There are always people who are precious people in your life; There are always people who are the garbage people in your life.
In terms of quantity, there are always fewer nobles and more garbage people. It is possible that if you go around in the rivers and lakes, the workplace, and the unit, you will be haunted by countless villains.
The villains we are talking about here are only for ourselves. Possibly, for others, they are not villains. That is, the standard for villains is different for everyone.
Here's an example. There's a spot here, and it's up to you to fight for it. As he ascended to the throne by unscrupulous means, in the eyes of you who failed and fell, he was a villain.
People are in the rivers and lakes, there is no need to care what others think, as long as we feel that the other party has affected our lives, then we might as well stay away from them and keep a distance from them.
These types of people are all garbage people in life, and talking too much is a waste of time, and blocking is the best choice.
1. People who are not good.
The biggest disadvantage of human beings is to see people who are not good. And this kind of bad root that is not good for others basically appears in the situation of "mutual harm at the bottom".
You are a migrant worker with a monthly income of 8,000, and he is a migrant worker with a monthly income of 6,000. When he knows that you earn 8,000 a month and earn more than him, then he will hate you and don't want you to live well.
They are all migrant workers of the same class, so why do they have to hate each other? The boss earns tens of millions a month, why doesn't he hate the boss, but hates the workers of the same class?
There is only one reason, others dare not target high-level bosses, but only ordinary people of the same class. The more the same class, the more serious the problem of mutual harm at the bottom.
When dealing with these people, no matter how good you are to him, even if you give your own life, others will not appreciate you, they will only laugh at you and think you are stupid.
Don't use your sincerity to test the human nature that is not good. Human nature, no matter when and where, cannot stand the test.
2. People who interfere with your interests.
Cao Cao and Yuan Shao, these two brothers are young, and they grew up in the official circle of the capital since they were children. It can be said that their relationship and relationship are particularly good.
When the princes of the world discussed Dong Zhuo, Yuan Shao also regarded Cao Cao as a guest. is such a good brother, but in the Guandu War, they fight to the death.
Cao Cao poured all his military strength, and Yuan Shao also used all his military strength to fight in Guandu. Their purpose is clear, that is, to kill each other and occupy all the territory in the north.
The two brothers, who grew up together since childhood, ended up fighting each other, why is this? Because the interests of the two sides conflicted, the two of them became enemies overnight.
If there is no conflict of interest, then both parties are friends, even if they eat, drink and have fun together, and share weal and woe, there is no problem. With a conflict of interest, it will only be fought to the death.
Hindering the interests of others is tantamount to violating the bottom line of others. Even if it's a brother, they will settle accounts, so how can they talk about other people?
3. People who affect your emotions.
When you get along with people, there is always someone who makes you happy, someone who makes you feel bad, someone who makes you irritable, and someone who makes you particularly entangled.
The people who make you happy are people with the same magnetic field and frequency as you. Getting along with it, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, there are no problems, and there are fewer contradictions.
The people who make you feel bad are people who have different magnetic fields and frequencies from you. Getting along with it will do more harm than good, and there will be nothing good except for contradictions and endless fighting.
A person's energy and time are limited. There's no need to waste precious energy and time on people who make themselves feel bad.
Those who affect your emotions, no matter how close to you are, are your relatives, but they are only obstacles in your life. If you get along, you will only lose and lose, but you will not be able to win.
The so-called "different levels, do not have to be strong." "Since everyone's level, concepts, and ideas are different, there is no need to say too much. It is the best choice to go their own way and no longer come and go.
Fourth, people who can only play on the spot.
I would have turned my heart to the bright moon, but the bright moon shone on the ditch. You are very good to others, but it is not necessary that others are especially good to you. Chances are, others will fail you.
Comparing hearts to hearts and treating each other sincerely, in this year, it is simply a luxury. Acting on the spot, deceiving me, is the norm in this year. There is no sincerity, there is only hypocrisy.
Honest people are kind enough and polite enough, so what do they get in exchange? It's just bullying and looking down on others. People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.
For those who have bullied us, don't have too many illusions and nostalgia. If you have bullied us once, you will bully us a second time, a third time...... So much so that countless times.
There is only zero and countless times of bullying. It is possible that if you forgive others and take a step back, others will think that you are weak and can be bullied, and they will try their best to bully you and kick your nose in the face.
The relationship between the scenes is like both parties wearing masks and talking nonsense, except for you to lie to me, I also lie to you, there is no emotion. It's a relationship, don't do it.
Text/Shushan has deer