With the rapid dissemination of information, parents are paying more and more attention to every detail of the school, and even speaking out on social media to question teachers' teaching methods and education policies, which not only makes parents feel uneasy, but also makes many teachers feel stressed
Many parents often complain when they find that the school's teaching methods or homework arrangements do not match their expectations, and they hope to protect their children's rights and interests in this way, which may also obscure the original intention of education to some extent, which is supposed to be a process of home-school cooperation, but frequent reports make this cooperative relationship strained
Some of the teachers were so distracted that they chose to respond to parent reports in a light-hearted way, even joking, "Dear parents, you can print your homework yourself!" This humorous expression, while ironic, also reflects the frustration and struggle of teachers, who often feel compelled to be "copeders" for parents rather than as guides for students in the face of frequent complaints
In this context, communication between parents and teachers is particularly important, parents want to participate in the educational process, which is out of concern for the child, but if excessive intervention, it may lead to educational imbalance, teachers need to freely impart knowledge in the classroom, rather than distracting their energy to respond to parent complaints, the essence of education is to cultivate children's abilities, not to meet every request of parents
In many families, parents often have too high expectations for their children, and every test score and every assignment is scrutinized under the microscope, which not only affects children's interest in learning, but also makes teachers feel invisibly bound in the teaching process
Some parents question the school teaching materials and teaching content, and believe that more materials in line with modern educational concepts should be introduced, which is reasonable to a certain extent, but if parents lead the process too much, teachers' professionalism and authority may be challenged, and the quality of education not only depends on teaching materials, but also requires teachers' professional judgment and teaching experience
Teachers' professional well-being is declining due to frequent complaints, and their original intention is to impart knowledge and guide students' growth, but now they have to spend a lot of time dealing with parent complaints, many teachers say that this situation makes them feel tired, even doubt their career choices, the original intention of education is diluted, and the sense of responsibility and mission of teachers is also fading
Children also feel stressed in this stressful educational environment, and parents who are overly anxious may exert unnecessary pressure on their children, affecting their children's mental health and academic performance, and children need a relatively relaxed environment to grow up in, rather than constantly moving between parents and school and taking on too much responsibility
By reducing excessive attention to parental feedback, teachers can focus more on classroom teaching and improve the quality of education, which is not only for teachers to protect themselves, but also for children to grow up in a more harmonious environment, and the success of education requires teachers and parents to work together, but this effort should be based on mutual understanding and respect
In an ideal educational environment, the relationship between parents and teachers should be cooperative rather than confrontational, with teachers showing their professional skills in the classroom and parents and families providing support and encouragement, both sides complement each other to promote children's development, and when parental involvement becomes too frequent, even beyond reasonable range, the essence of education may be distorted
In the future development of education, it is particularly important to establish a good home-school relationship, mutual understanding and respect between parents and teachers, is the key to the success of education, children need a stable support system for their growth, rather than exhausting energy in reporting and counterattacking, only in this environment, children can really grow up healthily
The essence of education is to impart knowledge and guide growth, and I hope that in the future, more parents and teachers can work together to create a better growth environment for children
Moderate participation can provide better support for children, while excessive intervention may be counterproductive, and communication between home and school needs to be based on mutual respect, and both parties should work together to create a good educational environment
It is hoped that in the future, education can achieve true home-school co-education, so that teachers can focus on classroom teaching, and parents can support their children's growth with peace of mind
Parents play an important role in education, but if they intervene in every decision of the school, this participation can become a bit deformed, teachers have found that parents often pay attention to their children out of love, but excessive concern may make children feel suffocated, many parents of children have high expectations, more and more anxious, learning becomes a burden,
When a child comes home from school, they may feel extremely anxious about a small test paper in the face of no longer a warm family environment, but their parents are constantly asking about his academic performance and pressure, which is not uncommon in many families, and children have to struggle between their studies and family expectations. Do you want them to be test machines, or do you want to develop their creativity and independent thinking skills?
In the face of parents' questions and complaints, they often feel exhausted and unable to focus on teaching itself. Is it to meet parents' expectations, or to really help children grow? In this reflection, they have come to realize that the essence of education should be to focus on the uniqueness of each child, rather than simply catering to the needs of parents
When parents become too involved, teachers' professionalism may be challenged, education should not be unilaterally controlled, but a collaborative effort, teachers need to be able to show their professional skills in the classroom, and parents should give support and understanding to their children in the family
In Zhengzhou's education sector, many teachers have begun to try new ways of communication, they actively communicate with parents face-to-face, share their children's performance and progress in the classroom, this way can not only enhance mutual understanding, but also help parents better understand the complexity of education, teachers hope that through such efforts, parents understand that education is not only a pile of scores, but also a process of cultivating children's comprehensive quality
Reform in the education sector has also been gradually promoted, and many schools have begun to focus on the home-school cooperation model, encouraging parents to participate in school activities, which is not limited to supervision and complaints, but also includes joint planning and organization of activities, so that parents can truly integrate into the educational process, through which parents can have a deeper understanding of the school's teaching philosophy, and can better support the growth of children
Educational reform is not all smooth sailing, in the process of implementation, many teachers find that there is often a gap between parents' expectations and educational goals, some parents hope that schools can provide more extracurricular tutoring and tutoring, while ignoring children's own interests and development, teachers in this situation, not only to respect parents' opinions, but also to adhere to their own educational philosophy, to find a balanced way to solve the problem
On the road of education, trust and cooperation between teachers and parents is the key to success, teachers need to respect parents' opinions, but also adhere to their own educational principles, communication between the two sides needs to be based on mutual understanding, rather than simple accusation and confrontation, the goal of education is to cultivate children's independent thinking ability and creativity, not to make them "good students" who meet parents' expectations
Every child is unique and their growth path is different, and the educational significance is to help children discover their interests and potential, rather than putting them within a fixed framework, teachers want to provide children with a free space to explore, let them find fun in learning, and stimulate their creativity and curiosity
Parents need to learn to listen to their children's voices and respect their choices and interests, so that the family environment can make children feel relaxed and happy in learning
The future of education needs more innovation and cooperation, the relationship between teachers and parents should not be antagonistic, but work together and support each other, through the establishment of a good communication mechanism, both sides can better understand each other's needs, and jointly pave the way for children's growth, the essence of education is to provide each child with the most suitable development opportunities, rather than just pursuing scores and rankings
In this process, there needs to be a balance between teacher professionalism and parental involvement, and education should not only cope with the examination process, but also cultivate children's abilities and qualities, and teachers and parents can work together to create a better environment for children to grow up
I hope that the future of education can return to its original intention and truly help the development of every child, let us look forward to this challenging era, education can create more possibilities and give children a broader future
