Do you still remember the actor Gao Xiumin, who spoke Northeast dialect on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and partnered with Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei to perform sketches?
Do the classic lines of "flicker, flicker" instantly pull you back to that era full of laughter?
It's a pity that this artist who brought us laughter and laughter died of a heart attack in 2005 and left us forever.
Many years later, her lover He Qingkui said something in an interview that made people sigh: If only she had found out that she was lying, then what did Gao Xiumin lie to He Qingkui?
Sudden bad news
One day on August 18, 2005, He Qingkui's mobile phone suddenly rang.
As soon as it was connected, there was a burst of crying, and He Qingkui "chuckled" in his heart, and an ominous premonition came to his heart.
"Teacher He, come back quickly, Sister Xiumin...... She's gone......" Hu's voice came from the phone, making He Qingkui's head "buzz".
"Gone? Where did it go? Can you make it clear? He Qingkui's voice trembled, he didn't dare to think about the worst Hu result.
The person on the other end of the phone tried to calm down, but his voice was still crying: "Sister Xiumin had a heart attack and has passed away." ”
He Qingkui stood up suddenly, the phone slipped from his hand and fell to the ground, but he couldn't care about it anymore. Xiumin called him a few days ago and said that everything was fine, why did he leave suddenly?
He Qingkui's heart was in a mess, he stumbled and packed a few clothes, didn't even take his suitcase, and rushed out of the house directly.
The sentence on the phone kept echoing in my mind, "Sister Xiumin, she's gone"
When He Qingkui rushed to Changchun in a hurry, what he saw was Xiumin's body, she was lying there quietly, without a trace of blood on her face, as if she was just asleep.
He Qingkui couldn't hold back any longer, he knelt down in front of Xiumin's body and burst into tears. He remembered the scene when the two first met, the days and nights when the two created together, and Xiumin's hearty laughter and warm words.
He Qingkui was full of remorse, he hated why he listened to Xiumin's lies, he hated why he came back so late, if he could have come back earlier, maybe Xiumin would not have died.
A golden partner in your career
Gao Xiumin became famous with a play "Red Lantern" when he was a teenager and became a well-known actor. Later, he was selected by the folk art troupe and became the pillar of the art troupe, and his future is limitless.
As for He Qingkui's father, a man who fished on the Songhua River, he also sold vegetables not far from the art troupe, getting up early and working late to make a living.
The first time the two intersected was at He Qingkui's vegetable stall, don't look at He Qingkui worrying about his livelihood all day long, but he has a dream of writing.
It's just that at that time, no one didn't read what he wrote, let alone make money, but what he recognized was like a road to the dark.
Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, and when he heard that the county's folk art troupe was going to rehearse a new program, he thought about trying his luck and handed over the script "Who Marries Whom" he wrote.
The script is written about the marriage of two families in the countryside, but a bunch of jokes about the bride price, the language is humorous, and the plot is also down-to-earth, He Qingkui is still quite confident in this script.
But when the script was sent to the art troupe, people heard that the person who wrote the script was just a vegetable seller, so they didn't even look at it, and just threw it aside.
He Qingkui's heart suddenly reached the bottom, and he was depressed and about to throw the script he wrote into the trash, when Gao Xiumin appeared.
Although she was the pillar of the art troupe at the time, she was a warm-hearted person, and when she saw He Qingkui's depressed appearance, she asked him if something had happened.
He Qingkui held on to the last hope, and directly handed the script to Gao Xiumin, Gao Xiumin also likes this kind of down-to-earth script, the two hit it off, and decided to play this on the spot.
With Gao Xiumin's wonderful performance, the script became an instant hit, and He Qingkui finally changed from a vegetable vendor to a screenwriter.
Since cooperating with Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui's creative enthusiasm has gushed out like a volcano, and he has created excellent sketches such as "Baggage", making a name for himself in the comedy industry.
In 1997, Zhao Benshan wanted to find someone to help revise the script, and when he heard that He Qingkui was a talent, he found the door.
He Qingkui knew that this was a good opportunity, so he recommended Gao Xiumin to Zhao Benshan, and the "Iron Triangle" was officially established.
They created and performed together, and left countless classic works on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, "Selling Abduction", "Selling Cars" and "Heart Disease", no matter which sketch is brought out, it can make people laugh out of their belly.
The love-hate entanglement of not divorce and leaving home
He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin often got together to discuss the plot, and after coming and going, the cooperation began to become more and more tacit, and the small spark of love burned, but one of the two had a husband and a wife, and this entangled love was destined to be not allowed by the world at that time.
Gao Xiumin is not only straightforward in temperament, but also quick in his emotional life, since his love for Gao Qingkui can no longer be concealed, it is better to have a direct showdown. So she immediately divorced her husband and was with Gao Qingkui regardless of her reputation.
Why doesn't Gao Qingkui want to respond to this passionate love? However, his wife suffered together, and they raised several children together.
In the end, Gao Qingkui failed the two women at the same time, he moved in with Gao Xiumin, and his wife did not get a divorce, so he lived together for eleven years.
Although this deformed relationship was tried at the time, Gao Xiumin and Gao Qingkui's wife got along unexpectedly well, not only as sisters, but even Gao Qingkui's son directly called Gao Xiumin his aunt.
It can be seen that the relationship between several people is actually good in private, and the two Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui also live like this.
A "white lie"
Originally, He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin's life was prosperous, but an accident that no one expected befell them.
On August 9, 2005, He Qingkui's eldest son, He Shuchun, was in a car accident in Guangdong and died before being sent to the hospital.
When the news reached He Qingkui's ears, he collapsed at that time, the white-haired person sent the black-haired person, which pair of parents could bear it.
The most sorry thing in his life is his wife and children, in order to be with Gao Xiumin, he ruthlessly abandoned the family, although the divorce did not leave home, but the children also suffered a lot of grievances.
But Gao Xiumin, who was far away in Changchun, didn't know about it yet, He Qingkui thought about it and decided to hide it from her first.
First, Gao Xiumin was not in good health and had heart disease, He Qingkui was afraid that she would not be able to stand this blow; Second, he didn't want Gao Xiumin to be frightened.
He Qingkui endured his grief and called Gao Xiumin, saying that something had happened to his son and he was going to Guangdong.
Gao Xiumin was anxious when she heard this, and wanted to go with her, but how dare He Qingkui let her go, so he lied to her that it was a trivial matter, and she would go back by herself, so that she could wait at home with peace of mind.
Although Gao Xiumin promised on her lips, she always felt unsteady in her heart, but she knew He Qingkui's temper, and she didn't want to ask too much, so she said that everything was fine when she was filming in Taiyuan, so he didn't have to worry about it, and came back after dealing with things with peace of mind.
Although Gao Qingkui warned the people around him to hide from Gao Xiumin and not to tell about his son's death. But Gao Xiumin is so smart, he learned the news from a friend under the side knock.
She understood that He Qingkui felt uncomfortable, and she wanted to do her best to help him share it, so she silently contacted the crew to coordinate the work alone, wanting He Qingkui to be more relaxed after he came back.
In order to accompany her lover as soon as possible, Gao Xiumin immediately bought a ticket for the next day and flew back.
After informing the nanny that she was unwell and was ready to go home to rest, she asked her not to disturb.
Who knew that when the next day came to the appointed time, Gao Xiumin still did not appear, and when the nanny opened the door, she found that it had been a while since she died.
The nanny tried to contact He Qingkui, but He Qingkui was busy dealing with his son's funeral at the time, not only did he not keep in touch with Gao Xiumin in time, but he didn't even receive a call from the nanny.
When he finally received a call from Chen Xianggui, a mutual friend of the two, Gao Xiumin had been dead for a long time, but the last bond between the two was a lie told by the other party.
Gao Qingkui cried loudly in Gao Xiumin's mourning hall, so grieved that he could barely stand, and he actually complained a little bit in his heart about why Gao Xiumin was hiding from himself.
But after thinking about it, if I had known that she was not feeling well at the time, if I had known that she was not in Taiyuan, if I had been by her side at that time, such a tragedy would not have happened.
It's a pity that there is no if in this world, and he can only continue to walk with endless remorse and longing for his lover.
epilogue
Many years later, He Qingkui appeared on the show again, and he still couldn't let go of Gao Xiumin's death, he said that if Gao Xiumin hadn't "lied" at that time, maybe he wouldn't have taken his life in vain.
However, this just shows that the relationship between the two of them is really deep, and things like this are not uncommon in life, we are always accustomed to reporting good news and not bad news, thinking that this will not make family and friends worry, but we forget that real care and love is honesty and companionship.
Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui, one is a talented actor and the other is a talented screenwriter, they have achieved each other and brought us countless laughs.
The Si people have passed away, but those classic works are still unforgettable memories in the hearts of several generations.
Remember to cherish the people in front of you, cherish the time you spend with your family and friends, don't be stingy with your care and expression to your family, and don't let the tragedy of yin and yang be staged around you again.
Information source:
Baidu Encyclopedia Gao Xiumin
Gao Xiumin and Zhao Benshan died suddenly before their grievances were gone, He Qingkui: A lie lost his life
In 2005, Gao Xiumin died unexpectedly, and 13 years later, He Qingkui revealed the truth: lying put his life into it
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