In the bottom of everyone's heart, there is a deep yearning and ideal about love, life often gives us some unpleasant jokes, Ruan Guoqin's story is such a touching story, she interprets in her own way what is true love and loyalty
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Let's first go back to the first acquaintance of Ruan Guoqin and Wang Wei, at that time, they were both young and vigorous young men and girls, Wang Wei's handsome and chic and enthusiasm for life soon attracted Ruan Guoqin, their love is like a flower in spring, quietly blooming, full of sweetness and hope, imagine that two people strolling around the campus, discussing the future, fantasizing about the family, that kind of fresh and refined feeling, as if even the air has been permeated with a romantic atmosphere
Their love long-distance run, enviable, the wedding is like a grand celebration, the two vowed, no matter what the future is, they will work hand in hand, home has become their common harbor, since then, Ruan Guoqin has become Wang Wei's most solid backing, this relationship not only allows them to support each other, but also allows them to find each other's courage and faith in a difficult life
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In the blink of an eye, there was a thunderbolt-like event on a sunny day, Wang Wei died in a mission, this sudden bad news, like a hammer hitting Ruan Guoqin's heart, the cheerful girl, instantly became silent, her world seemed to have lost color, leaving only deep regret and endless thoughts, it is conceivable that Ruan Guoqin cried bitterly, that kind of heart-rending pain, I am afraid that only those who have experienced similar experiences can understand
In this difficult time, Ruan Guoqin tried to get herself out of the haze by reminiscing and remembering her husband, she said to herself more than once: "I have to live, for him, I have to be strong," whenever she thinks of Wang Wei, her eyes will always be filled with tears, but she knows that tears will not solve anything, for the sake of the child, for her own future, she must cheer up
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In the next life, Ruan Guoqin ushered in challenges, children need to be raised, education is needed, the responsibility on her shoulders is no longer for two people, but the whole family, while working, taking care of the children, she is like a superman, desperately arranging time, exhausting every minute and every second, she thought in her heart, Wang Wei will be proud of me, but loneliness and longing are like shadows
On that lonely night, Ruan Guoqin would often turn out Wang Wei's relics, each of which was full of their common memories, whenever she saw Wang Wei's saber, or the letters he left, tears would not stop flowing, she knew that Wang Wei would never want to sink because of his departure, he hoped that Ruan Guoqin could be happy and continue to pursue his dreams
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In this way, Ruan Guoqin gradually got out of the pain with her own tenacious willpower, she began to be aggressive in her work, although life gave her a heavy blow, but she still gritted her teeth and insisted, she used her own efforts to fill the lost love, and answered the injustice of life with practical actions, in the end, Ruan Guoqin that friends saw was no longer the sad and desperate girl, but a confident, brave, and even a woman who had made some achievements in her work
Ruan Guoqin's story, there is still a missing chapter, that is, her future, life is slowly back on track, but in her heart, there is always a concept rooted, that is: "I don't want to marry again," not because she doesn't crave love, but because she thinks that the love Wang Wei gave her is enough to fill her heart, no one can replace a person who loves so much, and this love will accompany her for a lifetime
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Ruan Guoqin is a very wise woman, she turns love and longing into strength, in the process of accompanying the child to grow up, she often tells the child the story of the father, and those stories are full of selflessness, courage and responsibility, the child grows up in such an atmosphere, becomes more sensible and considerate, at any time, Ruan Guoqin will firmly tell the child: "Your father is a hero, his love will always be with you," and because of this, the family atmosphere is full of warmth
Ruan Guoqin found a new practical purpose in her thoughts, she hoped to inherit her husband's spirit in her own way, she began to participate in charity activities, give back to the society, using her years of experience and wisdom, she began to help the bereaved families, became the support of those who wandered in distress, for her, this is not only the continuation of Wang Wei's life value, but also the salvation of her own soul
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As Wang Wei's widow, Ruan Guoqin's experience is undoubtedly extraordinary, her choice and persistence are touching, under the power of love, she not only lived out her own wonderful, but also found a new meaning of life in the process of constantly creating value for the family and society, a few years later, looking back on the past, Ruan Guoqin will be full of emotion, but what is hidden in her heart is always a strong longing and infinite love for her husband
Ruan Guoqin's story, let us understand the weight of love and the meaning of life, in the face of loss, some people choose to sink, and some people choose to stick to it, Ruan Guoqin tells us with her own experience, true love is never a momentary emotion, but the need to use life to care for and inherit the faith, love is not a line that has no way but death, but an eternal bond, connecting the past and the future, no matter how the future changes, she is willing to protect this love in her own way
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And all this, as she said: "Even if I never marry again, she is still the concern and love that will always exist in my heart," such emotions have nothing to do with the flow of time, loyalty and love will shine at every moment, Ruan Guoqin's choice is her courage, but also her faith, just as everyone has a gorgeous love buried in their hearts, she is undoubtedly the heroine who goes on in the name of love
She used every chapter of her life to let us witness the greatness of love, and let us understand that the real shining light in life is the unyielding faith and the love in the depths of the soul
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In these lost years, no matter how bleak the future is, no matter how time changes, Ruan Guoqin's story will always tell us: love will not be blown away by the wind, and loyalty will shine in the heart