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preface
Life is like a play, and drama is like life. He Qingkui, a fisherman who once fought in the wind and waves, has now become a ghost screenwriter in the sketch world.
What kind of force prompted him to step from a fishing boat to the stage of sketch creation? Behind this twist, there is a little-known story. In his career, what key role has Gao Xiumin's appreciation and support played?
1. Unexpected encounter: Bole and genius at the vegetable stall
On an ordinary day in 1988, in front of a small fish stall in Jilin Province, Gao Xiumin, who was picking vegetables, met the stall owner He Qingkui unexpectedly. This seemingly ordinary encounter was like a pebble thrown into a calm lake, causing ripples and finally changing the trajectory of the fate of the two people.
At that time, Gao Xiumin was already a well-known actor, serving as the deputy head of the troupe, and also won the title of "National Second-class Actor". In contrast, He Qingkui is just an unknown hawker who has formed a small theater troupe in his spare time and performs in the streets and alleys. The status of the two is very different, and there shouldn't be too much intersection.
However, fate is so wonderful. When Gao Xiumin learned that He Qingkui actually wrote the script herself, her curiosity was aroused. She asked He Qingkui to show her a script, but she didn't expect this fishmonger who was not amazing to write such a wonderful work.
Gao Xiumin immediately realized that he had met a buried genius. She was determined to get Ho Qingkui a chance to take the stage, even if it wasn't easy. When she showed the script to the director, the other party heard that it was written by a fish seller, and she didn't even want to look at it.
But the heavens seem to be favoring this talented couple. Just when they were about to give up hope, an unexpected opportunity presented itself. A performance arranged by the province suddenly had a gap, and He Qingkui's script finally had a chance to appear on stage.
What everyone didn't expect was that this work from a fish stall vendor won the championship in one fell swoop, and He Qingkui became a celebrity in Jilin Province overnight. This success gave He Qingkui great confidence and also made Gao Xiumin see his potential.
In 1990, under the recommendation of Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui finally officially joined the county troupe and became a professional screenwriter. All of this is thanks to Gao Xiumin, Bole's insight.
2. Talented and beautiful women: the tacit understanding on the stage and the secret feelings off the stage
As time went by, the relationship between He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin became closer and closer. They wrote, rehearsed, and performed together, creating dazzling sparks on stage.
He Qingkui's talent has been fully exerted with the help of Gao Xiumin, and Gao Xiumin's acting skills are also more brilliant because of He Qingkui's tailor-made role.
In 1990, He Qingkui's "Burden" made the two famous again. They traveled to Shenzhen together to participate in the competition, and as expected, their work won the championship again. On the day of the award, the two were so excited that they went out to celebrate.
During the tour, Gao Xiumin had unbearable foot pain because he walked in high heels. He Qingkui found that the two of them were the same size, so he offered to change shoes with Gao Xiumin. This careful act deeply moved Gao Xiumin, and the love in her heart quietly sprouted.
At the awards ceremony the next day, when a large group of reporters surrounded Gao Xiumin for an interview, He Qingkui stood silently under the shade of the trees under the stage, looking at her from afar. Their eyes met in the air, as if an electric current was passing through them, and at that moment, they both realized that they had developed feelings for each other that transcended friendship.
However, the reality is always cruel. Although Gao Xiumin has ended his first marriage, He Qingkui still has a wife and children. The relationship was destined to be complicated and difficult from the start.
3. Love triangle: an unspeakable emotional entanglement
In 1992, Gao Xiumin finally made up her mind to divorce her husband. She started a new life with her daughter, and she was ready to start a new family with He Qingkui. However, things didn't go as smoothly as they thought.
He Qingkui's wife, Zhang Yanru, was a young man who went to the countryside and later worked in a livestock farm. She can be said to have given everything in order to marry He Qingkui, who is talented but from a poor family. Not only did she give up her job, but she also gave birth to three children and wholeheartedly supported her husband's creative career.
When He Qingkui proposed to divorce, Zhang Yanru naturally cried and made trouble, and resolutely disagreed. The three children were also very resistant to their father's decision. Faced with this situation, He Qingkui could only choose to move out secretly and live with Gao Xiumin.
This deformed relationship has caused great harm to all three families. Zhang Yanru raised three children alone and was under tremendous financial and mental pressure.
The children were affected by the breakdown of their parents' relationship and eventually dropped out of school to work. Although Gao Xiumin got his beloved, he had to bear the infamy of "Little Three", and his heart was full of guilt.
Over time, however, the relationship turned out to be a strange balance. He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin often brought gifts to visit Zhang Yanru's family. Gao Xiumin even called Zhang Yanru "eldest sister", although Zhang Yanru was very cold to her at first, she still maintained her enthusiasm.
Slowly, Zhang Yanru was moved by Gao Xiumin's kindness. She began to respond to Gao Xiumin's title with "sister". The relationship between the two women has changed from saber-rattling to mutual affection, and it can even be said that they are "sisters".
He Qingkui struggled to find a balance between the two families. On the one hand, he and Gao Xiumin co-created and climbed the peak of their careers together; On the one hand, he didn't forget to care about his original family, and even gave his eldest son a role in the TV series he created.
In this way, this "big family" of three adults and four children is maintained in a peculiar way. However, fate always seems to like to play a joke on people, and just when everything seems to settle down, an even greater tragedy is quietly descending.
Fourth, fate is impermanent: a sudden double blow
2005 was a nightmare year for He Qingkui. This year, he first lost his eldest son, and then lost his lover Gao Xiumin, who had been with him for many years.
It was an ordinary day in August, when He Qingkui's eldest son was in a car accident on his way back to his hometown in Northeast China and died at the age of 36. He Qingkui was grief-stricken and hurried to the place where the incident occurred to deal with the aftermath.
However, the blow of fate is not over. The day after He Qingkui returned home with his son's ashes, the bad news came that Gao Xiumin died suddenly at home due to a heart attack. This news was like a thunderbolt from the blue, making He Qingkui almost collapse.
At Gao Xiumin's funeral, He Qingkui was so grief-stricken that he even needed someone to support him to stand. Surprisingly, Zhang Yanru was also very shocked after learning the news, and specially asked her youngest son Dai Xiao to mourn.
The double blow of losing his beloved son and lover made He Qingkui unable to face reality for a while. He was reluctant to go home, worried that it would bring back too many memories, so he chose to spend a year alone in his friend Yan Xuejing's empty house.
During this year, He Qingkui fell into deep self-blame and remorse. He began to reflect on his life and wonder if he had made the right choice. It was only after losing the two closest people that he truly realized the importance of his family.
5. Return and rebirth: another turning point in life
After a year of precipitation, He Qingkui finally mustered up the courage and decided to return to his hometown to visit his children and grandchildren. When he re-stepped into the door of the long-lost home with a large bag of gifts, Zhang Yanru was startled by his haggard appearance. The once high-spirited genius now looks as if he has aged ten years all of a sudden.
Facing the family members who had been hurt, He Qingkui's heart was full of guilt. On Chinese New Year's Eve 2007, when the whole family sat around making dumplings, he tearfully apologized to the family. At that time, even the widow of the eldest son was present. Thinking of things and people, everyone present was full of emotion.
At this moment, He Qingkui seemed to have found his home. He decided to reintegrate into the family and make amends for his past mistakes. Zhang Yanru also chose to forgive and accepted this husband who had betrayed her again.
However, fate always seems to like to play a joke on people. Just when He Qingkui thought that he could finally settle down, Zhang Yanru also died of a heart attack. What's even more embarrassing is that she finally died in He Qingkui's arms.
lost Gao Xiumin and Zhang Yanru, He Qingkui's life fell into a trough again. However, life always has to go on. After a long period of adjustment, He Qingkui gradually walked out of the haze and regained his strength.
On January 28, 2024, He Qingkui, who is 76 years old, was found walking on the street with a woman of a similar age. The two behave intimately and look like a newlywed.
epilogue
He Qingkui's life is like a heart-wrenching drama, from an obscure fishmonger to a famous screenwriter, from an ordinary family to complex emotional entanglements, and finally to return and rebirth.
His story teaches us that life is full of uncertainties, and that both love and career can make us face difficult choices. But no matter what, life always has to go on, we have to grow through experience, and understand through loss, in order to truly appreciate the true meaning of life. #长文创作激励计划#
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