Text/Mo Ran
What leaves is the scenery, and what is left is life.
Possession is always a fluke, impermanence is the normal state of life, all maturity begins with loss, and the world is impermanent.
There are no regrets that can be easily lost, no longer count on ethereal hopes, and to truly face life with enthusiasm and positivity, this is the real maturity.
We must believe that in the days to come, the sun will still be shining, the spring water will still be rippling, and our lives will be shining.
Life will always experience this, such moments, there will be failures, but also there will be beauty.
As an adult, you have to face everything in life positively, and complaining will not solve anything.
The world of adults is either trying to move upwards or getting bogged down.
The more you experience, the more you will find that loss is only the beginning of maturity, and that after experiencing loss, you can grow better.
When you really have no one to rely on, you yourself are your own ferryman, and one person can live into thousands of troops.
Although this process may be painful, it is a brilliant life to get through it.
If we lose hope, we will usher in more hope. Only by attaching to yourself can you become strong enough.
When a person reaches a certain age, he must become his own backer, accept everything in life, and then go on firmly.
In fact, sometimes losing is not so terrible.
You can't have one thing and one person for long, and if you are destined to lose it, it doesn't belong to you.
For the lost people and things, try to let go, we must be a quiet adult, not affected by anyone and everything, no one is worthy of you to be sad.
No matter how deep the affection is, it will eventually be light and light. In life, everyone is passing by for a short time, and we are also passers-by of others.
is destined to separate, then no one should look back, what leaves is the scenery, and what is left is life.
True maturity is the courage to face everything in life, to face anyone's departure, to still keep smiling, and to go on the road alone.
The so-called maturity is to face loss calmly, not to love in the past, and not to live up to the present. Look down on the loss and learn to let go.
In the adult world, what emotions are what lives.
No matter what you go through, you still have to maintain a good attitude and adjust your emotions so that it will not affect your life.
Maturity is about not getting caught up in passions, worries, and fears, and about putting your emotions in order to take control of your life. In adulthood, there are only two kinds of people, one is mature and the other is old.
A truly mature person has long since quit dependence, does not complain and complain, but heals and repairs himself in his own world.
In this society, it is never someone else who can really save oneself from fire and water, but the isolated but powerful oneself.
The more a person can face loss calmly, the better he can live, and living is a process of losing and gaining.
If you can face the person you have lost, you will be able to become what you want to be.
Summary:
In this world, there is never a single step in vain.
All that was lost sharpened you, and finally made you who you are today.
Life is a process of loss, but also a process of gain.
We can't control the loss, but we can learn to let go and grow in the loss.
May we meet a better version of ourselves in the process of losing and gaining at the same time!