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With the continuous development of the times, the story of the Republic of China has become history, and their stories are still discussed and discussed by the world.
They are pushed forward in the torrent of history, the impact of the poor family on their lives is infinitely magnified, fate is full of mystery and unknown for them, because of the family, they began to have expectations for marriage, but the harm again and again has made the red face disappear, do you think that the death of such a legendary woman is a kind of desolation and tragedy?
Ruan Lingyu has been seeking love all her life, because the desire for love eventually led to her death, and the origin of all this is actually her mother, Ruan Lingyu's father died very early, and her mother has instilled in Ruan Lingyu how difficult it is for herself, and has always cultivated her with a "suffering" education.
Ruan Lingyu also lost herself in the difficulty of her mother's constant telling, because such a teaching made Ruan Lingyu have a distorted psychology in her heart, according to the Phoenix Network, Ruan Lingyu has always thought that her birth brought her mother misfortune, so she obeyed her mother's words, and was only 6 years old when she was taken to Zhang's house by her mother to start working as a domestic helper.
And a large part of the money obtained was taken away by her mother, and a very small part of the remaining was also handed over to the school by her mother, since Ruan Lingyu entered Chongde Girls' High School when she was eight years old, because she is studious, Ruan Lingyu cherishes this opportunity very much, and she is already very beautiful at the age of 15.
Ruan Lingyu was also favored by the young master of the owner because of her slim appearance, and she was also Ruan Lingyu's first husband later, because she was found to be in love with the young master, the Zhang family drove Ruan Lingyu's mother and son out of the house, originally thought that her mother would care about her very much, but she never thought that her mother also encouraged Ruan Lingyu to firmly grasp the relationship with Zhang Damin.
even took the initiative to make an appointment with Zhang Damin for Ruan Lingyu, if Ruan Lingyu was unwilling, she would keep talking in Ruan Lingyu's ear about her hard work over the years, Ruan Lingyu couldn't stand her mother's words and deeds, so she agreed to continue to associate with Zhang Damin under her soft-heartedness, and later under Zhang Damin's care, Ruan Lingyu also thought that she had found the love of her life.
But the good times didn't last long, although Zhang Damin raised Ruan Lingyu, but he was still known by the Zhang family's parents, in order to give a little precaution, Zhang Damin's parents froze all his money, and the profligate Zhang Damin lost his financial resources, and his temper began to become angry, and he often made Ruan Lingyu angry.
Sometimes if you meet Ruan Lingyu to refute a few words, you will add fists and feet, the first time Zhang Damin slapped her, but the mother on the side pretended not to see it, such an encounter also made Ruan Lingyu cold, and later Zhang Damin married Ruan Lingyu in order to get the inheritance of the family, originally thought that life could slowly get better, but only stepped into another abyss.
Zhang Damin, who got the inheritance, only squandered his family property every day, and in desperation, Ruan Lingyu had to enter the showbiz under the recommendation of Zhang Damin's second brother.
The photo is the cover photo of Ruan Lingyu in the publication "Good Friends", at that time, the makeup of the cover painting was more gorgeous and exaggerated, but in Ruan Lingyu's face, I only saw a trace of playfulness, without the slightest charm, which is also her special place, at that time, the entertainment industry was mixed, Ruan Lingyu was like a particularly dazzling white pearl, and appeared in front of the public without any flaws.
Therefore, many people like her very much, and the first movie she participated in has also attracted much attention, since then Ruan Lingyu has been running non-stop from the north and south, and Zhang Damin's only connection with her is money, it can be said that if she doesn't want money, she will even forget that she has such a husband, for Ruan Lingyu, since she was a child, it has been father's love, and mother's love is very little, and her desire for love will be more than ordinary people.
However, the first marriage will not only be viciously spoken by the husband, but also fists and kicks, and this husband, like his mother, is a bottomless pit that can never be satisfied, and the only thing that can make him stop is money, Ruan Lingyu is like an endless "ATM", responsible for all his expenses.
This gentleman can be said to have broken Ruan Lingyu's heart, just when she had no choice but to continue to sink, another man appeared in her life, this man was polite, not only cared for Ruan Lingyu, but also very gentle, Ruan Lingyu, who had not heard a soft voice for a long time, gradually lost herself.
In fact, Ruan Lingyu's appearance is very sweet, her eyebrows are crooked, which makes people very comfortable to see, and her mouth is relatively thin, and she smiles with a shallow pear vortex, such a beautiful woman, and a figure in the entertainment industry, in fact, if she chooses to achieve herself, it will not lead to the fate of a thin face.
Zhang Damin's nostalgia for Fengyue actually made Ruan Lingyu lose a lot of confidence in herself, but later Tang Jishan's appearance rekindled Ruan Lingyu's hope, but the world says that how much hope there is, how big the disappointment, although Ruan Lingyu has long known that Tang Jishan is also a playboy, but in the favor again and again, Ruan Lingyu still sank.
According to the records of global figures, Tang Jishan's power at that time was by no means comparable to that of a down-and-out young master, so with Tang Jishan's intervention, Ruan Lingyu finally reached an agreement with Zhang Damin, and the two signed a separate agreement.
Tang Jishan will hardly be absent from every event of Ruan Lingyu, not only will she be present in person, but there are also a lot of flowers and gifts, under such sugar-coated shells, Ruan Lingyu became Tang Jishan's girlfriend, and when she was really with Tang Jishan, she found that his temperament was not good, and he even had a very strong desire to control.
Tang Jishan asked Ruan Lingyu to do what she had to do, and even dressing up had to be done according to Tang Jishan's preferences, if something didn't go well, Tang Jishan would scold Ruan Lingyu, there was no appearance of love in the past, Ruan Lingyu, who had the courage to leave, was rumored by her ex-husband.
In the photo, this smile is sweet, like a bright girl, but she doesn't know that her heart is experiencing unbearable torment, Zhang Damin is dissatisfied with Ruan Lingyu's departure, accusing her in major newspapers and magazines, and even ruining her reputation with stealing, for the sake of money, he did not hesitate to file a lawsuit with Tang Jishan.
In the face of gossip and her ex-husband's accusation that she stole to raise Tang Jishan, Ruan Lingyu was physically and mentally exhausted, but Tang Jishan never stood up to speak up for her, and the cherishing that she once cherished was a self-deprecating joke in Ruan Lingyu's eyes, and Ruan Lingyu did not expect that because Zhang Damintian shamelessly sued Tang Jishan, but Tang Jishan's anger was all attributed to herself.
If there is a slight disappointment or a few quarrels, the once scolding will become fists and feet, every time there is a conflict, slaps and beatings will appear, as a female star, eat with her face, and Ruan Lingyu during that time can only cover the bruises on her face with heavy base makeup, even if she attends the event, she is tightly wrapped.
In addition to Tang Jishan, even Ruan Lingyu herself did not dare to face her past self, because she always did not attend due to illness in the lawsuit of this farce, which led to Zhang Damin winning the lawsuit, and the people's hearts were not enough to swallow the elephant, Zhang Damin not only wanted Ruan Lingyu to lose money, but also accused her of bigamy, and for a while, Ruan Lingyu was also subjected to unprecedented accusations and abuse.
An originally bright woman, but was tortured to pieces by two men, such mental pressure made Ruan Lingyu unbearable, and the last straw that crushed her was the betrayal of her best friend and Tang Jishan at the same time, because Ruan Lingyu's ex-husband came out to stir up the situation, so Tang Jishan had no mind for Ruan Lingyu, and even hated it very much.
At this time, Tang Jishan and Ruan Lingyu's best friend Liang Saizhen, because the two families are neighbors, Liang Saizhen's appearance is also very good, so how can the amorous Tang Jishan control it, Ruan Lingyu, who is physically and mentally exhausted, no longer wants to continue to sink, and this problem has become the key to Ruan Lingyu's decision to commit suicide.
Three sisters of Liang Saizhen's family
On March 8, 1935, Ruan Lingyu, who was only 25 years old, took 30 sleeping pills in the house, a full 3 bottles of medicine, which shows her despair and helplessness in life.
The photo is the scene of her coffin funeral, the scale of the funeral is very grand, her fans flocked to see it off, and there were as many as 300,000 people in the procession to see her off, if Ruan Lingyu saw so many fans who loved her, she might not despair so much, and there were 12 well-known film figures such as Jin Yan and Wu Yonggang to carry her coffin.
After Ruan Lingyu committed suicide, two suicide notes were exposed, also known as "letters of absolute writing", but in later reports, some people said that the originally announced suicide note was actually forged by Tang Jishan for fear of implicating herself, and what was later made public was the real suicide note, and Liang Saizhen also chose to leave him because she saw Tang Jishan's ugly psychology clearly.
A delicate woman like a flower, but reduced to a pawn in the argument between two men, in her love life, Ruan Lingyu lost herself and became an accessory to men, and the inferiority of her life made her choose to indulge herself in the "humiliation" again and again, which eventually led to her overwhelmed and died.
Her story also tells us that the charm of women depends on their own ability, it is easy to be cowardly, but it is difficult to overcome oneself and one's inferiority complex, and every woman deserves a better tomorrow, it is worth enjoying a warmer sun, becoming her own starlight, in order to illuminate that piece of the galaxy.
Resources:
Phoenix Network - Ruan Lingyu: How I want to be a new woman, but I am too weak 2020-01-07
Global Figures - Ruan Lingyu's True and False Suicide Notes, Issue 5, 2012
Beijing News - The Birth of a Legend and the Fall of Idols丨The 85th Anniversary of Ruan Lingyu's Death2020-03-08