed and painful, but also make the relatives and friends attending the wedding feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. More importantly, it will also undermine social order and good customs and bring negative impacts to society. So, why do marriage troubles become so excessive?
On the one hand, some people's misunderstanding of traditional customs is an important reason for excessive marriage troubles. They believe that the more lively the wedding is, the better, and the crazier the better, the more they can express their blessings. As a result, they disregarded the feelings of the newcomers and wantonly carried out all kinds of excesses. This misunderstanding of traditional customs makes marriage troubles lose their original meaning and become a vulgar form of entertainment.
On the other hand, the impetuousness of the social atmosphere is also a factor in the excessive marital trouble. In today's society, people pursue excitement and novelty, and often ignore the connotation and value of traditional customs. Marriage troubles have become a stage for some people to show their "creativity" and "personality", and they do not hesitate to use all kinds of extreme means in order to attract attention. This impetuous social atmosphere makes marriage troubles more and more outrageous.
In addition, the lack of legal awareness is also a problem of excessive marital troubles. Many people don't realize that their actions may have been illegal when they get married. They believe that marital trouble is a private act, and as long as it does not cause serious consequences, no one will be held accountable. However, in fact, excessive marital troubles may involve legal issues such as insults, defamation, and infringement of personal rights. If it is not stopped, it will bring greater harm to society.
It is necessary to strengthen the correct publicity and guidance of traditional customs. Let people understand the true meaning and value of marriage troubles, and understand the importance of moderate marriage troubles. Through various media channels, we will popularize the correct way of marriage trouble to the public, so that everyone can establish a correct concept of marriage trouble. It is necessary to create a good social atmosphere. Advocate a civilized, healthy and positive wedding culture, and abandon impetuous and vulgar entertainment. Let people pay attention to the values of modern civilization while respecting traditional customs.
In short, marriage trouble is a traditional custom, but it cannot be an excuse for us to indulge ourselves and undermine social order and good customs. We should treat marriage troubles correctly and let them return to the essence of blessing the couple and adding joy. Only in this way can we give new vitality to traditional customs in modern society.